Author Topic: Blunt emails (Read 3391 times)

Vichyssoise · « **on:** 06 July 2014, 09:24:47 pm »

Ok here is another one.

I have recently had two emails on AW and I couldn't say there was any thing in particular wrong with the content but there were no Hi or bye from either. The first was very curt and to the point and asking for my number. I eventually gave him my number, thought I would try and suss him out over the phone. The second put a booking request in and emailed just saying where he wanted the booking to take place ( hotel) and my number, again no hi or bye, how's your father or anything. Should I be wary of these kind of approaches or am I being over cautious?

mimi_ · « **Reply #1 on:** 06 July 2014, 09:32:50 pm »

Well we have very little to go on as it is, so is there such a thing as over-cautious in our situation? Not sure myself!!

There is the argument that sometimes it is hard to relay the intended tone of a message when it is put in writing. However, in your case you're talking about simple pleasantries. In my personal opinion, I would tend to think that if a guy can't communicate in a polite way when requesting a booking, he is unlikely to be a shining example of perfect manners in real life $:-\$

This probably isn't very helpful at all, as I don't actually know what advice to give - except to trust your spidey senses! xx

Vichyssoise · « **Reply #2 on:** 06 July 2014, 09:46:59 pm »

I didn't know how to copy and paste on my iPad but I have just learned

This is the first one,

hi Carmel Would you kindly send me your mobile number please thank you

This is what he sent because I hadn't replied,

i have emailed you before and although you read my email you have not replied. I am interested in role play and am very genuine. please reply. your pictures are excellent.

The rest where in the same vein.

The second guy sent this,

would be interested in meeting you on 16/07/2014 in hotel,liverpool between 19.00hrs and 21.00hrs . would need a contact number as will not have access to computer while there . my irish mobile is ....

I just wondered if this was a normal email, all others I have had are something like I would write myself.

mimi_ · « **Reply #3 on:** 06 July 2014, 09:53:58 pm »

Hmmm, I think I have to give the first guy the benefit of the doubt. He may well be a total dick; however, he hasn't been rude or abrupt. His first message was polite and his second was...irritating?

The second guy - well he was perhaps a straight-to-the-point kind of chap. Again he didn't sound rude. The message may read as quite abrupt but actually I think he sounds reasonably ok, according to that short email!

At the end of the day, this is your decision, nobody else's; just letting you know my opinion, which is all it is! Hopefully they are both diamonds!

M x

pussycat · « **Reply #4 on:** 06 July 2014, 09:56:23 pm »

Quote from: Carnal Carmel on 06 July 2014, 09:46:59 pm

This is what he sent because I hadn't replied,

i have emailed you before and although you read my email you have not replied. I am interested in role play and am very genuine. please reply. your pictures are excellent.

I personally wouldn't see this guy. I hate it when people feel you should respond as soon as you've read the email. Most of the time I can't respond instantly due to reading it whilst driving/on the go, needing to check my work schedule etc which isn't always possible to do immediately. He has a grandiose sense of self importance, plus with this type I'd be worried about boundary pushing during the booking. I know he was just asking for your number in the first email, but still I wouldn't like the sound of him after his second email.

As for the Irish guy, his email sounds fine, ask that he calls you for a quick chat and then you can gauge your feelings about seeing him better after you've spoken.

The_Lynx · « **Reply #5 on:** 06 July 2014, 10:06:15 pm »

Both of them seem fine to me, but the impatience of the first guy would irritate me a little.

MissTee · « **Reply #6 on:** 06 July 2014, 10:19:06 pm »

Both seemed fine to me too but don't like men who pester! X

mimi_ · « **Reply #7 on:** 06 July 2014, 10:31:43 pm »

Quote from: pussycat on 06 July 2014, 09:56:23 pm

Quote from: Carnal Carmel on 06 July 2014, 09:46:59 pm

This is what he sent because I hadn't replied,

i have emailed you before and although you read my email you have not replied. I am interested in role play and am very genuine. please reply. your pictures are excellent.

I personally wouldn't see this guy. I hate it when people feel you should respond as soon as you've read the email. Most of the time I can't respond instantly due to reading it whilst driving/on the go, needing to check my work schedule etc which isn't always possible to do immediately. He has a grandiose sense of self importance, plus with this type I'd be worried about boundary pushing during the booking. I know he was just asking for your number in the first email, but still I wouldn't like the sound of him after his second email.

As for the Irish guy, his email sounds fine, ask that he calls you for a quick chat and then you can gauge your feelings about seeing him better after you've spoken.

Totally agree that he could turn into a boundary pusher. Not knowing how long it was between the emails, it's hard to say whether he was being irritating or demanding. You're totally right though, this guy could also be seen as an easy candidate for the block button

Vichyssoise · « **Reply #8 on:** 06 July 2014, 10:52:47 pm »

It was literally over night, the first email was 5 o'clock in the eve and the second was 9 the next morning. I read it the previous eve.

mimi_ · « **Reply #9 on:** 06 July 2014, 11:15:16 pm »

Quote from: Carnal Carmel on 06 July 2014, 10:52:47 pm

It was literally over night, the first email was 5 o'clock in the eve and the second was 9 the next morning. I read it the previous eve.

Then he sounds needy. On paper it's not a massive concern but I guess my personal senses would be screaming at me to stay away! I think you already know this though

I don't know about you but I have this terrible habit of reading my AW messages when I'm on the go, knowing full well I have no time to reply. It's not really terrible but when you know that the sender can see you've read them and not replied, it's a very annoying aspect of the system which must give them a complex!

This one does sound like he would be hard work - although I'm still undecided!! Lol how helpful

x

Hotblondie · « **Reply #10 on:** 07 July 2014, 01:07:27 am »

If I read an email, I always reply straight away.

I think he was right to send the second email and he sounds genuine enough to me.
Between 5 pm and 9 am next day its plenty of time to reply to the 5 pm email I think.

Just sharing my opinion and how I do things x

mimi_ · « **Reply #11 on:** 07 July 2014, 01:39:38 am »

Quote from: hotblondie28 on 07 July 2014, 01:07:27 am

If I read an email, I always reply straight away.

I think he was right to send the second email and he sounds genuine enough to me.
Between 5 pm and 9 am next day its plenty of time to reply to the 5 pm email I think.

Just sharing my opinion and how I do things x

HB congratulations for replying to your emails immediately! Someone will be along to award you with a prossie gold star

caylee_k · « **Reply #12 on:** 07 July 2014, 04:11:22 am »

If you ladies don't want people to know you've read them and are using AW, you should subscribe to the long text version thing (that's totally not what it's called, yes I know)-- I love it, it's like 4 pounds for 3 months or something and when you get the e-mail notifying you you've received an e-mail it includes the message... then you can read it without them knowing you've seen it!

I don't think either of those sound bad, just to the point which there's nothing wrong with... I just hate the following messages:

"are you available"

"where are you based"

Ugh.

Bluetits · « **Reply #13 on:** 07 July 2014, 04:24:50 am »

Sometimes blunt emails with not even a Hi, even if they've done a booking, make me think they copy and paste it to lots of people and make random bookings. This has sometimes been the case but who knows!

Also not saying it's the case here but I've had lots of timewasters tell me they are genuine to try and convince me more

whereas I rarely get genuine clients actually say they are genuine lol. So I don't know, could go either way.

Erotic flower · « **Reply #14 on:** 07 July 2014, 07:51:22 am »

ive had to ask them to call to book, I want to hear their voices to get an idea of the person as some don't sound too nice and are rude they don't ever get a booking. The emails are just deleted like... I want you now /postcode/ are u local . I am a regular( ive never even met them) and the list goes on as you all know !

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