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Esme1994

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Bled on client, need reassurance!
« on: 18 November 2016, 10:13:30 pm »
As the title says I bled on a client! Had had some light bleeding and had noticed it on condoms with previous clients today. I have started a new pill so must have been spotting due to that but didn't want to cancel my appointments. The day was going fine until my last booking. The spotting had stopped and I was fine throughout the booking until the end when he pulled out and there was blood all over him!!!

I'm really worried that a bad review online might harm my livelihood! I was very apologetic and it was the end of the booking, he was understanding and had a shower but said he was very selective with who he sees.

Would like to know if it's happened to anyone else and just get some reassurance if possible!

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Re: Bled on client, need reassurance!
« Reply #1 on: 18 November 2016, 10:16:43 pm »
It has happened to me loads of times. I spot occasionally and it's not a lot so it's never been a bloodbath and they have all seemed okay with it. No one has thrown up yet  ;D
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Re: Bled on client, need reassurance!
« Reply #2 on: 18 November 2016, 10:18:45 pm »
of course it will have happened to others but you cant control what punters have wrote about others when its happened and you cant control if this punter will or will not write a crap review on you, pointless worrying tbh
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Re: Bled on client, need reassurance!
« Reply #3 on: 18 November 2016, 11:04:51 pm »
Happend to me few times, never had any bad review about that

I have had a bad review from a drunk person, but it never affected future bookings i received x

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Re: Bled on client, need reassurance!
« Reply #4 on: 19 November 2016, 10:54:49 am »
There's a comic series ( brothel girl comix ) of this exact mishap. Her more recent silly web comic. They're just little funny relatable slices of work life. In the comic when the man kicks up a fuss saying how disgusting it is she says 'how old are you' he says 41 and the comic girl gives a side eye to the camera so to speak lol.

If men are having sex with a women and find blood inexcusable at the age of 41 it's laughable because it literally happens, it's not we set out on that particular day like oh gee i want to bleed on someone today that'd be fun and not mortifying at all, I guess if you don't have a vagina they don't understand the schismatics of how we don't know we were bleeding (we can't feel it or predict it like a fart lol, especially when other lubricants are happening). It's one of those things that can't be helped. If all goes to plan and we take our week of work during our period great but sometimes the utereus is like SURPRISE MID BLEED DAY FOR NO REASON, change of medicine, diet, stress or literally no reason. Our services is as close to porn you can get so customers often expect that perfection but we can't have real life cut scenes where we just pause the booking without them knowing to rectify a bad position, a bit of blood, a queef, a giggle, a gross noise, an ugly face like porn can. Think of all the things that get chopped out of porn, they film for 3 hours & end up with a 25 minute film. They're having sex with a human being, a female one at that, with a reproductive system that sheds the lining when there is no baby. If they want to avoid i'm sure women who have gone through the menopause would be more appropriate.  I completely respect if they say 'Oh i'm not into period play can we call it there', but not when they BLAME you for the blood.

Ironically i've seen women dragged for bleeding and men call them 'greedy for working on there period' - When we work on our period there will never be any blood because we expected the blood so have a barrier in place. It's when we're not on our period that random blood happens (spotting).

It's in no way just an escort thing either because i've had multiple co workers / friends have blood mishaps on their clothes.

A part of being good in bed isn't just knowing some kick ass positions, knowing exactly how to work the shaft/clit etc. I'd say it includes being cool about the mishaps, having a giggle when things go wrong instead of being naive. If it's all in making another person feel good... just as we don't go EWWWWWWWWWWWWW GROSSSS when there's imminent poop from anal clients. That would be highly shit thing to do in the bedroom no pun intended.   
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Re: Bled on client, need reassurance!
« Reply #5 on: 19 November 2016, 09:05:57 pm »
There was a similar topic but it's quite old and I didn't want to bump it.

Just needed reassurance as I bled on a client! I had had spotting earlier on but it had gone by the time he arrived. However at the end of the booking there was quite a bit of blood on the sheets and his dick! Even worse is that he pulled out while he was on top and the condom came off inside me. So his dick had blood on it. I'm so paranoid he will write a bad review somewhere and it will effect my business.

I said it must have been from too much sex! He seemed understanding but I'm afraid I didn't reassure him enough. I have recently been checked including blood tests but I didn't actually say this to him. I'm wondering if I should message him? Has this happened to anyone else?

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Re: Bled on client, need reassurance!
« Reply #6 on: 19 November 2016, 09:08:01 pm »
Esme, it's really not old - you posted it yourself yesterday? I've merged it anyhow :).

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« Reply #7 on: 19 November 2016, 09:08:54 pm »
Sorry! Didn't realise my first post had posted as I was on the train. But yea I'm wondering about dropping him a message to say I've recently been fully checked as the blood had made contact with his dick.

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Re: Bled on client, need reassurance!
« Reply #8 on: 19 November 2016, 09:10:34 pm »
Esme, it's really not old - you posted it yourself yesterday? I've merged it anyhow :).

Thank-you. I meant another thread when I did a search. Thought I had lost the original post due to bad signal while on a train  :)

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« Reply #9 on: 19 November 2016, 09:15:15 pm »

It's in no way just an escort thing either because i've had multiple co workers / friends have blood mishaps on their clothes.

A part of being good in bed isn't just knowing some kick ass positions, knowing exactly how to work the shaft/clit etc. I'd say it includes being cool about the mishaps, having a giggle when things go wrong instead of being naive. If it's all in making another person feel good... just as we don't go EWWWWWWWWWWWWW GROSSSS when there's imminent poop from anal clients. That would be highly shit thing to do in the bedroom no pun intended.

Thanks for your reply :) in my personal life I wouldn't care at all, as you said it's a completely natural thing. I'm just worried because I don't want to have a bad review; I stay well away from review sites but find that side of escorting quite daunting!

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« Reply #10 on: 20 November 2016, 12:03:11 pm »
If you get a icky comment I find school of lifes video very sweet and helpful. 'Who are you to say that' and 'why are people so mean', they have a youtube channel based around philisophy, short 5 min videos that give you a smile. It really flips the perspective on bullies.

But as regards to it effecting business, i've had maybe 4 negetives over my span, never effected anything. I mean obviousley if you start robbing clients yea that'd effect things that'd be a big warning not to meet lol obviousley but simple human things no xx
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Re: Bled on client, need reassurance!
« Reply #11 on: 20 November 2016, 01:36:20 pm »
There was a similar topic but it's quite old and I didn't want to bump it.

Just needed reassurance as I bled on a client! I had had spotting earlier on but it had gone by the time he arrived. However at the end of the booking there was quite a bit of blood on the sheets and his dick! Even worse is that he pulled out while he was on top and the condom came off inside me. So his dick had blood on it. I'm so paranoid he will write a bad review somewhere and it will effect my business.

I said it must have been from too much sex! He seemed understanding but I'm afraid I didn't reassure him enough. I have recently been checked including blood tests but I didn't actually say this to him. I'm wondering if I should message him? Has this happened to anyone else?

Haha, if I were you I'd probably have said it's my period rather than too much sex! What with one being normal and the other being as a result of something damaging you.

But I've totally done this before, my period is usually just spotting too and I can't predict it. Anyway, it always looks much worse than it is.