I've had an ex-SO on SSRIs, and several clients besides, and it is not something that is ''solved'' by another person, experience or not. Medical side-effects are medical side-effects, and if anything, aggravation with own inability to orgasm and fixating on it is going to make it even more improbable to occur. Simply put, expecting someone else to troubleshoot this is equivalent to expecting miracles in regards to coke/alcohol wet pasta dick. It is chemically induced and not likely to just cease due to ''correct handling''.