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Adamas

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Items you can't live without?
« on: 09 June 2011, 10:05:12 am »
I'm feeling a bit ignorant. I figured I would learn as I go, and I am, but I think I need to pick up the ball a bit faster.

What items do you consider absolutely necessary for your outcalls (and incalls)?  I suppose this includes what you wear, toys, protection, small things that aren't even part of the actual sexy time.

Also, if you cam- what items do you consider necessary for a cam session?

Thanks for your thoughts!

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Re: Items you can't live without?
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Re: Items you can't live without?
« Reply #2 on: 09 June 2011, 11:51:46 am »
I always take...

Mints
Condoms (various sizes)
Water based lube
Make up
Spare set of stockings/holdups
Deoderant and perfume
A small selection of toys
Baby wipes
Antibacterial hand wash
Hairbrush/hairspray
Hand moisturiser
My mobile
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I have a secret compartment where I can stash clients money.

It sounds a lot, but a few of the items are mini size, so don't take up too much room. 





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Re: Items you can't live without?
« Reply #3 on: 09 June 2011, 01:31:39 pm »
I don't think much stuff is absolutely necessary. Condoms, money for a taxi, phone. I won't list the other stuff since we've had those threads before.

Nothing is absolutely necessary for a cam show (except the cam and computer and internet connection). If you're doing toy shows than lube and wipes are really handy, though.

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Re: Items you can't live without?
« Reply #4 on: 09 June 2011, 03:08:23 pm »
I don't think much stuff is absolutely necessary. Condoms, money for a taxi, phone. I won't list the other stuff since we've had those threads before.

Nothing is absolutely necessary for a cam show (except the cam and computer and internet connection). If you're doing toy shows than lube and wipes are really handy, though.

Yeah, I'm the same. You've got to have the essentials for safety & hygiene but beyond that I just bring my body, my brain and a big smile to appointments. If I did the whole putting-objects-in-my-vag thing or the squeaky-indecent-clothing thing, I'd bring a bunch of that stuff but to be honest, I'm very cautious about outcalls since they do often seem to involve many complicated requests (travel, outfits and toys et al) while simultaneously having quite a high incidence of timewasterage (or the client takes one look at you and totally forgets the elaborate drama he'd asked you to reenact with him!). So yeah, since I'm so much happier with simple incalls I usually give those sorts of requests a miss and save myself dragging a suitcase all around London!

I do plan to stock up on a few little bits and pieces for tie-and-tease soon but I keep spending the allocated funds in Waitrose instead. ;D
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Re: Items you can't live without?
« Reply #5 on: 09 June 2011, 05:46:49 pm »
No need to waste essential Waitrose funds on tie&tease paraphernalia Emily. I find a couple of floaty scarf type things such as I'm sure you will have laying around anyway do the trick.
Then you can spend your money on fancy Pasta instead as God intended ;D

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Re: Items you can't live without?
« Reply #6 on: 09 June 2011, 06:34:06 pm »
Old laddered stockings are more than sufficient for tie and tease.

I take nothing but a phone and condoms for an outcall - I either have a driver or I have my car keys.

For camming, just a big vibe to stick bet my boobs and pretending to use ( and a v small one for actual use).

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Re: Items you can't live without?
« Reply #7 on: 09 June 2011, 07:54:10 pm »
Just a tiny comment about using Stockings for tie and tease... The knots get really hard to undo so unless you want to ruin your manicure I'd recommend having some round ended scissors handy for when he needs to be set free. I guess Health and Safety (and common sense) would suggest you have them in case he panics/the fire alarm sounds etc etc anyway.

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Re: Items you can't live without?
« Reply #8 on: 09 June 2011, 09:33:59 pm »
My tip especially this type of year have a look at all the travel bags. There are lots designed for carrying all your crap while on holiday! I have one and i used to use it for college lol They usually have lots of compartments, some clear some covered. Always water proof/wipable material. My bag has 3 compartments and it rolls together, i normaly just roll my wet wipes in the middle. An instant ready to go kit bag  ;D

Wet wipes are my one thing I couldnt do cam or escorting without, i hate having....dirty hands lol  :o

My random kit item is instant coffee sachets...  although I always aim to take a bottle of juive;water with me sometimes you dont get the chance. I do not drink and would never drink on the job most guys only ever have wine lol

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Re: Items you can't live without?
« Reply #9 on: 09 June 2011, 10:28:38 pm »
I take  -
oyster card
personal phone (in coat)
work phone
lube, condoms
bullet vibe, prostate massager
taxi money (in coat)
flannel if going to house (not if going to hotel)
mints
hair crab clip
lip stain
almond oil for massage (which is often requested post sexy-times)

I don't take -
make up or hairbrush, unless it's a dinner date in which case I take powder, eyeliner and lip stain
hairbrush
moisturiser
perfume or deodorant

If it's a massage, I also take -
oil, candles, rosewater, incense sticks and tray, massage bar, bath oils, lighter, music#

Does anyone take a personal alarm or pepper spray??

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Re: Items you can't live without?
« Reply #10 on: 09 June 2011, 11:54:38 pm »
I always take a personal alarm, but to be honest I forget it's there, and I've never needed it. I think if I needed it I'd forget it was there anyway, so pretty pointless. I like the advice someone gave a while back of screaming FIRE, if you're attacked as it get's more response than HELP. I'm sure shouting FIRE would be better than my alarm too.

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Re: Items you can't live without?
« Reply #11 on: 10 June 2011, 12:02:10 pm »
I had to get rid of my personal alarm a few years back when I worked lates (vanilla job), as the damn thing just kept going off in my bag.  Highly embarressing.  Although I heard somewhere that shouting FIRE works better than help or rape.
I also heard (as a matter of self defence) if someone does attack you, hit them in the throat, as it immobilses them, you don't break you knuckles and have a bit of time to get out of there.  It sounds great, but I'd be concerned that I could kill someone doing that, regardless of self defence.

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Re: Items you can't live without?
« Reply #12 on: 10 June 2011, 04:18:13 pm »
my outcall bag would include: Elegent purse big enough to fit tube of lube and about ten condoms in three sizes, wet wipes, hairband, hair clip and 30ml bottle of shower gel, mouthwash, hairbrush, 150ml deodorant can, heels.