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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: seleranda on 07 January 2014, 06:09:21 pm
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He says he lives on my "middle" town (not big, not small). He seems nice and so but I'm not sure if he will shut up when the case he meets someone that already know me. I've seen a pic of him and I don't recognize him but still don't sure about the future...
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I guess that is something you will have to figure out. Use your gut instinct on this one, if you think there is a possibility or risk of being outted to people you really don't want to have knowing simply don't do it. Its not worth it if you have other ways of getting clients outside your town.
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He says he lives on my "middle" town (not big, not small). He seems nice and so but I'm not sure if he will shut up when the case he meets someone that already know me. I've seen a pic of him and I don't recognize him but still don't sure about the future...
Do you have school children? Are you single?
If I had school children then I wouldn't do anyone close to me but if you are single I wouldn't have so many reservations.
On saying that I live in a smallish town and in 8 yrs have only met two guys who I knew. One I still see collecting his kids from school when im collecting my grandson (so embarrassing in some ways, but hey ho) but when its his wife picking up the kids I just cant look at her. Not because im ashamed of what I do but for other external reasons.
Its something you just got to think about, decide and stick to your decision.
Good luck.
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To be honest its a personal choice but I wouldn't worry too much as long as discretion is clear he may have more to lose after all.