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Coty

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Re: Being threatened by someone abroad...long read sorry.
« Reply #15 on: 18 March 2012, 08:13:11 pm »
Yeah I have...since I told him his messages are being directed to the bin I haven't replied to any more.
He can argue with himself!


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Re: Being threatened by someone abroad...long read sorry.
« Reply #16 on: 18 March 2012, 08:49:34 pm »
Coty, I would add to the advice above just stop replying to his messages, perhaps even stop reading them. Histeirical people like him get high on arguments, are attracted to drama and with them the threaths, provocations and power games are neverending.

All of that.  I had an ex try to threaten me and the only thing which made her go away was to ignore it.
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Coty

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Re: Being threatened by someone abroad...long read sorry.
« Reply #17 on: 19 March 2012, 03:56:54 am »
You can't delete that group on yahoo? I made a group but didn't yet put your details I promise I will, I will show you when I fight what can I do ... let's see who will laugh more ... ok?
 
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/whores-fromabroad/


I'm actually laughing. What a prat.


oh now this!

I never made bad for somebody but for you I will make what you can not believe.


I'm not replying.....but keeping everything in a folder.


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Re: Being threatened by someone abroad...long read sorry.
« Reply #18 on: 19 March 2012, 12:34:39 pm »
Take care of yourself. This guy sounds so desperate . Have lots of treats . Hopefully he will burn himself out soon !   x
And Still I Rise, Maya Angelou a real inspiration x

Coty

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Re: Being threatened by someone abroad...long read sorry.
« Reply #19 on: 19 March 2012, 12:38:12 pm »
Thanks HP. I only slept 4 hours and I had awful nightmares about him:-(
I guess it's getting to me more than I like to admit.

XXX

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« Reply #20 on: 19 March 2012, 12:43:31 pm »
I think it would get to anybody, just wish there was something more I could do. X
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« Reply #21 on: 19 March 2012, 02:15:33 pm »
Dear Coty,
first of all I want brighten you saying that wherever part of the world he lives, it's totally illegal to upload material which shows the private life of someone without approval of the person concerned... especially on youtube. Further, as Emily says,  if you have trouble contact the police's website because they work throughout the worldwide.
Now, have a nice cup of tea/coffee/chamomile and don't worry   ;)
Good luck

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Re: Being threatened by someone abroad...long read sorry.
« Reply #22 on: 19 March 2012, 05:39:48 pm »
I signed up to a yahoo account to read your link.

What a sad and sorry waste of space this piece of sh*t is  >:(

I would echo what the others have told you - and don't worry Coty, he's a filthy little criminal who will get his comeuppance in law and in life  :-*

Coty

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Re: Being threatened by someone abroad...long read sorry.
« Reply #23 on: 19 March 2012, 07:23:30 pm »
My friend signed up to it too and he's sent her all my details, pics, videos, AW site....everything:-(


Coty

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« Reply #24 on: 19 March 2012, 08:11:50 pm »
OMG he even sent her this.......this was a little girl with cerebral palsy I was fund raising for. Has he know depths he won't sink too:-(( What an awful awful man:-(


This whore is a big liar, her name is *********, her email address is *******.com she wrote about many innocent people, they are poor women and they come to our countries to have sex with young men and then let them travel to their countries and with the law the husband has to help his wife financially, she has a profile on facebook that I knew recently, the name is Raising money to help 5 year old Jessica, and this just to steal the people's money, I never seen that whore in my life, but I was talking with all people all over the world because I was working in a hotel

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Re: Being threatened by someone abroad...long read sorry.
« Reply #25 on: 19 March 2012, 08:35:23 pm »
"and this just to steal the people's money, I never seen that whore in my life, but I was talking with all people all over the world because I was working in a hotel"? This coming from a man with bunches of scammed wives all over the world who's basically trying to steal a house from a vulnerable woman?

Good lord. Coty, I'm so sorry you've had to have anything to do with this guy. I really hope he gets caught and has to pay for what he's done. I do know of another woman in the UK who was scammed by a boyfriend who was a con-artist who stole so much from her and left her in massive debt (and not just her) - he's actually in prison right now, I'm very relieved to say.

I wonder if this guy's current actions - because what he's written looks pretty hysterical and ridiculous, to be honest - are a sign of desperation? He's obviously unhinged, and must be slightly psychotic if he's so good at lying and has zero conscience along with total confidence in his ability to trick everyone, so I expect he's going to end up getting himself into deep trouble if he's got such grand opinions of himself. He'll just keep going further and acting more irrationally and eventually - hopefully soon - he'll dig himself into a situation that he cannot get out of.

In the meantime, tell everyone you know that you're being stalked by a lunatic. Just tell them he's an Egyptian man that you've never met but chatted to online, and you trusted him at first but he's suddenly started accusing you of 'cheating' and therefore started calling you a 'whore' and other insane lies. It's unfortunately not an usual thing to happen at all (I once read a whole blogpost full of horrifying online-dating-gone-wrong stories; honestly, I will never be able to bring myself to put a profile up anywhere!) so probably most people will also know someone else this has happened to, or will have experienced this themselves. If they are good friends/caring family, they will take your side and support you.
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Coty

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Re: Being threatened by someone abroad...long read sorry.
« Reply #26 on: 19 March 2012, 09:10:52 pm »
Thank you Emily.

I was really trying not to let it get to me, but by using poor innocent Jessica has sent me into total meltdoen...I can't stop shaking and I've had to cancel 2 jobs today.

I will tell everyone I know, without going into too much detail.... that's a good idea. Most know about what happened 3 years ago anyway so will be supportive.

XXX

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« Reply #27 on: 19 March 2012, 10:03:08 pm »
I think Emily is probably right; these are desparate measures from the guy and he will trip himself up at some point.

I don't think many people will join this Yahoo group (who is as sad and twisted as this guy?) so in all probability he will either wear himself out with it and get bored with the lack of response, or all his horridness will catch up with him bigtime.

What a nasty little turd.

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Re: Being threatened by someone abroad...long read sorry.
« Reply #28 on: 19 March 2012, 10:37:17 pm »

In the meantime, tell everyone you know that you're being stalked by a lunatic. Just tell them he's an Egyptian man that you've never met but chatted to online, and you trusted him at first but he's suddenly started accusing you of 'cheating' and therefore started calling you a 'whore' and other insane lies. It's unfortunately not an usual thing to happen at all (I once read a whole blogpost full of horrifying online-dating-gone-wrong stories; honestly, I will never be able to bring myself to put a profile up anywhere!) so probably most people will also know someone else this has happened to, or will have experienced this themselves. If they are good friends/caring family, they will take your side and support you.

This is excellent advice - BUT I'm wondering how Coty could get around the fact he knows her AW profile and is threatening to send it to her neighbours? What if he does that? How could she explain THAT?


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Re: Being threatened by someone abroad...long read sorry.
« Reply #29 on: 20 March 2012, 12:37:31 am »
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This is excellent advice - BUT I'm wondering how Coty could get around the fact he knows her AW profile and is threatening to send it to her neighbours? What if he does that? How could she explain THAT?

can you delete that AW profile and create a whole new one with new pics and new info? Just sayin.
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