So I just recently got my boobs done about 6 days ago-- am hating them right now as I can barely lift my arms, but am sure I'll be loving them in a month or so!
My original plan was to take six weeks off from work, but I signed a lease for a new flat and basically all my savings and every dollar in my bank account went towards it, as they required a huge deposit and MANY months rent in advance, and the rest went towards my surgery. I basically had to work every single day for 3 weeks to make it work, as the whole thing ended up costing me over 15,000 pounds and I wasn't expecting that, I thought I was just going to be putting down 1 month + 6 weeks deposit when they ended up requiring 4 months. I don't regret it at all, as my lease for my current place ends and I needed somewhere to move anyway, and the only other option would have been to throw money down the toilet by short letting upon my return. And I absolutely love my new flat and can't wait to have my own place.
But I am very low on cash right now and a bit worried as I don't know if I'll last six weeks. Obviously I don't have to worry about rent for months now, but still need money for food, some new working clothes as nothing fits me anymore, shampoo, face wash, oyster card and all that wonderful stuff! I'm planning on moving out of my current flat a bit early so I was hoping I could get my deposit back early as well, but my landlord isn't having it.
I have regulars and clients who are already pushing to make an advanced booking for when I return so I'm not too worried about it being slow when I get back, and I have a couple who have requested seeing me before my return for just OWO. And even if I only get 4 bookings that first week that's enough for me to get by on for a week anyway. But I am worried about returning too soon and possibly setting my recovery back or having a client rupture an implant pushing it out of place.
For you ladies that got your boobs done, how long did you wait to go back to work? Did you wait longer than 5 weeks?
I'm also wondering exactly what the best way to phrase needing to be gentle with me the first couple weeks would be? Obviously not grabbing and squeezing, no titty wanks, but I'm also concerned about very hard penetration that could make my boobs shake, and my friends have told me being on top is an absolute no, and anything that requires having to support my body with my arms.