Simple if communication is either poor or not understandable I just do not see them.  If it is impossible to talk with emails or phone then it is going to be a bloody awful booking as if they cannot understand me then trying to explain that no I dont want anything stuck up my bum or no sorry you have to wear a condom is going to be hell.  Much easier to just say I am sorry but as we cannot understand each other I feel it would be better if you see someone else and leave it at that

I may lose money but I keep my sanity