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MelissaS

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Re: My first message from a potential client...
« Reply #15 on: 27 September 2018, 01:42:58 pm »
If anyone sends me a stupid message just saying 'Hi', I ignore them.

I replied to one of these idiots once just to see what the outcome was and I now will never, ever again.

Sarastar1

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Re: My first message from a potential client...
« Reply #16 on: 28 September 2018, 03:22:57 pm »
If anyone sends me a stupid message just saying 'Hi', I ignore them.

I replied to one of these idiots once just to see what the outcome was and I now will never, ever again.

Exactly. Sometimes I’ve played around with them when bored but they are generally just looking for free kicks with zero intention of booking

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Re: My first message from a potential client...
« Reply #17 on: 28 September 2018, 05:30:14 pm »
Am I missing something with the 'Hi'?
I've had loads of emails/text start with Hi and they have been genuine. It's just a greeting like a hello or even hiya.

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Re: My first message from a potential client...
« Reply #18 on: 28 September 2018, 06:05:05 pm »
Am I missing something with the 'Hi'?
I've had loads of emails/text start with Hi and they have been genuine. It's just a greeting like a hello or even hiya.

It's when the entire text consists of "Hi"

If I'm bored I respond "Lo" to these.

Then they send "?"

I respond "!"

Then I block!
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Sarastar1

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Re: My first message from a potential client...
« Reply #19 on: 28 September 2018, 06:32:01 pm »
Am I missing something with the 'Hi'?
I've had loads of emails/text start with Hi and they have been genuine. It's just a greeting like a hello or even hiya.

I have one guy who regularly texts ‘hi’ or ‘how are you’ and I mean regularly.... I can be quite a harsh one sometimes in my screening and sometimes i ( often foolishly) let my guard down and engage if bored or trying to give them the benefit of the doubt for a booking.

So with this particular ‘hi’ guy I simply text back ‘hi there.... are you looking for a booking?’

He didn’t respond so clearly wasn’t looking to book just wanted some comms with an escort.

He still texts ‘hi’.......And is a blatant timewaster.

I think it’s preferable if they at least introduce themselves and get to the point. I find the ones who drag things out over text are a waste of time

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Re: My first message from a potential client...
« Reply #20 on: 28 September 2018, 06:39:54 pm »
Hi all!
So I just went live on various adult escorting websites that I saw recommended on these forums.
Now I am probably just being overly paranoid over nothing, but I received my first text message from a potential client.

The exchange went as follows:
Him: hi
Me: Hello, how can I help you?
Him: just replying to your ad. I am mark by the way.
Me: Nice to speak with Mark, I am Mia. When would you like to arrange a meeting? Would this be for a hotel outcall?
Him: Hotel
Me: Where are you based? When would you like to arrange this meeting?
Him: I'm not far from you. Soon. Just to let you know I am in the Police.

I know I am probably reacting at nothing, but soon as he said the word police I felt a bit weird. Even though I know I am doing nothing illegal it just made me feel uncomfortable.

What are your guys thoughts :/  :-[

Having read this properly I wouldn't have gotten past the first "Hi", if you are this helpful with everyone you are going to have your time wasted a lot.

someonesomewhere

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Re: My first message from a potential client...
« Reply #21 on: 28 September 2018, 08:58:42 pm »
Ah, so they are literally just sending hi. That makes sense now.
I was thinking they were sending hi, whatever crap they post. And then send.

VoluptuousCurves

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Re: My first message from a potential client...
« Reply #22 on: 29 September 2018, 04:12:33 pm »
Ah, so they are literally just sending hi. That makes sense now.
I was thinking they were sending hi, whatever crap they post. And then send.

Yeah, "Hi my name is Bob, I'm hoping to book you at 3pm for an hour GFE" = totally fine
"Hi" = timewaster
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Georgie

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Re: My first message from a potential client...
« Reply #23 on: 29 September 2018, 06:37:38 pm »


If I'm bored I respond "Lo" to these

Lol  ;D
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Re: My first message from a potential client...
« Reply #24 on: 29 September 2018, 07:25:29 pm »
I've had this exact encounter recently, I said "that's fine babe I'm not doing anything illegal so why would I mind?"
What city is it and can you post the number (last two digits replaced by **) ? So we know if its the same timewaster. Thanks x

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Re: My first message from a potential client...
« Reply #25 on: 29 September 2018, 07:29:03 pm »
What city is it and can you post the number (last two digits replaced by **) ? So we know if its the same timewaster. Thanks x

No, this isn't the warnings section and we don't post numbers here. If you want to compare notes please use the PM system :).