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Xkandpx

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Re: Working with a partner
« Reply #15 on: 29 January 2018, 10:36:07 pm »
Well. Sounds like he's trying to take advantage. However working as a couple is great fun. It's what we do. We started as cpl. Then rried swinging. Thought well this is fun. Then naturally moved into this

LotusFlower

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Re: Working with a partner
« Reply #16 on: 29 January 2018, 10:50:31 pm »
How many clients would be interested in a 4 handed massage from a male and female?! Two females, yes. Woman and man? Can't really see that being popular.

Definitely sounds like he wants to get his kicks for free.

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Re: Working with a partner
« Reply #17 on: 30 January 2018, 12:16:36 am »
I agree with Veggiegal - a full on MMF booking might be a pull for a few blokes, but I don't really see what many would get from a mixed sex massage. Straight blokes will just book a female escorts, gay blokes a male one?
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Re: Working with a partner
« Reply #18 on: 30 January 2018, 10:47:28 am »
I'm not sure, I'd of liked to have given it a go with my partner to see what the call for it was but he refuses out right to massage another male and I never have any females book in unless they've booked in for a couples massage with their other half.
I'm definitely going to turn down my clients offer and carry on independently

VoluptuousCurves

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Re: Working with a partner
« Reply #19 on: 30 January 2018, 08:55:57 pm »
he refuses out right to massage another male

Jesus christ, he's really not cut out for group sex then!

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amy

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Re: Working with a partner
« Reply #20 on: 30 January 2018, 09:05:35 pm »
working as a couple is great fun.

They're not a couple though. She's a service provider and he's a random punter trying not only to get free time with her but also a chance to interact with other random punters AND be paid for it. I doubt very much that giving said punter the best service he can is foremost in his mind, either.

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Re: Working with a partner
« Reply #21 on: 30 January 2018, 11:59:38 pm »
Agreeing with what else has been said and would like to add, this punter probably won't realise what it's really like, What about when he gets a weird, icky, slightly smelly client that you could probably handle and wants to run away?! You can't let anyone else ruin your professional reputation.

Also do you want a punter knowing your tricks of the trade and maybe realising that sometimes you aren't really enjoying it or are faking it.

I got my partner in for a couple of MMF's (I wasn't paying him!) and ended up sacking him because he would get obviously bored mid booking! I think it REALLY made him appreciate my job though and it made me appreciate my own professionalism.

If you were a dentist you wouldn't let a random man help help out with a filling- I think we have to look at our own jobs with the professionalism other people do.

Smurfet

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Re: Working with a partner
« Reply #22 on: 31 January 2018, 11:08:10 am »
Agreeing with what else has been said and would like to add, this punter probably won't realise what it's really like, What about when he gets a weird, icky, slightly smelly client that you could probably handle and wants to run away?! You can't let anyone else ruin your professional reputation.

Also do you want a punter knowing your tricks of the trade and maybe realising that sometimes you aren't really enjoying it or are faking it.

I got my partner in for a couple of MMF's (I wasn't paying him!) and ended up sacking him because he would get obviously bored mid booking! I think it REALLY made him appreciate my job though and it made me appreciate my own professionalism.

If you were a dentist you wouldn't let a random man help help out with a filling- I think we have to look at our own jobs with the professionalism other people do.
Your right in everything thing youv said, thank you.. Its another way of looking at things.
I have told my client now that working with me isn't going to happen
Youv all helped me open my eyes and I'm not going to contemplate even thinking about it again if I get asked the same by clients in the future

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Re: Working with a partner
« Reply #23 on: 01 February 2018, 12:30:15 am »
I ended up working with a client but it was win win for me as he wasnt doing it for the money he wanted the experience. He was a TV, he set his own profile up on AW so he used to get his own clients, charge them duo rates but give me the full fee. He also got a few solo bookings and he gave me his full fee for that as well. Hes a really lovely guy and I could totally see why he wanted to step out of his own skin occasionally and become someone else as his wife has dementia and he is her sole carer. Unfortunately she recently took a turn for the worse so our little playtimes have come to an end but I consider myself lucky for spending time with one of the good uns x
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