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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: lillith on 09 March 2017, 02:26:45 pm
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I've learned that willypic senders are definite time wasters, face pic senders are also dubious and quite often time wasters but maybe not as much as willy pic senders so I was wondering about bareback requesters, my natural reaction is to bin anybody who requests it without further letting them through to the next level, once I get some seemingly genuine replies with basic vetting done they then get my number at the end of it, some places I advertise require more initial filtering, I don't yet do AW but I'm guessing the inquiries are much better quality than the crap that I get at the moment
In the same area, do you also put Discount Seekers in the same stable or do you give them more leeway and work with it for a while to see where it goes? My priority is to filter out entirely boundary pushers as they are by definition likely to be more aggressive I'm assuming based on my limited experience and these are the ones I really want to avoid massively!! Don't mind letting through some of the time wasters if it means I'm less likely to filter out any potential good punters
Note to admin: I did try to search for this topic via the system to avoid duplicating threads but couldn't find anything, if there is a more appropriate thread I apologize
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I'm not sure about bareback requesters being timewasters, but once they mention it I would not entertain the idea of accepting a booking with them.
I'm pretty much the same with discount seekers, especially as my rates are pretty low anyway. I had one man call me several times, always to haggle. Eventually one day he had the full 60 quid for a 30m booking, confirmed, and then started going on in texts that he wanted to start the action IMMEDIATELY etc. As you can imagine, he was a right PITA.
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I agree with Kay, they are of a different sort to TW but I immediately blacklist anyone who asks for this (and list them in Truecaller as "Bareback seeker")
Hagglers I find easier to deal with and IME about 50% of them will turn up to a booking and pay the requested amount. It does help that I have a special offer for early morning bookings, so I tell them if they book an early appointment they can get a 10/20 discount on a 30/60 min booking. If they are trying to haggle an hour I tell them I can do 45 mins for x. if it's half hour then I say I can do a 15 min quickie for x.
I have to say I've noticed the majority of hagglers are Asian guys and I think it's a cultural thing that you just haggle for literally everything. So I don't take it personally.
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I'm not sure it matters what stable they are in.Bareback seekers are not someone I will ever see full stop.They probably are genuine but I won't see anyone that asks me for a service I make clear I don't offer so I guess if I had to label them it would be 'boundary pusher' and they immediately get screened out.
The same with discount seekers,my rates are clear enough and I am not a rug on a Turkish market stall so no I don't work with them personally.
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It's totally up to you. Personally I refuse to see anyone who asks for bareback or who tries to haggle, especially since I have it written clearly that I'll blacklist anyone who tries. To me, it makes me think they're trying to push boundaries before meeting, so are likely to do it later.
I did make an exception with one guy who asked for ?20 off but only because he was otherwise very polite and did apologise. And he turned out to be just fine, but a lot of the hagglers are rude from the offset anyway.
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Ditto- I won't see hagglers or bare back requesters or men who send cock pictures. If they can't respect me at the booking stage I don't want them near me.