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Dynamite Doll

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Best way in saying don't receive oral from men
« on: 15 February 2017, 10:45:55 pm »
Hello ladies.

I have recently entered into a relationship where he knows what I do and is fine with it. We go swinging and I only go for women enjoy pleasure of receiving oral and giving etc.

I have decided to only enjoy oral pleasure from my partner and couple bookings. I hope I am not being confusing sorry if i am.

My results and his came back all clear. I would like to make this crystal clear on my aw page of not receiving it from men  but  I only provide/receive when it is a couple booking MF,  without contradicting myself. I have struggled how to put this.

What is the best way to say this.

Thanks in advance.

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Re: Best way in saying don't receive oral from men
« Reply #1 on: 15 February 2017, 10:48:13 pm »
I have no idea what your on about  ??? you want to advertise you offer what exactly?

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Re: Best way in saying don't receive oral from men
« Reply #2 on: 15 February 2017, 10:50:26 pm »
right understand now so like we all do, when asked do you offer reverse oral or any other service you dont provide you say no, have a tab on your profile stating you offer x,y,z, very simple

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Re: Best way in saying don't receive oral from men
« Reply #3 on: 15 February 2017, 11:02:21 pm »
Thank you that makes sense. Excuse me for going round in circles.  :)

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Re: Best way in saying don't receive oral from men
« Reply #4 on: 16 February 2017, 10:48:50 am »
You only receive it from women/couples?

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Re: Best way in saying don't receive oral from men
« Reply #5 on: 16 February 2017, 11:01:11 am »
Of course it's up to you to have this rule, but it will be confusing if you say you do it for couples bookings but not single men. You'll be asked all the time about about and it might not make logical sense if you allow a man to do it if he brings a woman along!

Why not say you don't offer it to men, only women. Saying you offer it in threesomes just confuses issue.

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Re: Best way in saying don't receive oral from men
« Reply #6 on: 16 February 2017, 11:04:31 am »
You only receive it from women/couples?
When I get a booking from a couple MF I am fine for his wife/ladyfriend girlfriend to go down on me and vise versa but not her male partner.

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Re: Best way in saying don't receive oral from men
« Reply #7 on: 16 February 2017, 11:07:47 am »
Of course it's up to you to have this rule, but it will be confusing if you say you do it for couples bookings but not single men. You'll be asked all the time about about and it might not make logical sense if you allow a man to do it if he brings a woman along!

My thoughts exactly why I am struggling in finding best clear way to put it. Simply I don't want to it on menue I've un ticked the box and proof read my profile information to ensure nothing mis leads in saying or hinting. Even updating titles of private gallery.

I only enjoy it with my new partner - when we go out swinging it's for him and ladies at the parties.

For escort work it's only for women who want naughty fun with their partner there's but he can't lick me.

Why not say you don't offer it to men, only women. Saying you offer it in threesomes just confuses issue.

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Re: Best way in saying don't receive oral from men
« Reply #8 on: 16 February 2017, 11:56:54 am »
I don't allow clients to finger me or use toys on me as they're both solely my thing, so I get that. I don't mind receiving oral.

Personally I'd uncheck the RO box and leave MF bookings on; you can discuss this with potential clients. I think its probably the same for most of us where you want to speak to the woman on the phone to make sure she is fine with it etc - so personally, I would say then that I'm happy to receive oral from women but not men.

If you see single female clients, I would imagine they would probably ask you that question anyway if it's unchecked. If MF bookings are a big part of your client list, you could perhaps add a tab, but personally I think it may be easier to just discuss it with couples directly.

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Re: Best way in saying don't receive oral from men
« Reply #9 on: 16 February 2017, 12:30:05 pm »
I don't allow clients to finger me or use toys on me as they're both solely my thing, so I get that. I don't mind receiving oral.

Personally I'd uncheck the RO box and leave MF bookings on; you can discuss this with potential clients. I think its probably the same for most of us where you want to speak to the woman on the phone to make sure she is fine with it etc - so personally, I would say then that I'm happy to receive oral from women but not men.

If you see single female clients, I would imagine they would probably ask you that question anyway if it's unchecked. If MF bookings are a big part of your client list, you could perhaps add a tab, but personally I think it may be easier to just discuss it with couples directly.

This is what I will do. I always insist on speaking to the lady before all is to go ahead.

I appreciate all your responses it has helped me allot. Thank you all xxxx

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Re: Best way in saying don't receive oral from men
« Reply #10 on: 16 February 2017, 01:17:06 pm »
Hi DDoll,

I would uncheck reverse oral on your likes, and add an FAQ (as you said you're talking about Adultwork specifically) to say that you are happy to receive oral from women, but not men.

I think the fact that you are willing to receive oral from your boyfriend is not really something you need to explain to clients, as I think everyone will assume that to be the case anyway  :) I think most know that what you choose to indulge in with a partner is not the same as a client "enjoys list" x
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Re: Best way in saying don't receive oral from men
« Reply #11 on: 16 February 2017, 01:53:39 pm »
Hi DDoll,

I would uncheck reverse oral on your likes, and add an FAQ (as you said you're talking about Adultwork specifically) to say that you are happy to receive oral from women, but not men.

I think the fact that you are willing to receive oral from your boyfriend is not really something you need to explain to clients, as I think everyone will assume that to be the case anyway  :) I think most know that what you choose to indulge in with a partner is not the same as a client "enjoys list" x

+ 1 on this. Uncheck the box, and add a FAQ.
Put the FAQ right at the top of your FAQs maybe:) I think most men who book will confirm you offer CIM or OWO but it won't necessarily occur to them to ask if you receive oral. Some guys just tend to assume that "all women love receiving oral".
Or, if you take bookings by phone, you may slip that info along with other ones during the conversation.

The boyfriend part is irrelevant. Plus once a year you'll get a moron trying to convince you he can do ten times better than your boyfriend. Ewww.

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Re: Best way in saying don't receive oral from men
« Reply #12 on: 16 February 2017, 02:18:07 pm »
I added the FAQ
I was not going to mention on my page the boyfriend this was only to you ladies to have an insight to my reasoning.

All is clear on my page now with the help from you lovely ladies. Guys will come through either way and the ones who really want to give oral will stay away. Just like the guys who want Owo they stay clear and I get the guys who are happy with oral with protection. x