does'nt happen often but it pisses me off, when clients in the middle of or at the end of the session ask me if i like my job, which i know what they imply is that i don't like it and that im in only for the money. then deep inside me i tell myself well obviously money is a big party of it. if it was for the sex i could get much better looking guys at the club, LOL. its true that often im tired or my mind is somewhere else due to personal problems and they can notice it but really hate it when they ask me that. so what do you guys reply without being rude

It depends on the client and your relationship to them

I think there are a lot (and you KNOW) which they are, who fetish-ise (sorry sp) our lifestyles, they want to hear you are a nymphomaniac and couldn't possibly get enough sex elsewhere and you love it the money isn't even a thing its just a bonus, also a safe answer if you don't know them well

I work in the city and mostly daytimes so I do get a lot of regulars who are both intelligent, know me quite well and level headed about the nature of the relationship, I tell the truth for me which is that like any job there are parts I like and parts I hate, if they genuinely want to know I tell them more, also use a variation of this on some more normal ones I don't know well or at all but limit the 'don't like' sector to the annoying people on the phone and uncertainty of self employment/long hours if touring, OP said sometimes comes over as tired as do I that's one way to do it.

I think some men think we just roll out of bed jn a hotel looking perfect, unpacked, clean and rested and can f### a few hours then be lazy and that's our life.

If I'm in a hell of a mood and it's a first time client I never want to see again bc they're annoying the hell out of me I tell them what the OP said, that any escort who says the money is irrelevant wouldn't be an escort she would just use tinder and pick the men she liked the look of (I REALLY try not to use that one but occasionally you just get a client you want to punch in the face)

But everyone's different in how comfortable you feel reminding a client that they're a client, if you're looking for minimal drama turn around and ask how tired you look now 

I have been asked the question a few times and my answer consisted of  three words.

Yes I do.

If they then wanted to go into further discussion I would distract them with continuing the reason they booked/turned up and paid me. I/ we owe them no explanations.

I tell them of course I do - it's great to be able to pick my own hours, set my own rates, work when I want to and even if I want to.

I learned to build my own website, take and edit my own photos, do my own bookkeeping and tax return and all sorts of other stuff without having to answer to anybody, and I can earn a weeks' money in a day if I want to. I even like doing my inventory and laundry.

The point is that they don't actually understand what our job entails, which is fine. Nor would they be expected to.

I’ve perfected my acting skills over the years, based on what I believe they want to hear. I should win a BAFTA 

Anything for an easier life!

I hate this question too, i always just say i enjoy the freedom of being my own boss

I say l love not having a boss tell me what to do and not having to put holiday requests in. The best part is not having to wait till end of month to be paid.

Am always brutally honest if they ask if l enjoy the sex. I tell them l do it for the money mainly.

I tell them the truth. Its just like any other job. There are good parts to it and bad parts to it.
Sometimes I have lots of clients and sometimes very few, I’ve met some really lovely people and some really nasty horrible people, the moneys good but there’s no shortage of time wasters.
Overall, I love doing it and I have no plans to stop anytime soon.