I have this issue all the time, I either attract rough man handlers or I have a low pain threshold (don't have these problems in real life) maybe I am not relaxed properly with it being work, who knows but my major problem I have with rough clients is mostly fingering, I clamp up and it dry's me out. I don't know how many times they have scratched me with a nail and really hurt me or tried to stuff in as many fingers as possible or they try to dig for gold (I can hardly take one finger in me as I get so anxious about it if they are rough) Then there are the guys who rub your clit like they are trying to polish something up to brand new and shiny and then there are the guys who suck and bite your clit, bite your nipples and get carried away where they manage to poke your eye or punch you by accident. I think all of this is totally outrageous and not fun and it still baffles me how they cant read my body language when they are doing something I don't like.

Only advice I can give is just to be politely honest that they are being to rough and to calm down and guide them to the right area (sometimes they are so hard on my clit it takes my breath away so I move them up so its just my bone at the top they are rubbing like mad) it does make the atmosphere a bit awkward though so sometimes I do try to tolerate it and just not meet with that person again.


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"Oh wow, that's amazing, but I'm so turned on I'm getting too sensitive down there!"

Don't know how many buy it, but I seems to get them to move away. Or I guide them more to the bone where it's not as sore if it's rough.

Me too, I don't mind penetrative sex being hard and fast or slow and gentle (lubed up condoms feel fine) rough touching, fingering and eating you alive just IS NOT good for me    xx

Yes porn is to blame and I guess so many of the men are inexperienced so they use porn as a guide but it would be nice if they realised that was acting/fake and not how the normal female body likes to be treated as a generalisation (Obviously their are girls who do like it)

They expect you to be wet in 2 seconds flat, I wonder how they would feel with a dry, rough wank, they would soon be telling us.

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Ditto,

i think men watch so much porn and they think we all like it like that.. some one slapped my lady parts the other day..

 

I had someone do that ages ago, he was all horny and smiling until he seen the look of horror on my face. Oh, and while we're on slapping, anyone ever been randomly slapped across the face mid BJ? Porn to blame for that one too. 

Nat xXx

Everyone has their ways in how they feel the female anatomy works. Most men are good at it really. But i do get a fair amount of men that are really quite rough / clumsy / too eratic with their movements down there that it hurts me and dry me out. I will suggest moving positions or sexual activity or techniques as to stay sexy but usually if men are this unaware of the female parts they just eventually go back to what they were doing during the session and of course i don't want the entire session to be painful. How can i go about it to ensure they are aware it's incorrect and to try it another way?

I guess the best culprit is not realizing that the clit is very sensitive and not to hammer it like you would the vagina.

Suggestions?

To add at the beginning of bookings to be gentle if you was to give me oral as am sensitive. One yesterday was ruff. So now have decided that will just say there and then regardless, as my comfort is prioritized.

Everyone has their ways in how they feel the female anatomy works. Most men are good at it really. But i do get a fair amount of men that are really quite rough / clumsy / too eratic with their movements down there that it hurts me and dry me out. I will suggest moving positions or sexual activity or techniques as to stay sexy but usually if men are this unaware of the female parts they just eventually go back to what they were doing during the session and of course i don't want the entire session to be painful. How can i go about it to ensure they are aware it's incorrect and to try it another way?

I guess the best culprit is not realizing that the clit is very sensitive and not to hammer it like you would the vagina.

Suggestions?

I ask them to be gentle at the beginning of bookings if they have been rough with me before.