Just picking some of your brains on this as its been bugging me

My friend and I are trying to work out why she gets so many no show / TW  Ive never known anything like it
Example were in the same area recently . I do 7 bookings not a single no show get around 30 odd calls

She gets 2 bookings & gets around 80 plus calls ,
Next day her phone is crazy busy  as soon as one call ends  as  it rings again
she ended up taking her number off because the phone was that busy but those that she had spoke to earlier all called back / turnt up and she had a very good day


She has a great profile good,  pictures prices reviews & feedback
We were discussing this and one client has said to her its because she looks like the ultimate milf ( think,  stifflers mum from American pie the actress Jennifer Coolidge ) my friend has a very similar look about her and she really is very sexy looking and ive always thought that about her that she had this look about her that screams sex if you know what I mean

a lot of her no shows she thinks are young guys but she dosent want to rule out under 30s as the ones she sees are fine but a lot of them do mess her about

She's tried screening the way I do it and that didn't work and she got no bookings and the way I screen practically guarantees me no TW / NS

She dosent advertise as a milf or nothing like that but she is in that age bracket of 45 on AW
Do you think thats the case that being in that age bracket on AW attracts the young guys that want a milf /, older woman
 
Anyone found a way to stop this particular age group messing her about without banning under 30s

I'm 49, and while not a MILF I don't have a younger age limit so long as they're 18, and I honestly don't think younger men mess me around any more than those over 30. If I had to pick something, I'd say perhaps they struggle a little more with the idea of a firm appointment time and my confirmation requests in some cases, but most I've seen have been lovely.

Conversely, I don't see anyone over 60, yet I've found that the 55+ group can sometimes struggle with things like technology, discretion and condoms.

It's horses for courses, really.

I personally won't see under 25's and yes I do think if you are 35+ it attracts more young blokes with a milf fantasy.Does she get them to confirm via text say an hour before or something like that?I get far less no shows that way.

I'm over 40 and had quite a few younger clients, who I find are no more nor less likely to be problematic if I apply the same screening rules as I would do anyone else. It's when I don't and give someone of any age leeway that I do have issues.

I also recieve a lot of bookings from men in their 50s,60s and 70s many more than younger men.

Unless she has some way of working out the age, and I find voice isn't always an indicator, I wouldn't assume these are younger men with older women fantasies.

I'm in my early 40's- started at 34 so a bit young for the Mrs Robinson/MILF fans but I haven't noticed it increasing with age, maybe it will, but I hope not because my experience with young men (under 25's) tends to be a bit negative- of course I have had a few great young men but many that either mess me about or are a bit of a pain in the bedroom- the sort that want to change position every 3 seconds and treat you as if you are in a porn.

I don't have an age limit either way but screen each person individually and have a confirmation system that tends to wheedle out the no shows.

Why your friend gets so many timewasters? Well, maybe she just doesn't have a good judgement of those who aren't serious, though it seems odd if you have coached her and tried using your routine of screening. I'm sure you've advised her of classic no show lines and behaviours.

Maybe there is something about her profile that screams MILF or that she looks overly sexual? What about relooking at her photos and text to make her seem more classy (sorry this sounds rude, but I can't think how else to put it) and less 'easy' and perfect wank fodder for idiots rather than those making a serious booking.

Even if you don't think the above is the case maybe it's worth her rewriting or getting new pictures- or if it comes to it and she can get away with it lower her age?

I don't like younger clients (under 27 I would say) because they mess around a lot.

I screen over the phone and when I hear a very young voice I just ask them their age. If they confirm they are very young I will ask a couple more questions. But if I get any feeling about them lying already about age I just don't expect them to show. I would say maybe 40% of young clients make it to my door. I had a few young guys book me, they would not even ask for my address while telling me they will be there in 30 minutes. That's block on my phone.

I find they are slightly disorganised and careless. I had a few not confirm (not even reply to my reminder text) and then show up: they were at gym, out with friends,  didn't check the phone or just forgot they had to confirm. When they are flexible with their own time they somehow think you are just as flexible with yours and you can just do "any time". It's just different in their heads.

I have no problem seeing a 22 year old calling me, asking if I can do such or such hour after they finish work. As long as I get a feel of them understanding the notion of "commitment" to an appointment, I'm happy to book it.

When a 30yo calls me saying he's got a day off and how about maybe 2pm or maybe 3pm I just say "sure, do what you need to do first and call me around 1pm". They never do.

For me it's more about attitude and maturity. Someone who doesn't value / respect their own time most certainly won't value mine.

I'm 47 and I'll take bookings from anyone over 18. It's true that younger guys mess me around more. They are more likely not to show, and those that do turn up often want to get down to it straight away, not that that's always a bad thing. Given a choice I'd prefer to see only more mature clients, maybe guys over 30 or 35, but I don't feel ready to cut down my client base just yet.

I try to weed out the timewasters on the phone. Some younger guys definitely have a thing for older women, and you learn how to tell. Maybe they're in love with their mothers or something.

I have been booked a few times by fathers wanting me to introduce their sons to sex. It's usually because the poor lad isn't that attractive or he's painfully awkward around girls. One lad was so nervous he couldn't get his end up whatever I tried. He practically ran out the door and I felt I had to give his dad a refund. I'm all heart, me 

I think it would be worth switching her profile photos around so the current main photo is different. And just see if anything changes.