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Boob jobs!
« on: 23 October 2008, 03:24:04 pm »

Hi everyone.

I have come to realise after a few months of agency work that nearly every girl i have met from my agency has had there assets surgically enhanced! I was just wondering how many of you ladies have had breast enhancements and if so has it resulted in an increase in your work load?

Ive always had little boobs (34b) and Ive always vaguely wished they were bigger but now I'm an escort I'm developing what can only be described as a paranoia! The girls at my agency who have had their boobs done seem to get loads of work (especially the slim girls with big boobs,sorry to confirm a male stereotype here but that is what i have found :()

I'm pretty happy with my figure,I'm a size 8 and i work my butt off to try and stay in good shape but now I'm wondering if a boob job would bring more work in for me? I hate thinking like this and it makes me feel very unfeminist but its a fact that the girls who are a similar body type to me but have bigger boobs are getting more work at my agency! On the other hand Ive had clients who have had nothing but praise for my boobs and said that they love little breasts.

Its a dilemma!  I would be really interested to hear your thoughts and experiences on the subject.

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« Reply #1 on: 23 October 2008, 04:06:39 pm »
It's up to you, and I acknowledge this may be my personal preference for non-surgically enhanced anything talking, but if it were me, I wouldn't do it.

As well as the cost (including the time off while you heal) and the risks associated with surgery (including later on), how would it feel to think that clients only picked you because of the bags of salt water (or whatever they're using now) inside your breasts?

As you've seen, there are people who love them as they are. Being comfortable with your body is a bigger attraction for many than having paid to have bigger / smaller whatevers because you don't like it.

If more women have surgery, those without stand out more (in a nice way!) You could think that getting say half of the 'small boob' bookings is better than one sixth of the 'big boob' ones.

You could also look at your marketing, even if that means switching agencies. Does whoever is running your current one like bigger breasts?
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« Reply #2 on: 23 October 2008, 04:13:37 pm »
Hi there,

I asked this very question last week!!!  I am also a 34B and I love my body.  I wondered if implants would bring me more work and I don't know the answer to that question because I haven't been doing this for very long.

I've only ever heard of men's distaste for implants because they feel nothing like the real thing.  The girls on here were very encouraging that there is a market for B-cup breasts and I agree!  I talked to many escorts before starting out and I consistently heard that personality is the biggest part of the service, not appearance (within reason!)

The implants would last a lot longer than the money from escorting so you have to decide whether it's worth it.

You could also photoshop your pics to make your breasts appear just slightly larger than they are, just to see if your business picks up.

I'd also love to hear from someone who has implants to see what they have to say!

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« Reply #3 on: 23 October 2008, 05:18:45 pm »


 Thing is: even the best boob jobs 99/100 times still don't look real, and don't feel real. As it is, you are a size 8 and 34B is an entirely reasonable proportion.

 I had a friend who was a size 10 who worked in a strip club, she was 34A if that, and got them done. But the distinction is she didn't get them done FOR the job- She got them done because she wanted it for herself for about 15 years :)  They still don't feel right, but they look relatively good. Any kind of surgery to compete in a job..... There's a market for anyone!! 

I have heard from men as well that they don't like the way breast implants feel and prefer natural! You can always trade on your being natural!

 I've only seen one boobjob that looked astonishing and looked/felt real.

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« Reply #4 on: 23 October 2008, 05:49:37 pm »
Evie has already sort of said it but iwill say it anyway. 

If you want it done for you because you feel it will make your life better in someway thats fine but your not going to be an escort forever so you have to work out if its worth it. 

I think i will end up having a boob job oneday.  i have large boobs and now that i am loosing weight i can feel that they are going to end up someday like empty bags so my surgery (if i ever do it) will be to fill them up a bit and put them back in place when they work their way south.  I personally wouldnt do it to get more business, think of your personal life first.

I also suggest anyone thinking of having a boob job done watches one on tv first.  It is way more brutal and invasive than i had imagined when i first saw it and is part of the reason i know i wont have it done unless i really really need it.

As for not feeling real.  i know quite a few girls with them and they feel great, only last saturday i was groping a pair behind the bar i work in.  i always ask if i can have a feel once i know someone has them.  I also know 2 or 3 girls that look pretty real but that is mostly because they went for fillers (after weight loss, kids etc) so they are well in proportion to their natural size rather than getting implants to make them bigger.

The choice is yours as its your body but i personally wouldnt do it to boost escorting sales.  id rather get a real job.

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« Reply #5 on: 23 October 2008, 08:49:37 pm »
I also know 2 or 3 girls that look pretty real but that is mostly because they went for fillers (after weight loss, kids etc) so they are well in proportion to their natural size rather than getting implants to make them bigger.


proportion is everything. The woman I know who has great ones I think were fillers also, and are really well done- they aren't 'implant' sized and you'd never know.

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« Reply #6 on: 23 October 2008, 10:03:39 pm »
The girls at my agency who have had their boobs done seem to get loads of work (especially the slim girls with big boobs,sorry to confirm a male stereotype here but that is what i have found :()

My experience in strip clubs is that young guys and those who haven't been to a strip club before favour slim blonde busty girls because yes, that's considered the ideal for a certain kind of sexiness. Once they've got that out of their system their personal preferences can come through, which are at least as varied as the women there.

I don't know if that's any use, I just thought it was worth mentioning. Anyway, I agree that marketing could be a problem. It might be worth doing some shifts with another agency to see how it compares.

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« Reply #7 on: 25 October 2008, 02:24:36 pm »

Hi everyone.

I have come to realise after a few months of agency work that nearly every girl i have met from my agency has had there assets surgically enhanced! I was just wondering how many of you ladies have had breast enhancements and if so has it resulted in an increase in your work load?

Ive always had little boobs (34b) and Ive always vaguely wished they were bigger but now I'm an escort I'm developing what can only be described as a paranoia! The girls at my agency who have had their boobs done seem to get loads of work (especially the slim girls with big boobs,sorry to confirm a male stereotype here but that is what i have found :()

I'm pretty happy with my figure,I'm a size 8 and i work my butt off to try and stay in good shape but now I'm wondering if a boob job would bring more work in for me? I hate thinking like this and it makes me feel very unfeminist but its a fact that the girls who are a similar body type to me but have bigger boobs are getting more work at my agency! On the other hand Ive had clients who have had nothing but praise for my boobs and said that they love little breasts.

Its a dilemma!  I would be really interested to hear your thoughts and experiences on the subject.

xx


Have you ever worn a corset? No one agrees on whether or not they can permanently enlarge your breasts, and this would depend on figure type.  However, I've gone from a 38C to a 36DD by wearing corsets a few hours a day.  A plain one should set you back about ?100 and a pretty one ?200. They are also a nice lingerie item even if you don't want to modify your body.  They are also fabulous for back pain. 

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« Reply #8 on: 26 October 2008, 01:12:27 pm »
Being on the more mature side and having lost weight - I am still a big girl and will never attain my 'ideal weight' - and to be honest don't want to. My boobs are starting to do the saggy baggy thing and also some of what is still there has relocated to under my armpits. I have also never liked my boobs, even when I was 12 years old and started to develop.
Now so far I have not had any complaints from the men I've been with - but they have also not been paying for it.
I have heard about an operation where they make a keyhole incision and move the fatdeposits from under the arms back into the boob (this is in very simplyfied laymans terms), this is horrendously expensive at the mo, but it is something I am considering - providing i can afford it.

But if I have this done it will primarily be to make me happier about the way I feel about myself.
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« Reply #9 on: 28 October 2008, 07:52:55 am »
yes i agree with you all, it is foremost important that you do what is right for you, for your life but not because of escorting
and i am pretty confident that their are various men that like various breast sizes,

i have read in one other post on this a statistic, saying that the majority liked normal size breasts, and that the percentage for big boobs and small ones are equal, i don't know the exact percentages and who it posted and where it is posted.

i also agree and i'd like to stress the fact that proportions is most important,
it is just to keep a view of the overall picture, and everything needs to be in proportion (relation)

i also agree and think that beauty comes from within, it is what you send out, and how you feel about yourself that attracts your men, the clients etc.

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« Reply #10 on: 28 October 2008, 08:11:51 am »
i personally i feel mine are by far to small and i may consider to have surgery someday.
but what i was trying is to take herbal remidies to help them grow, i was taking soy insoflames and bit of black cohosh and that worked relatively well for it. but i am concerned and i am not sure whether it has adversary affects on me as well.
however i haven't found any negative press about it, and the shop manager of holland and barret said it is perfectly safe and even considered as food. and even my gp said he is happy me taking them, so all should be no problem.
however i have taken them for a while and felt as my field of vision was reduced and it appeared to me as my comprehension was far less than it normally is and in particular my memory seemed to be affected, and it scared me when i started to forget things.
my grand mother died a few years ago, she started to have alzheimer when i was a teen and i found it hard to cope with, and my mother is scared of getting in one day. i have seen how horrible it is and i don't know what i would do if i loose my mind.

i don't know whether it is an allergic reaction to the herb or my fears of blood clotting that is a real risk with hrt and phyto estrogenic components could be still considered another form of hrt. and i have heard a lot of horror stories of friends how got it described when they have been young, one almost had a stroke and has now a kind of sugar imbalance i think the opposite to diabetis. however i have read that the herbs actually should increase the blood flow and perfectly healthy.

so i am not sure whether there is any real reason, whether i am just overworked which i am and last week i did crazy hours on my day job and that i have a long commute each day doesn't help either.

however i took after a discontinued it for a while and at first i felt more energetic; oh bear in mind i was completely exhausted and i had worked on wednesday till 0.20 in the morning and on thursday till 4am in the morning, and starting at relative normal hours (thats also a reason i didnt find as much time i would have liked for my second job [escorting])
anyhow i felt much better after taking them on saturday more energetic more alert etc. back to life to speak.
however on sunday i took some more the normal doses you would take if you would taken them daily and i really felt bad, and i felt head ache, etc. so i am really not sure what is going on and what they do on me.

i can say they do help me to increase my bust size, but also i put more weight on and got in general bigger which i am not so happy about and worries me too. but the main worry is how it affects my mental health. and it was hard for me to discontinue due i really want them that badly to be bigger, and also i am not knowing what it does to my body.

i think i am much safer doing a boob job, than experimenting with herbal remidies

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« Reply #11 on: 28 October 2008, 08:13:03 am »
oh if somebody knows more about what soy does to the body, or somebody who could shed some light into the matter that would be great and very much appreciated

i am a bit scared.

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« Reply #12 on: 28 October 2008, 01:31:43 pm »
 Soy Isoflavones are a type of phytoestrogen. Some studies have shown it has anti cancer properties, and some have shown it to be carcinogenic. If you have had breast cancer in the past there may be a risk, as some studies have shown phytoestrogens promote tumor growth in animals.

Soy itself is quite a whole protein, and if you're veggie it's a good source of amino acids you might otherwise miss out on.

As for Black Cohosh, there's some evidence the placebo effect is in place here, but findings always have a lot to do with methodology. There's no long term studies but as black cohosh may have some estrogenic properties it should be used with caution over prolonged time periods as it may promote estrogen sensitive cancers like breast to break off and travel about the body (metastasis). Though black cohosh might instead be more linked with neurotransmitters serotonin and possibly melatonin so again this may not be so either.

All in all I would think any supplement for 'herbal' breast enhancement would be a waste of money, and at best would give you a placebo effect.

You can unfortunately market things for treatments they are not tested for, as in this case: we've got two estrogen like products, estrogen plays a role in breast development therefore they're boob pills- Slap a price tag on it!' Both ingredients may have their values for sure I'm not knocking either, but for this particular desired result I'd say it's massively unlikely any real significant change will occur and there is no effective clinical trial to back up any claim as far as I see. 

 I am going to keep mum now because I am about to go onto a rant about shoddy research methodology being used to market health or medical treatments and i'll just get all off topic  ;D

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« Reply #13 on: 29 October 2008, 08:46:50 am »
hi thank you for your response i was just scared and not feeling well
i think it is more being overworked than anything else