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Author Topic: I would like a MENTOR/mother figure wanted whilst escorting (pros and cons)  (Read 4550 times)

Lady_Lust_XXX

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Im the same as Strawberry and point girls in the direction of SAAFE which can have everyone on the forum as mentor.  We all have our own way of working.

I dont think you could go wrong with using SAAFE as your mentor until you have enough confidence in yourself.
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jasmine123

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TheLittleMatchGirl

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just sounds like a one way friendship, someone seeking support etc without giving anything in return...may be tricky to find..
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ParisB

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same here -   I'm happy to post on here about stuff relating to work  cos its done in my time and at my leisure but i wouldn't waste my own personal time unless I'm getting something back from that person no matter how small it is   
and sorry if that sound bitchy or not particularly nice  but its a bit like touring or working somewhere new  I'm happy to swop as a rule as long as i get something worthwhile back

Unless it's someone on here that i know from here via there posting history when i get emails asking for xxx and xxx i tend to ask them for references from other escorts so that i know who they are or  there website so
Ive lost count of the time I've given very detailed info on say for example on touring ireland or somewhere in the uk from everything from what bus to catch to where to best place is to eat to the best roaoms in hotels 
and don't even get a thanks back for it  ( not that i want it but it would be nice ) 

I guess we all had to start somewhere and i know that i know help or advice when starting out which is why I'm generally pretty happy to help other escorts out





I'm willing to mentor anyone but my mentoring charges are 150 pounds for the hour, cause why would I work for free? I mean, I'm giving someone very valuable information that I've gained through many years of experience in order to improve her business. What am I gaining by giving it for free? Sorry don't intend to come out as bitchy but information is power. Plus you'll be taking up someone time, that could be spend seeing clients, working on her marketing or just her personal time etc... So if you intend to have someone "mentor you", the fair thing is to give "something" in exchange.

LaylaBrunei

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This was originally posted in buddy linkups and is not requesting a mentor to teach or to run around after them, I already know how to be an escort. I, however now have found what I was seeking in the form of an older lady I used to work with. We meet up a few times a week (when we are BOTH free and not working) to shop for work clothes or chat and offer general advice and support on touring, clients and rates its nice to have an older escort to chat to as she has been doing it for years. I offer support to many fellow workers whether its touring, renting out rooms for a low cost and providing many things or even helping friends put down deposits on working flats or acting as a guarantor as I have a secular career also because when you give you get back. I do not ask anyone to "work" as I work everyday myself and attend Uni so there is only time to meet up now and then.

Thanks for all the helpful replies