Author Topic: Bareback requests.. (Read 2825 times)

Leilaa · « **on:** 30 May 2017, 09:57:01 am »

Just want to say ladies thankyou for your responses to previous posts. I can't always reply but I do read them. X

Ok is anyone having a ridiculous amount of requests for bareback? My AW profile clearly states I don't offer BB under any circumstances and it's not listed as a service i offer.

I just had a client book and when he turned up outside he requested the main thing he's interested in is BB and would pay double. I was annoyed to say the least. I told him straight 1) he should have looked at my profile to see if this is a service I offer 2) he should have clarified this with me when calling and not leave till he got outside 3) he can turn around and go home as I do not offer this for no amounts of money!!!

It's not fair to be put in this position and he has wasted my time. I turned away another client as the times overlapped.

BibiofLeeds · « **Reply #1 on:** 30 May 2017, 10:22:48 am »

I find bareback requests are like buses.I won't get one for a while and then a spate of them will appear.Thankfully this has mostly been via text or email where I mostly ignore or block.
Had it around 4 or 5 times in person actually during the booking and I ended it early for their stupidness.

Justine · « **Reply #2 on:** 30 May 2017, 10:56:46 am »

I might just be lucky but I don't even get an average of one a year (bb requests) but if I got them during the booking I would naturally refuse and get through the booking then put the block on.

The few requests I had through email have just fallen on deaf fingers, no reply from me at all. I don't even respond with an explanation.

I do find it odd when reading of some sps who claim they get a great number of bb requests. It has never been my experience. There is nothing in my profile which may hint I am open to offers and I am mature in age so wonder if it is a younger lady thing, are men assuming some twenty something girls may do it? Having said that I have also read that men think mature ladies start doing bb as they get older. WHY?!

JustAnotherHooker · « **Reply #3 on:** 30 May 2017, 11:04:24 am »

Quote from: Leilalexis on 30 May 2017, 09:57:01 am

Just want to say ladies thankyou for your responses to previous posts. I can't always reply but I do read them. X

Ok is anyone having a ridiculous amount of requests for bareback? My AW profile clearly states I don't offer BB under any circumstances and it's not listed as a service i offer.

I just had a client book and when he turned up outside he requested the main thing he's interested in is BB and would pay double. I was annoyed to say the least. I told him straight 1) he should have looked at my profile to see if this is a service I offer 2) he should have clarified this with me when calling and not leave till he got outside 3) he can turn around and go home as I do not offer this for no amounts of money!!!

It's not fair to be put in this position and he has wasted my time. I turned away another client as the times overlapped.

Ur getting ridiculous amounts of BB requests because you have it in your profile!! Remember "attracts them like flies/they like a challenge/some of them think that because you SAY you DON'T offer it then you REALLY DO!! Please take this down from your profile asap and I guarantee there will be no more requests!

Xx

Leilaa · « **Reply #4 on:** 30 May 2017, 12:19:38 pm »

Quote from: JustAnotherHooker on 30 May 2017, 11:04:24 am

Ur getting ridiculous amounts of BB requests because you have it in your profile!! Remember "attracts them like flies/they like a challenge/some of them think that because you SAY you DON'T offer it then you REALLY DO!! Please take this down from your profile asap and I guarantee there will be no more requests!

Xx

Eh??? No it's not listed on my profile!

Leilaa · « **Reply #5 on:** 30 May 2017, 12:21:30 pm »

Quote from: Justine on 30 May 2017, 10:56:46 am

I might just be lucky but I don't even get an average of one a year (bb requests) but if I got them during the booking I would naturally refuse and get through the booking then put the block on.

The few requests I had through email have just fallen on deaf fingers, no reply from me at all. I don't even respond with an explanation.

I do find it odd when reading of some sps who claim they get a great number of bb requests. It has never been my experience. There is nothing in my profile which may hint I am open to offers and I am mature in age so wonder if it is a younger lady thing, are men assuming some twenty something girls may do it? Having said that I have also read that men think mature ladies start doing bb as they get older. WHY?!

Men are strange creatures.. ones we will never quite fully understand.

VoluptuousCurves · « **Reply #6 on:** 30 May 2017, 12:23:16 pm »

Quote from: Justine on 30 May 2017, 10:56:46 am

I do find it odd when reading of some sps who claim they get a great number of bb requests. It has never been my experience. There is nothing in my profile which may hint I am open to offers and I am mature in age so wonder if it is a younger lady thing, are men assuming some twenty something girls may do it? Having said that I have also read that men think mature ladies start doing bb as they get older. WHY?!

I'm older and I still get quite a lot. However I've noticed that I get them from particular websites. On AW I could count on the fingers of one hand the requests I've had in a year. However as soon as I put an ad on Vivastreet or Backpage, they start coming in, at least one per week.

Mirror · « **Reply #7 on:** 30 May 2017, 12:25:13 pm »

Quote from: BibiofLeeds on 30 May 2017, 10:22:48 am

I find bareback requests are like buses.I won't get one for a while and then a spate of them will appear.Thankfully this has mostly been via text or email where I mostly ignore or block.
Had it around 4 or 5 times in person actually during the booking and I ended it early for their stupidness.

I'm the same, none for a long time, then several at once.

I have carried on when it's been asked for, but of course I'm then on edge which I hate.

BibiofLeeds · « **Reply #8 on:** 30 May 2017, 12:42:11 pm »

I'm older as well and I get spates of idiots like this regardless of where I advertise.

Cat_BBW · « **Reply #9 on:** 30 May 2017, 01:00:29 pm »

Quote from: Leilalexis on 30 May 2017, 12:19:38 pm

Eh??? No it's not listed on my profile!

I think she means that because you say you DON'T then you probably DO. I don't agree though. Many of us say we don't.

BibiofLeeds · « **Reply #10 on:** 30 May 2017, 02:23:31 pm »

Quote from: Cat_BBW on 30 May 2017, 01:00:29 pm

I think she means that because you say you DON'T then you probably DO. I don't agree though. Many of us say we don't.

No I don't agree either.I got just as many bb timewasters when I didn't mention it in my faq's as when I did.Guys will just go round asking until someone says yes,the majority won't even read the advert properly.

Kay · « **Reply #11 on:** 30 May 2017, 02:34:38 pm »

I don't think your age or what you say on your profile matters - we'll always get them.

QuinnAmour · « **Reply #12 on:** 30 May 2017, 04:37:44 pm »

I once had to march someone out of my house for asking for bareback. Think I gave him quite a shock and he was very embarrassed, and quite apologetic saying he wasn't going to push it, he was only asking. Except he did push it, I said no to him twice. I shouldn't even have had to say no once because he shouldn't have asked!
I think some clients may just ask on the off chance and they're trying their luck but they don't seem to realise once you ask that you then change the tone for the whole booking and it makes the girl feel very uncomfortable. Also they don't think that asking that implies they may have already got it from someone else and could have anything so I definitely don't want to be having sex with them now.

JustAnotherHooker · « **Reply #13 on:** 30 May 2017, 11:17:04 pm »

Quote from: Leilalexis on 30 May 2017, 12:19:38 pm

Eh??? No it's n

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Sorry I meant that because you mention in your profile that you don't BB then boundary pushers, time wasters etc, are more inclined to see it/you as a challenge to do BB!

Sorry for confusion, I forgot a few words! Hahaa x

JustAnotherHooker · « **Reply #14 on:** 30 May 2017, 11:19:32 pm »

Quote from: Kay on 30 May 2017, 02:34:38 pm

I don't think your age or what you say on your profile matters - we'll always get them.

Not constantly no, I rarely get asked for BB and so it DOES matter what we put in pur profiles to some clients and I know this because I've been told by many clients that certain things girls say in their profiles that they don't do, can make guys think that the opposite is true, honestly... Yes as sex workers we will get asked for BB but the op says she gets asked loads, I didn't and not even when I was new on aw, I've been asked about 5 times in one year!

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Leilaa

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