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moondancer

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At 46, am I too old??
« on: 15 August 2014, 10:31:59 am »
Hi everyone.

I am a single mom to two late teens and struggling to pay off my debts, having had no experience in escorting at all, lots of people keep saying i am a MILF and I have had younger guys approach me, even tried to kiss me, even though i feel uncomfortable as I would only date someone after the late thirties. Yet I need the cash, and I am just wondering if there is a market for MILFs.
 I am sexually confident, and I look about 30 so i am told,  so i suppose I just want to check with anyone here who have had, or are having success as an older more mature woman, and what wisdom you can share. I don't even know where to begin!
I cannot do incalls, as my children are both at home.
Thanks

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Cat_BBW

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Re: At 46, am I too old??
« Reply #1 on: 15 August 2014, 10:41:17 am »
You're no way near too old - the oldest *known* escort is in her mid-80s, and she apaprantly has a decent stream of clients. And you're definitely not the oldest who posts on here :)

There's a HUGE market for MILFs - have a look through Adultwork.com. Also read the main site here www.saafe.info for lots of great advice, as well as reading all these forums.
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sourgrapes

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Re: At 46, am I too old??
« Reply #2 on: 15 August 2014, 10:48:33 am »
There is definitely a market for MILFs, and there is no need to fib about your age, either. I'm older than you, and I don't bother to subtract the obligatory 5 years or so on my profile. I don't earn any less than a 30 year old. Good pictures, good marketing, and good service to make sure you get repeats are where it's at.

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TheChemist

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Re: At 46, am I too old??
« Reply #3 on: 15 August 2014, 10:50:57 am »
The most popular lady in my town is double my age, at 55  ;D she seems to do brilliantly and has wonderful field reports.

Once you make a bit of cash, maybe you could think about renting a one bed flat nearby for incalls, or a hotel room once in a while (it's tax deductible)

I used to know a lady who did three days a week from a London hotel room then drove home and spent the other four a week with her kids - it can work! In any case, startup costs aren't high and it's definitely worth a go if it's something you feel you can do. Read all the articles on SAAFE and ask all questions that come to mind.
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Vichyssoise

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Re: At 46, am I too old??
« Reply #4 on: 15 August 2014, 11:58:07 am »
I recently started in this profession about four weeks ago. I am 57 and don't lie about my age. I only work two days a week at the moment from hotels as I don't want to work from home. I have had four to five clients each week I usually do two on check in day as that is a bit hectic and three the next day as I can start earlier, I don't like to work too late. It has been brilliant I am loving it. I am getting a bit fed up with hotels though so am considering a working flat ( didn't know it was tax deductible). You are no way to old and will attract a good deal of interest. You can also stipulate what age bracket you wish to see. There is lots of good advice on here and I did and still do trawl the threads for all info. Good luck.
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Re: At 46, am I too old??
« Reply #5 on: 15 August 2014, 12:18:10 pm »
There is no way you are too old.
I'm 54 and I get plenty of work and a surprising number of younger guys. In fact I get more under 30's than over.
My other half is only 32 and he certainly doesn't think I'm too old :)
Age is just a number.
George Bernard Shaw said " We don't stop playing because we grow old, we grow old because we stop playing"
I certainly don't intend to stop playing :) :)
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Re: At 46, am I too old??
« Reply #6 on: 15 August 2014, 12:30:40 pm »
Hey moon dancer, welcome to SAAFE, your still young enough to escort.  I started eight years ago when I was 53 (now 61) so you are most definitely not too old.  I don't work as much as I used to, mainly for the reason, I don't have to.

Starting later in life can give you more advantages than disadvantages too.  Think of all the life experiences you have had.  In reality I've been shagging twice as long as many have been born, now you can't tell me that I've not gained experience through that.

There is NO REASON at all why your business should not be successful.  Do as CatBBW suggests and read the main site - she has put a link on for that. The help there is invaluable.  I escorted for four years without it but since finding SAAFE it has been much easier and you feel at least there is someone here that understands.

All the best. X
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mature helen

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Re: At 46, am I too old??
« Reply #7 on: 15 August 2014, 03:21:35 pm »
I'm 56 and I advertise my correct age, you are not too old for escorting there is always a market for every type, age, race of woman. Good luck.
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ColleenWakilie

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Re: At 46, am I too old??
« Reply #8 on: 15 August 2014, 03:22:50 pm »
Not at all.

I personally think that the older ladies do better than the young ones. At least it appears that way in my area.
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Sassy Slapper

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Re: At 46, am I too old??
« Reply #9 on: 15 August 2014, 04:31:41 pm »
Nope, there is no such thing as too old in escorting nowadays, so long as you can do what you are advertising then there are men who will find you sexy enough to visit x
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luciefate

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Re: At 46, am I too old??
« Reply #10 on: 15 August 2014, 04:45:54 pm »
Hi Moondancer,

I am exactly your age and have recently started escorting. Likewise I have two teenage children and can't do incalls. PM me if you would like to chat.

Lucie x
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moondancer

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Re: At 46, am I too old??
« Reply #11 on: 15 August 2014, 06:13:15 pm »
Wow, thankyou all for your contribution and positive support. :-* :-* :-*

Having thought about it now, from a more inspired outlook, I will give it a go.
i need to tone up a bit though, batwings and too many dimples have gathered round my spacesuit, and having had no man for a few years, I have almost forgotten what a boner looks like lol

ad lucielee, i will pm you thanks
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