I used to offer a sub service but I would never allow them to tie me up, no matter how long I've known them. By the very nature, a Dom is someone that wants control over another and gets off it. They are turned on my inflicting pain, humiliation or degradation. It is possible that the situation could get out of hand if you are tied up and they are enjoying your struggling a bit too much. 

I am an owned sub, a proper masochist and my Master is a true sadist. Together we are very very extreme. He really gets turned on by really hurting me and seeing me trying to struggle and get free. Outside of this role, he is the salt of the earth, he is like 2 different people and would would never believe he was capable of doing the stuff he does.  I know this is different because its how we like our relationship, but I think I'm trying to say that you can't judge someone just by the personality they are showing you. I think of personal safety all the time.

Rainbow I didn't even realise that was an option, and the fact you say it could stop much business after ie coz I will be in pain has made me think it's more painful then I realise!He did mention you probably would want me later on so that you're not marked for later clients

Caning is very painful (it's meant to be, in a particularly 'stingy' way ), but if somebody has no idea what they're doing they could cause you serious harm and possibly scar you for life. I suspect ths is somebody trying to take advantage because you're new, and that's really not a situation you want to be in as he's likely to try to convince that you should go along with whatever he says because of your inexperience - good, responsible Doms wouldn't do this.

The others have covered pretty much everything I would have said, but it's not just a matter of taking the rest of the day off; you'll have marks which will last for some time and other clients won't want to see them. I would be charging per stroke, and if you decide to offer this service in future (depending on how much work it'll cost you) then I'd recommend charging a fair bit .

the fact you say it could stop much business after ie coz I will be in pain has made me think it's more painful then I realise!

If you haven't been caned, ideally by someone who knows how to minimise the damage, including marking, then you really don't want to do this...

Yikes I scream in pain when I have an injection lol I don't think this is the right thing for me to accept.  A bit annoying I just bought an expensive cane from Coco de Mer  however I will use it with a guy I have met a number of times and trust as in my private sex life I love spanking, slapping and strangling but it def is more from a playful perspective rather than a true sub/Dom thing.

Oh well and on to the next lol

LB X

For future reference, if you need a bit of kit for a client make sure they pay for it!

Either way, there are a lot cheaper options than CdM. My impact play stuff comes direct from China.

Agree with a lot of these posts. I wouldn't personally trust a client to do this. Be careful. I was literally tied up and burnt with candle wax quite a while ago, the wax was way too hot and he didn't stop as soon as i told him to & couldn't physically move myself. I have a permanent small scar on my chest which isn't THAT noticeable and i cover with make up but something like that isn't what you want and could potentially be worse.

Controlled S&M in a club like setting might be a more safe option...