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StarGirl90

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Being a size 14 in the escort world
« on: 22 July 2014, 10:04:39 pm »
I am yet to start escorting, I have recently gained some weight after having a child. I am worried I may need to loose some weight before starting. Are men really bothered about flat stomachs and skinny legs? I have a really pretty face nice legs and bum, smallish boobs but my tummy is a bit of a problem area. I get quiet alot of attention but that's with my clothes on. Obviously I can't hide my body when I have to strip off. I'm worried a client will say no to me..
Am I being petty or should I loose some weight first?

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Re: Being a size 14 in the escort world
« Reply #1 on: 22 July 2014, 11:15:05 pm »
Are men really bothered about flat stomachs and skinny legs?

Just like big boobs, long hair, suntans, blue eyes or anything else, some are and some aren't. Everybody's preferences are different, ladies of all conceivable shapes, sizes and ages get work and I'd say that the off putting part would be somebody who clearly doesn't feel comfortable with herself and her body. If you want to lose weight then do but only if you think it will make you feel better (which will make your service better as you'll be happier), not because you're worried about what a stranger you've never even met might think.

Either way, make sure your pictures clearly show what you look like, and those who like it will flock. Those who don't you don't need to worry about :).

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Re: Being a size 14 in the escort world
« Reply #2 on: 22 July 2014, 11:56:06 pm »
Have a look on Adultwork or any other escort directory.Larger ladies do fine.Size 16/18 bbw escort here and pretty sucessful!Many blokes like meat on the bone but just as many aren't arsed either way and will book you because you have a good profile with honest photos and you give a cracking service.Honesty and enthisiasm is the key not what you look like.

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Re: Being a size 14 in the escort world
« Reply #3 on: 23 July 2014, 12:58:58 am »
I'm a size 32, and the largest UK escort is about 40 stone.

Market yourself honestly and get some good - but honest - pics done, and you will attract the guys who like size 14 with *whatever your body looks like*. And be confident, that's sexier than anything :)

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Re: Being a size 14 in the escort world
« Reply #4 on: 23 July 2014, 01:05:10 am »
Lol!! A size 14 too big for escorting??? Not at all!!

Why do BBWs do so well? Because there are so many men out there that love them! Not that a size 14 is necessarily a "BBW" but a size 14 is just an average body size. There is way to much emphasis put on being a "size 8" these days.

Just make sure you use photos that are a true representation of you and don't lie about your size. I would advice not to photoshop your photos either, I definitely wouldn't. I want the client to see exactly what he will be getting.

I find it funny when I read on reverse bookings guys say, "I'm looking for a size 8" lol I really don't think they realise how much they are restricting themselves when there are so many size 10 ladies out there for example, with better and fitter bodies than a size 8 due to height and/or muscle definition.

Makes me laugh how much they know about dress sizes haha!!
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Re: Being a size 14 in the escort world
« Reply #5 on: 23 July 2014, 09:06:59 am »
Exactly what the other ladies said. You can join the BBW directories once you are a size 14 and larger so get yourself on them and the guys who like ladies with curves will find you x

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Re: Being a size 14 in the escort world
« Reply #6 on: 23 July 2014, 09:33:28 am »
Totally men haven't got a clue about sizes, I can wear anything from a 6-16 depending on cut/style/fit also being 5ft me and a tall girl could look exact same shape but we'd wear completely different sizes because of height.
I once had a review where he disputed my dress size, even when I explained I wasn't lying but I'm 5ft so clearly going to be different to taller the idiot still couldn't grasp it
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Re: Being a size 14 in the escort world
« Reply #7 on: 23 July 2014, 06:15:53 pm »
< -- size 16. Foot in both the bbw world and the average slimjim world. Makes no difference being a bit chubby.

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Re: Being a size 14 in the escort world
« Reply #8 on: 23 July 2014, 06:47:14 pm »
14 bottom/16 top
sexy!

nothing to be worried about:)

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Re: Being a size 14 in the escort world
« Reply #9 on: 25 July 2014, 03:09:09 pm »
I am a large lady and atract really good clientele. I am big, blond and love my body and it shows! Make some good pictures with nice clothes and remember that a lot of guys find it interesting if you like your body, they can see it. I have lots of regular clients because I am big. Good luck!
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Re: Being a size 14 in the escort world
« Reply #10 on: 25 July 2014, 08:11:54 pm »
Hmmm, I'm in between 14 and 16 now. Ok, I did once had an agency tell me that I should be size 8... But let's be honest, guys love curves;))))) I am always nicely surprised by all the compliments I get. Guys just go nuts for my bum and boobs;)
It's also psychological. The media pressure men into liking size 8. But if you read some studies men are subconsciously attracted to curvy (mother's womb, security etc)

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Re: Being a size 14 in the escort world
« Reply #11 on: 25 July 2014, 08:42:39 pm »
hi

me to m between 14  and 16 and ii have a c section scar, stretch mark and my boobs are not exactly pert. and 'i'm at the upper end in age as well i'm 50


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Re: Being a size 14 in the escort world
« Reply #12 on: 25 July 2014, 11:31:51 pm »
I have worried about the same thing lol!! Great to read everyone's replies xx

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Re: Being a size 14 in the escort world
« Reply #13 on: 26 July 2014, 04:20:28 am »
Seconding the "everybody's preference is different" sentiment. I look rather boyish, what with being somewhat muscular and having no curves, and I don't suffer from the lack of clients. Anything works as long as you take good care of yourself.

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Re: Being a size 14 in the escort world
« Reply #14 on: 26 July 2014, 09:11:28 am »
Hey im a size 14 escort and i do just fine x