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sweetjuiliet

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Does anyone remember there first one?
« on: 11 December 2008, 05:27:00 pm »
Does anyone remember there first client and how long ago it was, mine was 5yrs ago and he was a very gentle and polite man who knew i was his first ever client. Scary to think it was 5yrs ago i worked for an agency for 4-6months and then stopped, due to getting myself a boyfriend who id met whilst clubbing with friends, and couldnt do it no more, anyways we split ages ago..and guess what i've started back again..you always do. Did anybody else stop and then become an escort again? Im new on this site, and loving it. Thanks

sweetjuiliet

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Re: Does anyone remember there first one?
« Reply #1 on: 11 December 2008, 05:27:51 pm »
sorry haha re-phrase that he was my first client haha

brandy@saafe

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Re: Does anyone remember there first one?
« Reply #2 on: 12 December 2008, 06:45:31 am »
It sounds awful but I don't think I can remember my first client. It would've been about 7 years ago now. I remember a few of my clients, but I can't remember in which order they came. I used to advertise out of the back of a couple of local papers. What a waste of time and money that was. I think out of a period of about 4 months, I had 4 clients. At least one of them I used to see on a regular basis.
I used to be asked if I could meet in the woods, or meet and have sex in their car, and other lovely stuff like that. This is where my hatred of withheld numbers and the phrase "can I have some details please?" came from. Experiencing both numerous times a day for it to come to nought really makes you glad for the internet. 
Ah, the memories. :)

lexienight

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Re: Does anyone remember there first one?
« Reply #3 on: 12 December 2008, 09:13:59 am »

I used to be asked if I could meet in the woods, or meet and have sex in their car, and other lovely stuff like that. This is where my hatred of withheld numbers and the phrase "can I have some details please?" came from. Experiencing both numerous times a day for it to come to nought really makes you glad for the internet. 
Ah, the memories. :)

Dont be fooled Brandy.... that shit still happens round these parts.  I get asked to meet people in their cars all the time but i had put it down to me being outcall only and living in the sticks.  And the details thing.... every friggin day!!  Gets me paranoid about my site sometimes that all the content has been wiped or something lol   :D

ebonygyal

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Re: Does anyone remember there first one?
« Reply #4 on: 12 December 2008, 01:15:34 pm »
I remember my first client,many moons ago  in my agency days:-) a lovely older guy,  He kept calling me honey bear. I was so nervous back then, I could hardly speak!
I also stopped working when I was in a relationship. Couldn't wait to get back to escorting when that ended ;)

brandy@saafe

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« Reply #5 on: 12 December 2008, 02:03:33 pm »
And the details thing.... every friggin day!!  Gets me paranoid about my site sometimes that all the content has been wiped or something lol   :D

I know! I used to get phone calls saying that they can't view my site, so they needed some more details. I fell for that a couple of times, until I happened to be sitting near the laptop when one such phone call came in. He said he couldn't see my pictures properly and could I describe myself. I told him my website was working fine on my computer and suggested he wait until his computer (miraculously) started working again. Then he was free to view my pictures at his heart's content.
I've heard some real excuses in my time.

thesightofoneself

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Re: Does anyone remember there first one?
« Reply #6 on: 12 December 2008, 05:17:36 pm »
i had my first client yesterday. might be a regular.  ;D

Lucymay

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Re: Does anyone remember there first one?
« Reply #7 on: 12 December 2008, 06:32:07 pm »
I advertised 30mins for ?40 on gumtree before i really knew anything my first client was some kosovan in a council flat he was really nice and friendly though.
My first proper client when i started for an agency was an very old man about 70 didnt even enter me but thought he had and I never said anything, he was nice enough just saggy and obviously no one else would see him so they gave the job to me.

justme

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Re: Does anyone remember there first one?
« Reply #8 on: 18 January 2009, 01:38:44 pm »
Oh gosh! I'll never forget my 1st client! I created an escort profile on Faceparty (lol) which was promptly removed, but before it was removed a guy from my town got in touch and wanted to come round that night. It was a Friday night, I necked nearly a full bottle of red wine for dutch courage before he came round, put my sexiest lingerie on and was chatting on msn to my gay escort friend for last-minute advice before he came.

The buzzer went, I opened the door and to my relief he was young and hot! He didn't want sex, only oral pleasure, that was over with in about 5 minutes. He wanted me to do it to him again. I was sure if either of us would've been up to it with no recovery time in between (my jaw was killing me), but thanks to the red wine I managed to pull it off. He didn't say much, he paid me the ?60 (lol) and gave me a snog at my front door before he left.

10 minutes later he sent me a text message saying that that was amazing, then preceeded to bombard me with text msgs over the next few days saying he wanted to go out with me and that he accepted that I was an escort and wouldn't mind me seeing other guys. I told him I was planning on going away travelling, that was why I first started escorting, he said he'd wait for me.

In the end I gave in and went out with him and broke the 1st cardinal rule of escorting - never get involved with clients! He was really lovely though and waited for me to come back from my travels.

In the end though, it was me that couldn't deal with it, it was unchartered territory for me, the first time we met he paid me for oral pleasure, how were we going to explain that to folk!?? I got all confused and paranoid and convinced myself that it was my "performance" he fell in love, and not me as a person so I ended it but we remained friends for a while afterwards.

Haven't seen him for years, I wonder what he's up to these days....

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Re: Does anyone remember there first one?
« Reply #9 on: 18 January 2009, 03:14:59 pm »
God yeah! I remember my first one when I didn't really think I was an escort yet..... and then my first one when I had my ads and photos done and was technically a "professional"!

Was shaking throughout both I remember that much!! I remember also being kind of amazed and laughing inside that they were willing to give me money for something I had only done naturally in the past. Must admit, I did worry that I wouldn't be good enough or worth the money, he he he.... Now to those who ask for a discount, I'm like "you don't think I'm worth the money? Wow you are so mistaken" Oh my god, what a monster I have created  :D