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Fallingstar

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How do you dress to greet your clients?
« on: 02 September 2009, 09:48:09 am »
Hi all

I know Ive been full of questions this week but today's topic is what do you wear to greet your clients at the door when working incall?

I always greet them fully dressed in my nice subtly sexy work clothes,high heels and sexy stockings and lingerie underneath. I work in a busy apartment block and i think for discretion purposes alone i shouldn't be in my underwear etc. Plus i would feel a berk sorting out the money,getting my clients a drink etc in nought but my scanties ;D

Occasionally i have clients asking me to greet them in my undies but i always politely explain that i always greet my gents dressed and they've all been fine about it. However i had an incall booked yesterday with a client i had seen before and who had seemed fairly okay. On the morning he text me to confirm the booking and then asked if i would greet him at the door totally buck naked! i politely explained that i would not be able to do that for discretion purposes. He text back saying that he really really wanted me to answer the door naked and could i not make an exception for him? I politely said again that no that would not be possible but that we would be getting naked pretty quickly ;) The berk text back again and said that he would be cancelling the booking if i didn't do as he requested. So therefore me being the stroppy mare i am told him fine we will cancel then.

So whats everyone Else's thoughts on this? do you greet then dressed? in your undies? on your hands while juggling fire with your feet?

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Re: How do you dress to greet your clients?
« Reply #1 on: 02 September 2009, 10:34:57 am »
What a muppet....Threatening to cancel the app if you don't do what he requests, like its going to immediatly make you jump and do exactly what he wants! I always greet fully clothed for exactly the same reasons and anyone who doesnt value discretion as much as I do I am not interested in seeing.

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Re: How do you dress to greet your clients?
« Reply #2 on: 02 September 2009, 10:43:26 am »
Haha, what a berk! Glad you canceled on him, Colette - it wasn't a stroppy thing to do at all! He was probably going to arrive naked as well and then what would you have done?! :P Not a pleasant sight for the neighbours.

I greet fully clothed for the same reasons as you and Amber. I live in a flat but have to trot down to the main front door (to open it manually! Shock horror!) to let clients in, and it opens onto the street. There are builders working across the road, too. And people walking around doing normal walky public people things. They are not going to give me money if I flash them my boobies on a Tuesday afternoon, so I won't. ;D
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Re: How do you dress to greet your clients?
« Reply #3 on: 02 September 2009, 11:07:12 am »
Yeah, god. And what about this scenario- I know you'd seen him before as well know, you can't trust someone just because you've seen them once. So, what if he has a good look at you naked and then decides to walk off?! Free show. No way mister.

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Re: How do you dress to greet your clients?
« Reply #4 on: 02 September 2009, 11:34:23 am »
I get these now and again, and like you they have nearly all been fine when I have explained that I live in a block with neighbours, and cannot wander the corridors dressed like a hooker; I wear a skirt and cardigan or a nice dress in summer (which always seems to go down well) and my fancy gear underneath although I really ought to remember to put some heels on, I just feel silly wearing outside shoes in the house.

I once had a client insist that I open the door wearing nothing but stockings and heels and got quite stroppy when I explained about the flat, and moreover, that there are some things of mine that you PAY to see. I cancelled him - the request wasn't that unreasonable (although a client who would be keen on something as tacky as this isn't one I would expect to get on with particularly well), but because his petulant attitude stank, and I didn't want him in the house. Like so many things, it's not what they ask for, but how they react when told no that decides it for me.

Are there actually ladies out there who do open the door in their undercrackers? I always think the undressing is one of the fun parts  ???.

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Re: How do you dress to greet your clients?
« Reply #5 on: 02 September 2009, 11:56:07 am »
There are girls at my agency who answer the door in their underwear. Although I'm not convinced that it has more to do with the fact that they cant be arsed to invest in a decent 'work' wardrobe more than anything else (meow ;D)

You are spot on Amy,any client who is going to be petulant about something like that isn't worth seeing anyway. Why should they get an eyeful before they've even handed over the money for it? I also agree that the unwrapping is part of the fun,like an x-rated birthday pressie.

I personally feel (and i may be over analysing here) that guys who want you to answer the door naked etc do it for the sense of power it will give them as much as anything. Its basic human psychology,being naked while the other person is dressed gives them an advantage over you and puts you on the back foot immediately. Besides where would i put my tips if i was naked? ;)

And your right as well Carla,i never thought of the chance of him copping a look at the readies and then doing a runner. My god if anything like that ever happened to me i would have to hunt them down like a dog!





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Re: How do you dress to greet your clients?
« Reply #6 on: 02 September 2009, 11:59:06 am »
Rule of thumb, I dress professionally to meet the client at the door. Anything else is not acceptable. If they don't understand this, then they can find another lady. In Ireland there are just too many looky-loos.

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Re: How do you dress to greet your clients?
« Reply #7 on: 02 September 2009, 12:38:37 pm »
Hi Collette, Good for you that you made the decision to cancell on this guy, what a jerk !!!!!!!!! you have to have standards and its sounds like you have very good ground rules so stick to your way of working, its clearly working for you, good luck with everything x

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Re: How do you dress to greet your clients?
« Reply #8 on: 02 September 2009, 02:56:55 pm »
I personally feel (and i may be over analysing here) that guys who want you to answer the door naked etc do it for the sense of power it will give them as much as anything. Its basic human psychology,being naked while the other person is dressed gives them an advantage over you and puts you on the back foot immediately. Besides where would i put my tips if i was naked? ;)

Nah, I disagree. I think it's well horny meeting a client at the door naked. It's nothing but the horn a guy is feeling having you greet him at the door buck nekkid. It's something his missus wouldn't, or no longer does, so it's all part of the fantasy.

I have two doors, the main one to the street where I buzz them in, then the second one that leads to the flat itself which is the door I answer, so I can meet a client however he wishes; stockings or sussies, wearing just a thong, fully-clothed, naked or full pvc regalia. Makes no odds to me any which way.

But I do agree that if the layout of your premises means you can't indulge in a client's request, then you obviously need to dress apropriately. Anybody that doesn't understand that, or refuses to, deserves to be kicked to the kerb.

I remember once, an escort told me that a client asked her to turn up to an outcall, a hotel at Gatwick no less, wearing nothing but stockings and sussies and heels with an overcoat. And when he opened the door she was to unzip him and drop to her knees and give him a blowjob there and then. She wasn't clear on whether the door was still open to the corridor or not. But still not something I would've entertained myself.

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Re: How do you dress to greet your clients?
« Reply #9 on: 02 September 2009, 05:37:51 pm »
The front door of my premises opens straight out onto a path leading to other houses. So, for discretion I'm never going to be opening the door naked or in my underwear. I also always close the curtain, nothing to do with being a prude but simply maintaining discretion. A lot of guys ask me for reassurance that the neighbours don't know my business and henceforth I do my utmost to keep this.

Very interesting how many got upset when I last had to moved - including those who'd commited indiscrete behaviour in the past.................

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Re: How do you dress to greet your clients?
« Reply #10 on: 02 September 2009, 10:51:20 pm »
Talking of indiscreet behaviour, one of my AW gallery pics is of me wearing a long coat and stockings outdoors. A regular was rather taken with this particular photo and never shut up about it. His suggestion was to re-enact this scene in my back garden. Thinking of my neighbours I was sorely tempted to ask if it would be ok to try a shag outside his house!
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Re: How do you dress to greet your clients?
« Reply #11 on: 02 September 2009, 11:00:21 pm »
I've done it in a client's back garden! The walls were high enough for discretion, but we could hear the neighbours throwing a birthday party for their mum!

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Re: How do you dress to greet your clients?
« Reply #12 on: 03 September 2009, 03:50:21 pm »

I remember once, an escort told me that a client asked her to turn up to an outcall, a hotel at Gatwick no less, wearing nothing but stockings and sussies and heels with an overcoat. And when he opened the door she was to unzip him and drop to her knees and give him a blowjob there and then. She wasn't clear on whether the door was still open to the corridor or not. But still not something I would've entertained myself.
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I know exactly which client that is! Lol, have seen him myself and so have a couple of my mates.  The money is just inside the door and you do get to shut the door first.  If you get this client, its is a very easy 2hrs money for 15 mins work.

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Re: How do you dress to greet your clients?
« Reply #13 on: 03 September 2009, 05:24:30 pm »
Have worn the same myself when popping out to the petrol station for late night munch if im working.
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Re: How do you dress to greet your clients?
« Reply #14 on: 03 September 2009, 05:42:55 pm »
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Have worn the same myself when popping out to the petrol station for late night munch if im working.

I went to the shops in my jammies with a white top, no bra, it rained, everyone in asda had a good view of my nipples. Should have known it was going to end in a one women wet t-shirt competition. I live in Wales for christ sake!