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Mariaxxx

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are insecure clients worth it?
« on: 14 January 2024, 11:11:07 am »
Hi,

Seems like I have a newbie feeling scared about the concept of visiting me and insecure of his age.
It is sweet but draining at the same time.
What are you doing with this kind of guys/ at what point you give it up?

Thanks

MissElvira

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Re: are insecure clients worth it?
« Reply #1 on: 14 January 2024, 11:23:40 am »
I wouldn't waste too much time, Could be just a timewaster trying to keep texting with you. I just tell them that I'm easy to go with and when they are ready to book they should get in touch and commit to a meet. It's not worth trying to hand hold snd convince them if they are not going to get through yiyr door.

SquirtyQueen

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Re: are insecure clients worth it?
« Reply #2 on: 14 January 2024, 11:24:20 am »
In my experience the self proclaimed "nervous" guys rarely turn up. If I get a hint of nerves I'll ask for a deposit or make it a short appointment.
I usually reassure them by saying "you're in safe hands" or suchlike but no more than this for fear of drifting into free chat/timewaster territory  ;)

Cgiw

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Re: are insecure clients worth it?
« Reply #3 on: 14 January 2024, 02:29:55 pm »
I guess the key part is that you're finding him draining already. I think we probably all have our own lines on how much encouragement to book that we give for free. I am kind to nervous clients but do stop giving them chances eventually as they do easily cross the line into timewaster territory.

In the room, they're some of my favourites, as they're generally slightly overwhelmed so easy to handle, and grateful for whatever they get, which is gratifying.

But sometimes all you can do is tell them you're ready to book when they are, and leave it to them to make the decision, and some never will.

Mariaxxx

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Re: are insecure clients worth it?
« Reply #4 on: 14 January 2024, 03:26:28 pm »
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Mariaxxx

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Re: are insecure clients worth it?
« Reply #5 on: 14 January 2024, 03:27:14 pm »
I guess the key part is that you're finding him draining already. I think we probably all have our own lines on how much encouragement to book that we give for free. I am kind to nervous clients but do stop giving them chances eventually as they do easily cross the line into timewaster territory.

In the room, they're some of my favourites, as they're generally slightly overwhelmed so easy to handle, and grateful for whatever they get, which is gratifying.

But sometimes all you can do is tell them you're ready to book when they are, and leave it to them to make the decision, and some never will.



We had a time agrred, in the morning I get the text that I am welcomed to join him for a lunch 1hr prior agreed time and I can cancel if I want to.

So I canceled even if he moved back from the lunch invite coz I dont have energy to reassure him that everything is fine, no need to worry, he is welcome bla bla bla

But I generally have no respect for insecure ppl as I am on the other end so I give it up easily but thinking of new approach

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Re: are insecure clients worth it?
« Reply #6 on: 14 January 2024, 05:16:31 pm »
I had someone email me saying he was a 28 year old virgin and was really nervous. I thought nah game player. Then I noticed he had one review saying that she enjoyed teasing him, pretty sure he’s not a virgin! Although teasing doesn’t means he’s had sex, I suspect he was playing silly buggers and just deleted it.