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Re: Being paid....
« Reply #15 on: 01 April 2017, 05:33:58 pm »
With my regulars they tend to go for the same thing so more relaxed about it and willies them before asking for the money

 ??? huh

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Re: Being paid....
« Reply #16 on: 01 April 2017, 05:44:40 pm »
Not sure what happened there. I meant I give them a welcome kiss before and they give me the money.

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« Reply #17 on: 02 April 2017, 02:19:48 pm »
Thanks girls v helpful x

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Re: Being paid....
« Reply #18 on: 02 April 2017, 06:45:12 pm »
I ask within the first few minutes they arrive I take all their stuff and put it away,take their coat etc so during all that I ask if we can sort business out so we can move on to having fun. After I get the money I direct them to my mini fridge to get a drink and direct them to my working room and the shower and use that time to put the money away. There are a few safe stash spots where I can put money I don't store it in one place in case somebody tries to steal from me if they got some money at least they wouldn't get it all.

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Re: Being paid....
« Reply #19 on: 02 April 2017, 08:04:58 pm »
Most clients hand me the money straight away soon as we get in the room.  I can usually 'feel' the amount and have a quick count.  If I haven't been offered payment within a few minutes I just say "Is it ok if we sort the money out?" then they usually say "Oh sorry yes here you are" But occasionally a few have looked at me a bit funny and while handing me it muttered something about course they're going to pay. 

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Re: Being paid....
« Reply #20 on: 02 April 2017, 10:01:42 pm »
I just say something along the lines of "Shall we sort out money first just to get it out of the way?" to make it sound as casual as possible.

Tonight was the only issue I've ever had with it. It was a 30minute outcall so a fairly rushed booking by my standards anway and it was a client who asked for a freebie not so long ago. He offered me a drink which I kindly rejected and then asked for the money in my standard way. He made some kind of snide remark about it, but quite frankly I don't worry too much about it since they know what they're getting themselves into so they can't be a twat about the money side of things. It's not like I rub it in their face whilst we're fucking (unless they ask nicely of course... ;) )

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Re: Being paid....
« Reply #21 on: 26 May 2017, 01:25:54 am »
I ask for the cash once they are in my room and I count it in front of them and then put it away and then ask if they want a shower and they get 5 mins for a shower and then the booking starts after the shower, they are informed nicely that if they go over 5 mins then I'll take it off the time, never had any problems so far with shower but I had a guy be offended that I counted his cash, "oh I've been a long time client (ERM not mine you haven't) and its been a long time since I had my cash counted"!! Omg I could easily take his fee through to my kitchen and lie and say there's money missing so counting the cash is for both of our benefits, if you worked in retail then you wouldn't put cash in the till without counting it so what's the difference?! I have in the past trusted a regular of mine and it was short by ?20 and I noticed after the booking so never again!

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Re: Being paid....
« Reply #22 on: 26 May 2017, 01:29:41 am »
Most clients hand me the money straight away soon as we get in the room.  I can usually 'feel' the amount and have a quick count.  If I haven't been offered payment within a few minutes I just say "Is it ok if we sort the money out?" then they usually say "Oh sorry yes here you are" But occasionally a few have looked at me a bit funny and while handing me it muttered something about course they're going to pay.

If they were to pay us after the booking then I wouldn't be able to relax as I'd be thinking that I was doing this for free, in saunas they pay last unless they are new clients but at least in a sauna you have back up if you don't get paid whereas I'm alone in my incall flat and as its local authority I wouldn't trust calling the Police because I believe they would tell the housing what I was doing!

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Re: Being paid....
« Reply #23 on: 26 May 2017, 04:51:59 am »
If they were to pay us after the booking then I wouldn't be able to relax as I'd be thinking that I was doing this for free, in saunas they pay last unless they are new clients but at least in a sauna you have back up if you don't get paid whereas I'm alone in my incall flat and as its local authority I wouldn't trust calling the Police because I believe they would tell the housing what I was doing!

You need to be very careful if you have a local authority home and are escorting from it, especially if you're not declaring everything you earn. Really not wise.
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

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Re: Being paid....
« Reply #24 on: 26 May 2017, 05:08:28 am »
You need to be very careful if you have a local authority home and are escorting from it, especially if you're not declaring everything you earn. Really not wise.

I declare it now, it was back when I first started working that I didn't, I did only used to work for a few weeks at a time & I had my daughter and I wasn't coming off benefits to declaring my earnings for a few weeks of work and for a job I could only handle for a little bit, plus I was naive back then to this & paying tax didn't even enter my mind, I didn't know anybody that did pay tax with this job until a few years ago, also I no longer live in my incall flat,  just work there 2 days a week and I'll have a new place very soon but once I get a new place then I'm going to start using serviced apartments because I don't want to use my own place, the current place I use is a family members & they know what I do and are cool with it plus family member knows not a soul in the building so its quite safe but I hear what your saying.

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Re: Being paid....
« Reply #25 on: 26 May 2017, 05:13:22 am »
Also Kay if I had a violent client or someone that stole from me then I couldn't go to police due to it being a council flat and I'd hate for something awful to happen to me and for me to not be able to do anything about it just because of earning from the flat which regardless of paying tax then its still illegal to use a council flat to earn cash from.

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Re: Being paid....
« Reply #26 on: 26 May 2017, 05:17:14 am »
I declare it now, it was back when I first started working that I didn't, I did only used to work for a few weeks at a time & I had my daughter and I wasn't coming off benefits to declaring my earnings for a few weeks of work and for a job I could only handle for a little bit, plus I was naive back then to this & paying tax didn't even enter my mind, I didn't know anybody that did pay tax with this job until a few years ago, also I no longer live in my incall flat,  just work there 2 days a week and I'll have a new place very soon but once I get a new place then I'm going to start using serviced apartments because I don't want to use my own place, the current place I use is a family members & they know what I do and are cool with it plus family member knows not a soul in the building so its quite safe but I hear what your saying.

Intact that's a lie; I only know of 2 girls personally that pay tax and its me and another girl and it was actually she that advised me to pay it, and the girls on saafe declare their income, most girls I know personally don't and they think anyone that says they do is lying!! Tarring everyone with the same brush!!  Alot of girls I know don't claim benefits but don't pay tax either and at a certain age you want to be in the system!!
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Re: Being paid....
« Reply #27 on: 26 May 2017, 08:07:52 am »
I ask for after the greeting but most pass over in good time.

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Re: Being paid....
« Reply #28 on: 26 May 2017, 09:07:38 am »
I use to feel stupid asking to be paid, in fact, for the first year or so I asked for payment at the end!!! Nowadays if a client is naked and making his way to the bed without payment, I simply remind him that I take payment before we start. They usually apologise and say "sorry, I forgot" =)

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Re: Being paid....
« Reply #29 on: 26 May 2017, 09:16:18 am »
Always asking before... regulars, good feedback, ...
Never after...do not trust nobody!

Good regulars give you always before it! without asking! If they forgot, i m asking!
You will feel more relaxed when it is done it!

Not shy to ask, they are not shy to start to play! LOL