Well, I guess everyone had this problem. Another learning curve?

Met him through this work and wanted to be my partner to move in together in a years time when I can go back to my normal job.  He is old men who is double my age, which I won't date normally. He took me out to expensive restaurants every time we meet and bought me expensive jewelries. Once or twice a months due to my time schedule. I cannot meet him too often. I only do 8 days 9-2pm per months. So I didn't earn very much. He offers me 1000 pounds to pack off to be excluded to him. I don't want to loose my freedom. Sometimes I love him, sometimes I don't. He keeps me financial and sexually contented.

To continue my AW work, I have to offer in call to my home and neighbors start to notice, which I cannot do too often.

If I don't have feeling for him, I won't consider his offer. It is nice to cuddle someone to sleep at night and wake up with someone. I think he loves me more than I do to him. I don't make 1000 pound per months sometimes, esp. Jan and Feb time. Maybe I can make that money, but no one gives me the warm feeling that he gives me.

He worries me to meet another guy which more suits me. That is why he wants me to pack off.

Im with Cat on this one.

1000 GBP is not a lot of money in this day and age and my freedom and independence is worth that tenfold, no matter what anyone thinks.

You say he is twice your age, if you were not in such a vulnerable position would you even consider seeing him ?  I think you would be crazy to as you might just scupper your chances of meeting someone who is more suitable to your own age.

I agree that cuddling up and wakening up with someone CAN be nice, but at what cost?  My freedom ? No way on gods earth would I give it up for this menial amount.  10,000 GBP per month perhaps and I might CONSIDER IT, but not for 1000 GBP.  I think you would be crazy to go ahead with this terrible offer.

Keep your independence, you will regret it if you dont.  He would be getting you for a couple of pounds per fuck, this is all stacked in his favour, dont fall for it.  No one in this day and age needs to be that desperate.

Good Luck.

Yes, I must be mad.

Thanks for all the reply to wake me up. It has been going on for two months and I don't have the gut to tell anybody. Now it is clear that it is not for me.

Just phone him that saying I won't see him anymore. He said ok.

Feel a bit sad but feel free.

Thanks for all your advice.

Amy, if I am right, I dont think you have been working in the business too long.

Guys like the one you speak of sense/smell the vulnerabilty from you and try to work it to their advantage.

You have done the sensible thing and through time you may meet someone who is around your own age and more suitable for you.

Until then you can build up your business/work longer/make more money and you will look back at this situation and laugh.

Congratulations for seeing sense and heeding advice.  Well done.

I agree Onwards and upwards