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saltysweet

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Apologising does that make it ok
« on: 17 January 2019, 04:10:41 pm »
In 1 hour I had three men being moody, arrrogant and patronising when arranging the booking then apologising by text the next second.
What's all that about?
Does apologising make it ok?
« Last Edit: 17 January 2019, 05:23:32 pm by saltysweet »

amy

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Re: Apologising does that make it ok
« Reply #1 on: 17 January 2019, 04:24:24 pm »
Without being entirely clear on the specifics, if my gut says no then so do I. Unless it's very obviously nerves then a pain in the arse doesn't magically become a nice customer just by uttering one or two words.

I got a harsh reminder of this the other day when I let one slip through who I had my doubts about but told myself I was just tired and let it go. That half hour was like Shit Punter Bingo (got the directions wrong, asked if I was alone in the flat, asked how many bookings I'd done so far today, moaned about the temperature, whinged about having to pay a normal rate for anal, whinged because he couldn't keep it up to come more than once and then told me that when he saw Flossie last week he came seventeen times in half an hour and rounded it off by telling me where Flossies flat is).

So yeah, you get the idea ;D

saltysweet

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Re: Apologising does that make it ok
« Reply #2 on: 17 January 2019, 04:48:27 pm »
Thanks Amy your awful moaner was exactly what I was imagining the reality would be.
So 'I'm sorry' means in their language, 'I know I'm a general purpose prick, I can't hide it, let me show you in person!' :)
I flicked them all off.

amy

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Re: Apologising does that make it ok
« Reply #3 on: 17 January 2019, 04:50:24 pm »
He also asked if I was married and if I lived at my flat.

House! :D

saltysweet

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Re: Apologising does that make it ok
« Reply #4 on: 17 January 2019, 04:51:17 pm »
Census man on his day off maybe  :)?
It's a re-hash of the usual things...like not reading the page and when I suggest reading it one blows his gasket and says, 'thanks for the schooling' and rung off, them texted 2 seconds later 'I apologise'. I'm the door bitch getting in the way of the blowjob. (true, but they can't keep up the pretence of not being angry at jumping through a few hoops.)
This angry-horny thing is a bit disturbing.
It got me wondering if these guys need to be in an angry state to have sex? ???
« Last Edit: 18 January 2019, 01:56:00 pm by saltysweet »

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Re: Apologising does that make it ok
« Reply #5 on: 18 January 2019, 06:17:48 pm »
No they sound like misogynistic bastards who won't have an ounce of respect for any wg they see. Best avoid rude idiots altogether.

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Re: Apologising does that make it ok
« Reply #6 on: 19 January 2019, 08:30:57 am »
If someone is truly sorry they won't do it in the first place.

I'm also often intrigued by the 'I know you don't like contact this method, but I'm genuinely a respectful person', more recently have received a spate of want-to-go-back-and-forth with messages because I'm new and nervous, even one person claiming to be in their words 'old fashioned' yet are texting and using text speak.

 ::)

saltysweet

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Re: Apologising does that make it ok
« Reply #7 on: 20 January 2019, 10:17:19 pm »
Thanks Curls and Mirror, so true. My friend was curious and clicked on the photo and the 'apology' was a hand holding a $100 bill.  ???
Boggles.