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Sophine88

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Anyone else not get older men at all?
« on: 31 March 2025, 06:52:20 pm »
I’ve noticed most of my clients are in the 18-40 bracket. I rarely ever get a client outside of this age group which I find a bit odd because I always assumed older men would be a big chunk of the demographic of escort clients but I get absolutely none lol. In fact I don’t know when the last time I got an old guy is. It’s a shame because they tend to be the ones with more cash. Although the younger guys I see are all well paid professionals so they tend to have a lot of cash too so I don’t really mind that much but yeah I just can’t understand maybe they’re not into me lol.


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Re: Anyone else not get older men at all?
« Reply #1 on: 31 March 2025, 08:43:01 pm »
I word my profile as the gfe experience and I mainly attract older men

It’s worded in such way that it’s as much about cuddles and chat as it is sexual pleasure maybe that is why x

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Re: Anyone else not get older men at all?
« Reply #2 on: 31 March 2025, 08:54:13 pm »
Most of my clients are older, up to 80.

I tend to attract the over 30’s, which is great.

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Re: Anyone else not get older men at all?
« Reply #3 on: 01 April 2025, 12:11:54 pm »
I’ve noticed most of my clients are in the 18-40 bracket. I rarely ever get a client outside of this age group which I find a bit odd because I always assumed older men would be a big chunk of the demographic of escort clients but I get absolutely none lol. In fact I don’t know when the last time I got an old guy is. It’s a shame because they tend to be the ones with more cash. Although the younger guys I see are all well paid professionals so they tend to have a lot of cash too so I don’t really mind that much but yeah I just can’t understand maybe they’re not into me lol.

What age range do you advertise yourself?

I asked because I have a similar experience. I did some age experiments with marketing for over a year period and noticed a dramatic shift in my clientele. I realised that the older I advertised myself the younger my client base, and the youngermy advertised age the older the clients! Yike.

I advertised from early 30s to mid and from early 40s and to mid 40s. I didn't like how young the client base was when I advertised as mid 40s.

I see a lot of women refusing to advertise beyond 20s lol, but I've never advertised as 20s to avoid the old men looking for young women, especially the over 60s. Ew. I don't mind older men at all, but I have no interests in the ones chasing young women under 30. When I advertised as early to mid 30s, I still attracted older men up to the 80s, but they were descent men, not the ones looking specifically for young thing haha, so that was okay.

But once I advertised as 40s, I barely got them - and of course only the decent ones come to me - they always ask if k would see them amd if it okay to book, which I like lol.

I would be interested about others experience based on their advertised age - I think it's fascinating.

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Re: Anyone else not get older men at all?
« Reply #4 on: 01 April 2025, 12:31:22 pm »
I've always had clients of all ages. Still the same now and that's a range from very early 20s to very late 70s but that's assuming they're being honest about their ages. Makes no difference to me as long as politeness and good hygiene are to my requirements.  I've suspected a few were in their 80s but no problem seeing them as they seemed fit and with good mobility 👍

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Re: Anyone else not get older men at all?
« Reply #5 on: 01 April 2025, 12:41:46 pm »
Now that I think about it, I used to have a lot more old clients (like 70+ old) when I was in my 20’s than now that I’m in my 30’s which is a bit 🤢 tbh
I barely ever get anyone under 35, which is also good for me as I feel a bit mumsy in a sexual situation with younger guys.  At the moment I attract my preferred age group - 40 to 60

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Re: Anyone else not get older men at all?
« Reply #6 on: 01 April 2025, 02:45:36 pm »
I get a looot of older men, but I do express on my profile that I have no upper age limit, so maybe it’s that?
When I first started I was always surprised the amount of 60+ men who were into heavy tatts and piercings tho haha

I will echo what was said above - when I had my age as younger (24 - I am very babyfaced and passed haha) I got a lot of older men. Since putting my real age (30) I do get less. That’s a bit gross tbh

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Re: Anyone else not get older men at all?
« Reply #7 on: 01 April 2025, 03:52:42 pm »
I advertise as 25 and rarely get older men. Usually 25-45. I don't post over an hour incall rate, maybe that's why. As others had mentioned doesn't really bother me, just be fit and well and not frail. I had one ancient client and he was very thin ...thought I was going to break him haha

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Re: Anyone else not get older men at all?
« Reply #8 on: 01 April 2025, 06:08:22 pm »
Maybe advertise longer meets I finder the older ones generally book 2 or 3 hours x

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Re: Anyone else not get older men at all?
« Reply #9 on: 01 April 2025, 07:18:44 pm »
I advertise as 25 and rarely get older men. Usually 25-45. I don't post over an hour incall rate, maybe that's why. As others had mentioned doesn't really bother me, just be fit and well and not frail. I had one ancient client and he was very thin ...thought I was going to break him haha

Hahahaha I totally understand that feeling! LMAO

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Re: Anyone else not get older men at all?
« Reply #10 on: 01 April 2025, 07:42:57 pm »
I’m starting to feel like it’s because I offer a lot of domination.

Older men are from the time before porn became so easily available or freaky and probably a lot more vanilla and conservative then younger guys who have been exposed to all different types of kinks and fetishes that have only become mainstream int eh last few decades.

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Re: Anyone else not get older men at all?
« Reply #11 on: 01 April 2025, 09:23:38 pm »
I’m starting to feel like it’s because I offer a lot of domination.

Older men are from the time before porn became so easily available or freaky and probably a lot more vanilla and conservative then younger guys who have been exposed to all different types of kinks and fetishes that have only become mainstream int eh last few decades.

I offer Domination, I have BDSM/submissive clients of all ages. Some older subs developed kinks as a result of quite old fashioned practices at school for example, others for other reasons but I have subs all the way up to their 80s. I do however find as a Domme I attract more younger than me men than I do as a GFE, but there's still  many older as there are younger.

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Re: Anyone else not get older men at all?
« Reply #12 on: 02 April 2025, 10:16:27 am »
I'm in my late 50's and I see men from 25 to 70+ for GFE services with a fair distribution across the ages depending on their reasons for wanting sex with a woman my age. The majority of older men who mention their preferences say they feel uncomfortable about having sex with women who are much younger than themselves.

I may be generalising but I suspect it's as much about thinking that an older woman won't be expecting them to want complex sexual acrobatics as it is about having sex with women the same age as their daughters etc, plus some fuzzy thinking that younger escorts won't have seen a man with reduced erectile performance before ( ::))

 As for domme sessions, I also see men across the same age spectrum as for GFE with probably the greater majority being 50+.  My older domme session clients are always much more certain of what they want from a session because they've been enjoying it for years and know exactly what excites them most.

 BDSM and kink predates the internet by at least 5000 years - there are instances of erotic art from 3000BC depicting naked flagellation, group sex and so on...


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Re: Anyone else not get older men at all?
« Reply #13 on: 03 April 2025, 10:01:38 am »
Interesting! Thanks for sharing 🙂

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Re: Anyone else not get older men at all?
« Reply #14 on: 03 April 2025, 01:32:55 pm »
I’ve never had the chance to meet anyone over 64 (though I wouldn’t mind), but I’ve never had any major issues with men of other ages. Am I missing out on something?
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