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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: ScarlettP on 31 March 2017, 10:59:39 pm
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How long do you wait until you ask for your fee? How do you ask, what do you say? Do you go off and hide it somewhere?
Sounds daft, but I still sometimes feel stupid asking to be paid, I always feel as though they think they're doing me a favour or they feel sorry for me. Anybody else feel like this?
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I always ask within the first 5 mins of the booking (sometimes dont have to ask, they just hand it over) otherwise I say something like 'how long did we say on the phone? 30 mins?, thats x amount'
Yes, I always put it in a different room.
I know what you mean, I hate asking - but they should really hand the cash straight over to you and if they dont then they should expect to be asked, they are paying for a service after all.
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I invite them in and sit them along side me on the end of the bed I confirm they are ok with going ahead asking them if they want to stay and confirm how long they want, if all is okay then I say Okay that's ?xxx I take them money and count it in front of them so there are no discrepancies. I ask them if they want a drink or a shower and take the money and hide it in another room. Its a business transaction at the end of the day so no need to feel shy or embarrassed to ask for payment most punters are aware they need to pay up front.
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Well you just have to ask, i don't start anything physical until ive got the money.
Learn from my mistake, always get the money FIRST!
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After meet and greet some clients can be tactile or not mention money or some are pulling it out before. I have got over my hesitations and insist on getting the "business bit out of the way" and counting the money in front of them before they settle down and I make tea. (I always insist on making tea.) One client did ask to extend a booking and asked whether I wanted the money now or later and I said now. (I had at the back of my mind expensive lessons ladies have discussed before!) I could have stashed the cash in my stockings but disappeared to stash it instead. I thought cash poking out of my stockings was a bit rude!
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Should be paid in the first 10 mins. Definitely before any kind of sexual contact. You can say shall we sort out business before pleasure or more directly I'd like my fee now please. Count in front of them because if you go away and find that it comes out short he can argue that you've hidden some notes. I say it's agency policy and they would get mad if I didn't get the full fee at the beginning. If I have to ask more than once I won't take another booking from him. This is probably too strict of me but I consider it the ultimate lack of respect if he tries to start the service before paying. This is with first-time punters, I have a regular who likes to have some wine and a chat for 15 mins before paying me and moving to bed. I don't have to ask him because he'll give it to me after 15 mins and won't touch me before then. I don't count in front of him anymore. Move the money to a secure place when you get a moment alone and count it one more time before he leaves.
I never feel that way. So long as you're polite there's nothing to be embarrassed about. You have to be bold and professional, if he sees that you're unconfident he could try and take advantage.
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Maybe it's my Yorkshire roots, but I'm brutal compared to some of you!
I open my door, let them in, check how long we're doing and if necessary say something like, 'Shall we get the money out of the way?' and ask them if they'd like a drink while they're sorting it out. If there's a lot of notes I'll check it in front of them.
The way my room is laid out I'm sort of physically coralling them between my front door and the rest of the room/access to the stairs while this is happening. I've had a couple of men march past me, which gets my hackles up.
I do this for new clients and regulars alike. If someone doesn't like the look of me/is messing around they're not getting past the threshold of my front room.
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I just confirm what they booked before they strip off,
"So sweetheart, I've got you for 30mins of GFE today, is that right?"
Normally that sends them reaching for their wallet, but if they just agree I'll either say
"Well then that's 50 of your finest English pounds please" with a big cheeky grin or
"Shall we get business out of the way so we can move on to peasure?" if I'm trying to be a bit more seductive lol
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Maybe it's my Yorkshire roots, but I'm brutal compared to some of you!
I open my door, let them in, check how long we're doing and if necessary say something like, 'Shall we get the money out of the way?' and ask them if they'd like a drink while they're sorting it out. If there's a lot of notes I'll check it in front of them.
The way my room is laid out I'm sort of physically coralling them between my front door and the rest of the room/access to the stairs while this is happening. I've had a couple of men march past me, which gets my hackles up.
I do this for new clients and regulars alike. If someone doesn't like the look of me/is messing around they're not getting past the threshold of my front room.
Im of the same breeding ;D and do exactly the same
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OK so you're here for an hour today, then if they don't take the hint, I just say shall we get the boring bit out of the way first then.
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My website and AW explain I'd like payment within the first 5 minutes, most do thus without asking. If not I'll usually ask once the clothes start coming off.
Recently had a booking with someone I knew enough about to believe he wouldn't risk trying something on, there were other things around the booking which had lead to some strain. He didn't proffer, at the end both of us fully dressed and ready to go I asked because there was still no sign. He appeared to become a little agitated, asked me do I ever get ripped off by anyone, then didn't know my rate (counted 20 less). It is feasible that he doesn't check my website or AW, because he just gets in touch directly and it has been a few years since he's seen me and then it was incall.
I was complacent in the booking, of I'd taken charge instead of letting him take the lead all the stress points wouldn't have happened. Definitely a lesson.
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Maybe it's my Yorkshire roots, but I'm brutal compared to some of you!
I open my door, let them in, check how long we're doing and if necessary say something like, 'Shall we get the money out of the way?' and ask them if they'd like a drink while they're sorting it out. If there's a lot of notes I'll check it in front of them.
The way my room is laid out I'm sort of physically coralling them between my front door and the rest of the room/access to the stairs while this is happening. I've had a couple of men march past me, which gets my hackles up.
I do this for new clients and regulars alike. If someone doesn't like the look of me/is messing around they're not getting past the threshold of my front room.
I'm a transplant to Yorkshire and my approach is pretty much the same!
I open the door, let them in with a big smile and "Hello!" I'll usually say something like "Did you get parked okay?" or "Isn't it hot/cold/sunny/miserable today!" Then it's money time right away. My standard phrase is "So we said half an hour/one hour, didn't we? So that'll be 120 please." I'll count the cash (I'm really quick at this as I used to handle large amounts of cash daily in civvy jobs) then put a checkmark next to their name in my appointments book, put the cash in the book and close the book, put my phone on silent and put it on top of the book, then switch my playlist on.
Basically until I've got the fee in my hand they ain't even getting a peck on the cheek!
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Same here, they don't even touch me before they've paid! (with exception of some very long term regulars)
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I forgot part 2 - once I have the cash I send them up the stairs, and put it away somewhere out of sight. Even if I get them a cold drink as well they're only in my bedroom alone for a minute max, so it's no problem.
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If it's a new customer I ask what they want and for how long and tell them it will be such and such amount. With my regulars they tend to go for the same thing so more relaxed about it and willies them before asking for the money but they are generally very good and give me the money before we start. With my fave client I am too relaxed sometimes and forgot to ask him one time. After the booking ended I completely forgot about the money but he reminded me before he left and he now always gives me the money before we start and i don't have to ask.
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With my regulars they tend to go for the same thing so more relaxed about it and willies them before asking for the money
??? huh
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Not sure what happened there. I meant I give them a welcome kiss before and they give me the money.
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Thanks girls v helpful x
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I ask within the first few minutes they arrive I take all their stuff and put it away,take their coat etc so during all that I ask if we can sort business out so we can move on to having fun. After I get the money I direct them to my mini fridge to get a drink and direct them to my working room and the shower and use that time to put the money away. There are a few safe stash spots where I can put money I don't store it in one place in case somebody tries to steal from me if they got some money at least they wouldn't get it all.
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Most clients hand me the money straight away soon as we get in the room. I can usually 'feel' the amount and have a quick count. If I haven't been offered payment within a few minutes I just say "Is it ok if we sort the money out?" then they usually say "Oh sorry yes here you are" But occasionally a few have looked at me a bit funny and while handing me it muttered something about course they're going to pay.
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I just say something along the lines of "Shall we sort out money first just to get it out of the way?" to make it sound as casual as possible.
Tonight was the only issue I've ever had with it. It was a 30minute outcall so a fairly rushed booking by my standards anway and it was a client who asked for a freebie not so long ago. He offered me a drink which I kindly rejected and then asked for the money in my standard way. He made some kind of snide remark about it, but quite frankly I don't worry too much about it since they know what they're getting themselves into so they can't be a twat about the money side of things. It's not like I rub it in their face whilst we're fucking (unless they ask nicely of course... ;) )
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I ask for the cash once they are in my room and I count it in front of them and then put it away and then ask if they want a shower and they get 5 mins for a shower and then the booking starts after the shower, they are informed nicely that if they go over 5 mins then I'll take it off the time, never had any problems so far with shower but I had a guy be offended that I counted his cash, "oh I've been a long time client (ERM not mine you haven't) and its been a long time since I had my cash counted"!! Omg I could easily take his fee through to my kitchen and lie and say there's money missing so counting the cash is for both of our benefits, if you worked in retail then you wouldn't put cash in the till without counting it so what's the difference?! I have in the past trusted a regular of mine and it was short by ?20 and I noticed after the booking so never again!
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Most clients hand me the money straight away soon as we get in the room. I can usually 'feel' the amount and have a quick count. If I haven't been offered payment within a few minutes I just say "Is it ok if we sort the money out?" then they usually say "Oh sorry yes here you are" But occasionally a few have looked at me a bit funny and while handing me it muttered something about course they're going to pay.
If they were to pay us after the booking then I wouldn't be able to relax as I'd be thinking that I was doing this for free, in saunas they pay last unless they are new clients but at least in a sauna you have back up if you don't get paid whereas I'm alone in my incall flat and as its local authority I wouldn't trust calling the Police because I believe they would tell the housing what I was doing!
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If they were to pay us after the booking then I wouldn't be able to relax as I'd be thinking that I was doing this for free, in saunas they pay last unless they are new clients but at least in a sauna you have back up if you don't get paid whereas I'm alone in my incall flat and as its local authority I wouldn't trust calling the Police because I believe they would tell the housing what I was doing!
You need to be very careful if you have a local authority home and are escorting from it, especially if you're not declaring everything you earn. Really not wise.
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You need to be very careful if you have a local authority home and are escorting from it, especially if you're not declaring everything you earn. Really not wise.
I declare it now, it was back when I first started working that I didn't, I did only used to work for a few weeks at a time & I had my daughter and I wasn't coming off benefits to declaring my earnings for a few weeks of work and for a job I could only handle for a little bit, plus I was naive back then to this & paying tax didn't even enter my mind, I didn't know anybody that did pay tax with this job until a few years ago, also I no longer live in my incall flat, just work there 2 days a week and I'll have a new place very soon but once I get a new place then I'm going to start using serviced apartments because I don't want to use my own place, the current place I use is a family members & they know what I do and are cool with it plus family member knows not a soul in the building so its quite safe but I hear what your saying.
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Also Kay if I had a violent client or someone that stole from me then I couldn't go to police due to it being a council flat and I'd hate for something awful to happen to me and for me to not be able to do anything about it just because of earning from the flat which regardless of paying tax then its still illegal to use a council flat to earn cash from.
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I declare it now, it was back when I first started working that I didn't, I did only used to work for a few weeks at a time & I had my daughter and I wasn't coming off benefits to declaring my earnings for a few weeks of work and for a job I could only handle for a little bit, plus I was naive back then to this & paying tax didn't even enter my mind, I didn't know anybody that did pay tax with this job until a few years ago, also I no longer live in my incall flat, just work there 2 days a week and I'll have a new place very soon but once I get a new place then I'm going to start using serviced apartments because I don't want to use my own place, the current place I use is a family members & they know what I do and are cool with it plus family member knows not a soul in the building so its quite safe but I hear what your saying.
Intact that's a lie; I only know of 2 girls personally that pay tax and its me and another girl and it was actually she that advised me to pay it, and the girls on saafe declare their income, most girls I know personally don't and they think anyone that says they do is lying!! Tarring everyone with the same brush!! Alot of girls I know don't claim benefits but don't pay tax either and at a certain age you want to be in the system!!
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I ask for after the greeting but most pass over in good time.
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I use to feel stupid asking to be paid, in fact, for the first year or so I asked for payment at the end!!! Nowadays if a client is naked and making his way to the bed without payment, I simply remind him that I take payment before we start. They usually apologise and say "sorry, I forgot" =)
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Always asking before... regulars, good feedback, ...
Never after...do not trust nobody!
Good regulars give you always before it! without asking! If they forgot, i m asking!
You will feel more relaxed when it is done it!
Not shy to ask, they are not shy to start to play! LOL
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I use to feel stupid asking to be paid, in fact, for the first year or so I asked for payment at the end!!! Nowadays if a client is naked and making his way to the bed without payment, I simply remind him that I take payment before we start. They usually apologise and say "sorry, I forgot" =)
That is the que for me aha lets get the money out of the way before getting to comfy. I don't say it like this but it reminds me. I ask them nicely even if they want to use the bathroom first I ask.
Unfortunately I haven't had no bathroom wankers since I ask for the money prior to entering. Because if I did after the payment I would come back in 20 minutes doing my own thing. He paid me if that is how he wants to use his time. Who am I to complain. :)
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New clients who go in for a full tongue snog almost as soon as I close the door quickly learn I don't do things that way. I pull away with a smile and direct them to the bedroom saying let's get in here and have a great time, or words like that. I then make sure the money is mine and in another room which they are not going to visit, before any stripping off or groping occurs.
I never had a man complain about this. I read of girls who meet new clients and have their trousers down within seconds of closing the front door and before payment too. Fine but it only takes one man to get away with some pleasure and then stating he forgot his wallet or not having enough money etc to upset a wg and off she goes moaning about it on a forum. It is avoidable.
With regs I have known years and a very few who pay at the end it would feel a little awkward for me to start asking at the beginning. I never quite managed to get that one right.
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I open my hotel room door. Let them in usual small talk found the hotel ok to etc etc. Then I say let's get the nitty gritty out the way so your staying for hour at x amount. They hand the cash I count infront of them and also use the money pen. Some get alarmed but I'm not going through bounced notes again at bank. I say to them smile cheeky way just being careful. I do the same thing with Outcalls. Count and money marker.