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Jessica_Hannah

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Back on the streets
« on: 21 June 2023, 08:29:19 pm »
Out of desperation, I've gone back to street work.
I've not done it since I was a teenager and I don't know if I was just a dumb teen back then or if things have changed for the worse in all those years but it wasn't fun.
People are ruder, more demanding, want more from you for less money.
Other working girls don't want to even smile at you.
Customers are customers and money is money, even if it is only £20 for oral with condom.

Anyone else seen a change for the worse?

Petlover29

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Re: Back on the streets
« Reply #1 on: 22 June 2023, 10:59:38 am »
Hi Jess
Sorry you’re going through a tough time. Have you ever considered parlour work. That way you will be safe. When I first started out I worked in one . I know the parlours take a cut etc, but you will be safe and have money by the end of the shift.
« Last Edit: 22 June 2023, 11:02:46 am by Petlover29 »

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Re: Back on the streets
« Reply #2 on: 22 June 2023, 11:10:07 am »
Yes, I don't think many people here will be able to offer experiences as to what's changed, since only a handful have done street sex work and most don't do it now.

Have you rehashed your ads - you can take new pictures on your phone? And as Petlover says, there should be a few parlour shifts knocking about near you somewhere :).

Jessica_Hannah

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Re: Back on the streets
« Reply #3 on: 22 June 2023, 12:34:20 pm »
Thanks, I'll look into parlours. I've burned a lot of bridges in the past but might be time to make amends.
I don't enjoy the street work at all.

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Re: Back on the streets
« Reply #4 on: 22 June 2023, 01:00:52 pm »
Thanks, I'll look into parlours. I've burned a lot of bridges in the past but might be time to make amends.
I don't enjoy the street work at all.

Yes i cannot imagine many women would not enjoy street work with a lot of down sides. Apart from parlours what about signing up to outcall escort agencies as surely that will be better then street work. Do a google search on the areas you want to work in for example Manchester escorts or outcall escorts Manchester and contact a few to see which ones seem not too bad or too greedy. If you are struggling with earning as a indie that is the only thing i can think of to get quicker money in.

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Re: Back on the streets
« Reply #5 on: 23 June 2023, 07:36:38 am »
£20 for oral with condom is a very low fee, in the winter when it is cold and wet I can't imagine you will earn anything.

As other have said parlour work might be the next step, or an agency, are on on the escort sites, just a few bookings at £100+ per hour wil be easier, safer and bring in more money.

Secretsatin

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Re: Back on the streets
« Reply #6 on: 25 June 2023, 08:28:01 am »
Out of desperation, I've gone back to street work.
I've not done it since I was a teenager and I don't know if I was just a dumb teen back then or if things have changed for the worse in all those years but it wasn't fun.
People are ruder, more demanding, want more from you for less money.
Other working girls don't want to even smile at you.
Customers are customers and money is money, even if it is only £20 for oral with condom.

Anyone else seen a change for the worse?

Hi

Sorry you feel you needed to go back to street work. If you getting £20 for blow job, you be better off working in a parlour. You be getting same sort of money in cheap place like say there's a few in bristol like 35 for full service, massage , oral covered and sex. And girls get £20. (Don't know you location)

And with parlours you can charge extras like for owo, toys etc.

But at least you be in a safe, warm environment for same money.

Why not pop a bit of make up on, and visit a few parlours (I find ringing them asking for work - the girls would say no work and hang up, as you competition), and ask if management is there and ask for shifts, or alternatively ring them, ask to speak to receptionist or manager and ask for a trial working shift. Most parlours always desperate for new staff and take you on straight away it's getting through to receptionist/ manager.

Or look online for a few parlour ads outside your city in other locations. Or working flats. You can always get a cheap mega bus into London etc and most places offer free accommodation. Just google up massage parlours and city and then you usually find website and a apply to work form or contact email. Email them directly and then you get through to manager.

Hope this helps

« Last Edit: 25 June 2023, 08:35:38 am by Secretsatin »

Jessica_Hannah

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Re: Back on the streets
« Reply #7 on: 25 June 2023, 11:26:10 am »
Thank you for your advice ladies. I am happy to say that I have reached out to some former employers and have managed to pick up some parlour work.
Hopefully I will be back on my feet (or on my back) soon enough to be able to go independent again.

It's been a comfort to know that people on here were kind enough to offer help and advice.

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Re: Back on the streets
« Reply #8 on: 26 June 2023, 10:02:13 pm »
I did street work for a time and it was horrible. I ain’t ever doing it again no matter how badly I need money. The men are disgusting pond trash they prey on vulnerable women because they know many women who work the streets do so cause of what you said desperation and extreme need.

I had to lower my rates recently. I’ve had the pond scum come out of the woodworks and I know how you feel.

My suggestions is to try and get enough money together to get a hotel and an ad up somewhere. Then maybe offer a low fee like say 50-60 for a half hour and 100 for an hour that should get clients in quicker and then you can raise rates from there. That’s all I can suggest because it’s what I’m doing right now and it seems to be working I’m getting business and slowly increasing my rate again and again to get back up the ladder.

I can’t offer any experience with parlour work as I’ve not done it before but as others suggested that might be a good idea.

Hope you get out of that situation soon op.

You can also try supplement your money with and onlyfans or webcam if it’s an option. It won’t be much but it might be the amount you need for advertising and maybe a cheap hotel and then it might be easier to build from there.

Best of luck.

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Re: Back on the streets
« Reply #9 on: 27 June 2023, 12:24:04 pm »
You can also try supplement your money with and onlyfans...
Sophine, if you've had success with OnlyFans, congrats!
I spent THOUSANDS on it (mainly on promos from other ladies) and didn't make a penny (just as lots of people warned me would happen).
That's just me, though.  Anyone reading this, you may well make money from it.
« Last Edit: 27 June 2023, 07:16:37 pm by Braziliana »

Sophine88

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Re: Back on the streets
« Reply #10 on: 27 June 2023, 02:20:40 pm »
I made a couple hundred on it. The most I’ve made is 800 pounds in one month but it took a lot of graft.

Most people won’t make a living off onlyfans alone. It’s very hard and only a small percentage make enough to live off of.

But it still is a good supplement if you can make 200-300 a month on top of your escorting money it could be the amount you need for advertising and then you’d be spending less on overheads and saving more of your escort income.

I would also suggest offering outcalls at a low price for awhile too as that might be a good idea but it depends how good you are with outcalls I don’t like them personally as I don’t really feel safe but that’s just me everyone’s different.