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happyhappyjoyjoy

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Anyone else have difficulty with the circumcised?
« on: 24 January 2014, 01:05:53 am »
Before I got into this trade I would count myself as very experienced sexually but I'm such a noob when it comes to circumsised winkies! I just don't feel like I know how to give a good handjob in fear that ill rub it too hard and go straighht for the blowjob sometimes. Any tips girlies?

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Re: Anyone else have difficulty with the circumcised?
« Reply #1 on: 24 January 2014, 01:09:40 am »
I could never give a handjob to someone circumcised without lube, I honestly would have the same fears too. I just go "Oh this will feel so good with lube, what do you think?" in a persuasive way. I honestly can't imagine how a circumcised person wanks without it. I've just put my thumb and forefinger in a circle around my forearm and moved it up and down to remind myself of my confusion - that can not feel good on genitals.
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Pink~Princess

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Re: Anyone else have difficulty with the circumcised?
« Reply #2 on: 24 January 2014, 01:15:22 am »
Oh definitely use lube for a circumcised willy wonka, no way you can do it without (I don't think)

And if your giving a handjob where the client DOES NOT want full sex then you can use baby oil, I have always had a really good response using baby oil on them but obviously don't use oil if your gonna be having sex and using a condom with it. Or if he suddenly decides he does want sex (which does happen) then make sure you give it a good clean first before putting a condom on.

I am sure you know all this about oil and condoms, just saying incase you think I am daft enough to use baby oil then put a condom over the top before having sex.

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Re: Anyone else have difficulty with the circumcised?
« Reply #3 on: 24 January 2014, 02:47:38 am »
This is the one time when silicone lube seems to do the trick for me. I don't like it because it spreads everywhere. But needs must. I try to avoid doing hand jobs on circumcised men. Some of them are sensitive but a lot aren't.
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Re: Anyone else have difficulty with the circumcised?
« Reply #4 on: 24 January 2014, 01:02:53 pm »
Yes use plenty of lube or good old fashioned saliva so intersperse with a sloppy blow job. I find small,fast movements at the base of the head or on it seems to work best for handjobs on circumsized winkies and don;t be afraid to ask how they like to wanked.

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Re: Anyone else have difficulty with the circumcised?
« Reply #5 on: 25 January 2014, 01:50:18 am »
It doesn't make a difference to me, but then, I'm a good Jewish girl :)

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Re: Anyone else have difficulty with the circumcised?
« Reply #6 on: 28 January 2014, 02:47:38 pm »
Wanking them is tough the rest is just the same is suppose but it means i rush foreplay. It's just i feel like i'm hurting them because there is no skin to masturbate them with. I think of it a bit like when men don't know what they are doing and play with my clit by moving my hood, it's uncomfortable at least for me, to say the least. Anyone else have this problem or am i just being paranoid. I read up on it and they say that they masturbate the same way but like... how can that be when they have no skin to do so with :S

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Re: Anyone else have difficulty with the circumcised?
« Reply #7 on: 28 January 2014, 02:53:05 pm »
Wanking them is tough the rest is just the same is suppose but it means i rush foreplay. It's just i feel like i'm hurting them because there is no skin to masturbate them with. I think of it a bit like when men don't know what they are doing and play with my clit by moving my hood, it's uncomfortable at least for me, to say the least. Anyone else have this problem or am i just being paranoid. I read up on it and they say that they masturbate the same way but like... how can that be when they have no skin to do so with :S

Nope never had a problem with circumcised clients as when wanking them off, I just use lube OR baby oil if they don't want sex afterwards. Don't ever use baby oil if they want sex afterwards as it will weaken or burst the condom.

Sometimes if I have been having sex already with a client that is struggling to cum with a condom on (its rare and usually happens when its their second pop) then I will finish them off using baby oil as its really wet and slippy and from what I have been told feels more like a "vagina" than lube as lube is a thick gel.

Best thing to do is actually ask the client himself what he likes, sometimes I need to remind myself of this as some men like their knob being battered and bruised and others barely like being touched, some like it slow and sensual whereas others like it hard and fast.

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KimberlyC

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Re: Anyone else have difficulty with the circumcised?
« Reply #8 on: 28 January 2014, 03:20:07 pm »
I'm American. Circumcised is normal to me (I think America - maybe Canada - is the only place where gentiles are routinely circumcised.). They're not delicate or anything. Just use a bit of lube and rub their dicks. You don't even necessarily need the lube. As far as I can tell, most uncircumcised men when fully hard don't have spare skin to move around, either.


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Re: Anyone else have difficulty with the circumcised?
« Reply #9 on: 29 January 2014, 06:09:02 pm »
Wanking them is tough the rest is just the same is suppose but it means i rush foreplay. It's just i feel like i'm hurting them because there is no skin to masturbate them with. I think of it a bit like when men don't know what they are doing and play with my clit by moving my hood, it's uncomfortable at least for me, to say the least. Anyone else have this problem or am i just being paranoid. I read up on it and they say that they masturbate the same way but like... how can that be when they have no skin to do so with :S
Its not really the same though as someone rubbing a hooded clit.Men who are circumsised are generally used to the sensation of not having skin covering their bellends,its been rubbing against their pants without a foreskin all that time so won't be all that sensitive.Most men don't wank with their foreskins up anyway.As has been said use lube or saliva so your hand glides rather than chafes and ask how they like it.I find men pleasantly surprised when I ask this whether they have a foreskin or not.

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Re: Anyone else have difficulty with the circumcised?
« Reply #10 on: 29 January 2014, 07:30:55 pm »
I find that circumcised men are one extreme to the next, either not much sensation at all OR extremely sensitive x

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Re: Anyone else have difficulty with the circumcised?
« Reply #11 on: 29 January 2014, 07:54:12 pm »

Sometimes if I have been having sex already with a client that is struggling to cum with a condom on (its rare and usually happens when its their second pop) then I will finish them off using baby oil as its really wet and slippy and from what I have been told feels more like a "vagina" than lube as lube is a thick gel.


I use Liquid silk a lot as it is a soft cr?me that feels very natural and is not thick but keeps their cock slick for longer than all the other ones I have tried.  It doesn't get sticky either which is great
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Re: Anyone else have difficulty with the circumcised?
« Reply #12 on: 29 January 2014, 08:08:11 pm »
Liquid Silk is the best, hate the taste of it though lol x

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Re: Anyone else have difficulty with the circumcised?
« Reply #13 on: 29 January 2014, 09:13:55 pm »
I find that circumcised men are one extreme to the next, either not much sensation at all OR extremely sensitive x
I find that with some men anyway circumsized or not to be fair.Would rather have a circumsized bloke than those guys where the foreskin doesn't pull back at all....ewww!

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Re: Anyone else have difficulty with the circumcised?
« Reply #14 on: 31 January 2014, 02:07:43 am »
I prefer circumcised dicks, most of my past boyfriends have been done so maybe I'm just used to it. 

In terms of technique, I think it's a case of quickly finding out how he prefers it, as is normal, I think lol. I personally don't use lube for a hand job on a regular basis,  although it's useful if it's a second pop that just won't pop

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