i use coconuts oil for anal as lube

Do you use latex condoms?

yes normal condom.

I know you said you prefer water based lube but my all time favourite is ID Millenium, which is silicone based. They also make a water-based one ID Xtreme which I've been using recently and really rate. They are expensive but I think worth it.

I also sometimes switch to Durex Aloe Vera lube which is soothing if I've got a sore fanjo.

My fave non-latex condoms are Skyns.

i never had issue, never had 30min penetration so i do not know if make them weak but 10min sex and never had issue
never broke the condom

If you Google 'oil latex condoms safety' you should find lots of articles.

Coconut oil is recommended by cammers, but I won't use it in case I have a real life booking or sex at home (I use condoms with all partners).

It's well known also a reason to be careful with massage oils.

I also wear latex clothing and have to make sure I don't wear body lotion, skin is perfectly clean before dressing in latex as well as avoid oils whilst wearing. Don't want to damage my investments.

Google 'oil latex clothing' brings similar warnings.

I mostly use EXS condoms but use SKYN sometimes too, and I use Lubido original water based lube.

I've been trying Lubido, really like it. I use Mates Naturals and Mates Skyns, also Pasante Unique but they are quite different. I have different sized condoms too, some Mates, some Pasante, some EXS.

I love Sagami feels almost like wearing nothing

SKYN are my favorite condoms and I like Mates as well.

Silicone lube: I use Skyn and Eros.

I’m trying a new water based lube now Maude because I’ve been looking for a paraben-free, fragrance-free etc natural lube and I like it so far. It’s pricy though.