These are the types of calls I find the hardest. Usually I can tell when they 1st speak whether I want to see them but if I then get a bad vibe halfway through, I find a way to cancel. I say something like "actually thinking about it I'm not sure I can do that time after all as I'm out just now so might not be back in time. Then I have someone coming at 6 so not sure I can do today". They usually say ok, only one got funny and called me a miserable bitch  , so my feelings about him were correct. If they start asking lots of sexual questions though I find it easy to say straight out 'I think you're just after sex chat which I don't do. Bye' and that's been ok.

If you're looking for a way to cancel after the phone call, I tend not to as I don't feel right texting clients randomly but this has rarely happened.  I've done this maybe twice and said I'd just started period or again say that you're out and train is delayed so won't be free.

Any other tips I would be grateful for too.

If you get bad vibes, don't do it.  That is my motto. 

There have been times even after putting the phone down, I thought, hell no, I don't feel comfortable so yes I would text (immediately I hasten to add!) and say, oops, just double checked diary and it's not possible.  I know this isn't exactly highly professional but then again the bookings I turn away, I doubt the word professional means much to them. 

At the end of the day, I have to go with the way I am feeling and if it means cancelling or saying no, then I do it.  If I get bad vibes, I will try and keep a guy talking on the phone as long as possible to try to get a better feel for him.  Ask him lots of questions about your profile, your site - to make sure he is fully aware of what you do or don't do. 

Maybe I have lost some good bookings but at the end of the day, it's how I feel and perhaps being in the business a while, gives you a better feel for who you want to see and who you don't and you can almost categorize by hearing an accent/voice, if that makes sense. 

Jenny