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General Category => Blather and Babble => Topic started by: DiscreetLady on 19 June 2023, 08:28:14 pm
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does'nt happen often but it pisses me off, when clients in the middle of or at the end of the session ask me if i like my job, which i know what they imply is that i don't like it and that im in only for the money. then deep inside me i tell myself well obviously money is a big party of it. if it was for the sex i could get much better looking guys at the club, LOL. its true that often im tired or my mind is somewhere else due to personal problems and they can notice it but really hate it when they ask me that. so what do you guys reply without being rude
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I just tell them the truth. I love it! And I do. The freedom to do what I want and go where I please far outweighs my previous, professional career.
I’m still going strong 10 years later and wouldn’t change it for the world.
I chat away with clients anyway and none of their questions offend me as I always have an answer. Because I like s good chat their questions never bother me.
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It depends on the client and your relationship to them
I think there are a lot (and you KNOW) which they are, who fetish-ise (sorry sp) our lifestyles, they want to hear you are a nymphomaniac and couldn't possibly get enough sex elsewhere and you love it the money isn't even a thing its just a bonus, also a safe answer if you don't know them well
I work in the city and mostly daytimes so I do get a lot of regulars who are both intelligent, know me quite well and level headed about the nature of the relationship, I tell the truth for me which is that like any job there are parts I like and parts I hate, if they genuinely want to know I tell them more, also use a variation of this on some more normal ones I don't know well or at all but limit the 'don't like' sector to the annoying people on the phone and uncertainty of self employment/long hours if touring, OP said sometimes comes over as tired as do I that's one way to do it.
I think some men think we just roll out of bed jn a hotel looking perfect, unpacked, clean and rested and can f### a few hours then be lazy and that's our life. :FF
If I'm in a hell of a mood and it's a first time client I never want to see again bc they're annoying the hell out of me I tell them what the OP said, that any escort who says the money is irrelevant wouldn't be an escort she would just use tinder and pick the men she liked the look of (I REALLY try not to use that one but occasionally you just get a client you want to punch in the face)
But everyone's different in how comfortable you feel reminding a client that they're a client, if you're looking for minimal drama turn around and ask how tired you look now ;)
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I get asked this a lot well actually they say to me obviously you like this job don't you? I suppose that is because i am acting and probably good at it when i need to be but that is because i just offer services i can cope with now.
A few very realistic clients though have said to me i doubt many women like doing this they only do it for more money then standard job and they are their own boss so those ones get it.
I don't mind them asking this as long as they are ok with lies, but i think some ask it as they see so many profiles talking about how they love being fucked and giving blow jobs every hour of the day with anybody so not surprise some thicko's really believe it all.
It is a question though that i yawn at as what do they expect women to say no i only do it as desperate for cash or i am really greedy and want lots of nice bags and holidays.
I did have a horrible client that was rude and smelly ask me this once at the end of service and i was honest as he was a nightmare and told him if i knew who and what smell was turning up i would not answer door and i told him we do not get paid enough for what we go through with some men, he knew i meant him haha
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I have been asked the question a few times and my answer consisted of three words.
Yes I do.
If they then wanted to go into further discussion I would distract them with continuing the reason they booked/turned up and paid me. I/ we owe them no explanations.
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What is so funny how many people who work in say B&Q, work in a call centre or are giving a back massage in a hotel spa get asked do you like your job or what can i do to make you enjoy it too? PMSL
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I tell them of course I do - it's great to be able to pick my own hours, set my own rates, work when I want to and even if I want to.
I learned to build my own website, take and edit my own photos, do my own bookkeeping and tax return and all sorts of other stuff without having to answer to anybody, and I can earn a weeks' money in a day if I want to. I even like doing my inventory and laundry.
The point is that they don't actually understand what our job entails, which is fine. Nor would they be expected to.
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I generally enjoy this job a fair bit but this week it is timewaster central which I had anticipated as the week before payday. It can only pick up in time. I have had four people all tried to see me this morning over the past week. Every one of them had to cancel either work for in the way or their money not in yet.
Compliments by text and flattering emails do not pay our bills !
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I’ve perfected my acting skills over the years, based on what I believe they want to hear. I should win a BAFTA :D
Anything for an easier life!
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I remember my friend used to have an annoying regular. He wasn't abusive or anything but just personality clash. (She didn't like him), but he paid well.
Anyway she got fed up of seeing him. He asked her once what's the best part of the job. She replied "When you leave!"
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I hate this question too, i always just say i enjoy the freedom of being my own boss
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And after that question they go on to ask how long I'll be doing this for and what are my five year plans!? Really?!
I'm so practiced now at just smiling sweetly and just saying we'll see what happens ::)
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I say l love not having a boss tell me what to do and not having to put holiday requests in. The best part is not having to wait till end of month to be paid.
Am always brutally honest if they ask if l enjoy the sex. I tell them l do it for the money mainly.
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Postcoital chat in a relationship with a cuddle is often very intimate. In an hour appointment if things have gone right it towards the end of the booking and they need to get dressed and move on, that’s I think why they often speak garbage. I something ask where are you off to now, that tends to focus them and reduces the garbage talk.
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I tell them the truth. Its just like any other job. There are good parts to it and bad parts to it.
Sometimes I have lots of clients and sometimes very few, I’ve met some really lovely people and some really nasty horrible people, the moneys good but there’s no shortage of time wasters.
Overall, I love doing it and I have no plans to stop anytime soon.
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I reply to this that I work in this purely because of financial reasons, (and it is the truth)
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I reply to this that I work in this purely because of financial reasons, (and it is the truth)
How dare you burst the fantasy bubble! :D
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I don’t mind it because when they ask me it’s quite apparent I am happy doing what I do. I simply tell them I like sex and I like money, so it works. Obviously that’s not the entire real answer, but it’s what they like to hear and there is no need for them to know the backstory or details of how I got into it etc. It’s just a job for me, one that I’m good at, money are good, I enjoy the flexibility of it and the people I meet along the way etc.
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I am fortunate to have done this job ,in my civvy job I deal with people who have sexual issues that they need to talk about which dosnt make me feel uncomfortable in the slightest.
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I tell them I do love it ‘I love meeting new people one on one, dancing to my own tune, working when I like, I hate bosses & offices!’ I don’t want to outright lie & lean into the idea that I enjoy having sex with strangers who I don’t fancy who are usually old enough to be my dad or grandad, because there is a part of me that thinks some of these guys need to be a bit more realistic about this being unlikely. My eyes roll internally when I see a client & he says ‘I want you to enjoy this as much as I do!’ Mate, I don’t have the energy to help you unpick the mental tangle you need to be doing something like this & thinking something so woolly, but on the other hand I want return custom so can’t speak truth to power too freely lol :)
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I tell them the truth, I totally love it and wish I had started doing it years ago when i was 20. Life is just one and i decide be happy doing what i like and make others happy too!!
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I tell them the truth too and say I love the money and the attention (I don't say that the sex does nothing for me though).
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I love my job for many reasons and I'm happy to tell clients if they ask.
I love meeting the wide range of people.
And I love the fact that in an hour or two, I can make them really happy so they go away feeling better for visiting me. That's work satisfaction.
I love seeing repeat customers because that's proof I delivered a great service last time.
I love that the work for each client is all done within the session time 1-2 hours, unlike other jobs where a project could take hours/days/weeks.
I love being self-employed and deciding my hours when I work, and taking time off when it suits me. I like being completely in control of every aspect of my business.
*** whether I like handling penises really doesn't figure in my thoughts about how much I like my job. it's such a tiny part of the job!
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I tell them the truth and that is that I get my (warped) validation from men (three father rejection thingy), so I love the attention and compliments, but it's also just a job and I don't get turned on; I just want to give a good service. Their faces kinda fall a bit flat, the poor things.
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It is mainly the admin and timewasters that are irksome.
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I don't think telling clients I am never turned on or enjoy the sex is a wise move. It could put many clients off making a repeat booking.
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I don’t think we owe any answer to anyone. Just blank the question. If they want to try so hard to ruin the fantasy that’s on them.
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I get fed up with being asked this. Sometimes i say to them i hate it!! But then say only joking as would make the service harder work for me!
I pretend i mostly like it when they ask and some assume i love it because i put on a friendly act. I sometimes don't mind it depending on how many decent clients turn up, other times i hate it especially having to be so secretive and working in a hotel having to hope no maids see men coming in and being away from home. It's a nerve wracking job.
I wonder if these men ask the women that it is obvious they put on no act and look miserable if they love it?
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I keep it simple.... yes, I live and breathe this job, it is who I am, I couldn't imagine doing anything else, I adore the freedom and nobody can put any constraints on me....... and it's mostly true, why drop the facade, after all it's what they pay for?
Truthfully, as soon as they walk out of the door they're forgotten anyway, so what if a little "sugar talk" is included in the price.... no skin off my nose.......... a good friend once told me, "keep things simple, Stupid!" :D
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Dreamed to be a hooker all my childhood. Watch their perplexed face when you say it ;D
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When I'm asked if I like the job, I usually tell the decent clients I love it. It seems to make them smile and return, I think it satisfies the fantasy aspects in their minds. If the client is slightly unpleasant I tell them I quitting soon, it seems to make some behave better if they revisit.
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I'd said I enjoy the fun with clients and saving for a holiday .
I don't enjoy the bigger size cocks it's been painful ,never thought I'd say this but hoping for small ones :D
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Iv'e never found size to be an issue as long as lube is used, luckily I haven't come across any humungous sizes.
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I genuinely like meeting people maybe not some of the wierdos but I can honestly say that a couple of regs are nice to talk to but sex is just a means to the money
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I usually tell them if I didn’t like it I wouldn’t be doing it. Most of the times it is a satisfying answer for them and won’t ask any more about. :angel:
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When asked that question I usually reply with the same question: “oh well… do YOU like your job?” They tend to answer something along the lines of: “it’s ok, sure there’s somethings I like but others not so much”, oh well, I feel a bit the same about mine :-) I’ve met very few people who LOVE their job. Myself I like the job but there’s a couple things and a couple clients I could really do without, and this applies to most occupations. The thing that I most most dislike about my job is the stigma sorrounding it, I could really do without it ???