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KittenCandy

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Anyone else hate outfit requests?
« on: 15 February 2016, 03:03:50 pm »
Like it puts me off seeing the guy if he requests a certain outfit. One of the reasons  is that I know when they request a particular outfit, they have already visualized what it would look like on me or already have an image in mind of what they would want it to look like and I know for sure it would not look like how they have visualized it. I much rather where something that I feel comfortable and sexy in. So I admit, I have turned down bookings if they have made an outfit request. Like requesting suspender belts and stockings is fine, because it's what I wear anyway but requesting latex cat suit and thigh high boots I would decline the booking  ??? I know I would not look sexy in that at all. Once I had a guy request bikini top and shorts as he said he went to Caribbean and saw the girls in it and liked it. I was just thinking, errmm, but my body is not like those girls you saw i'm sure. So i put on this bikini thing and I looked like a struggle child. As I have teenie tits nothing looks sexy on me really. I'm sure those other girls had a nice cleavage in there bikini bra :'( I just saw the disappointment in his face. I once had an outfit request for black pencil skirt, silky white blouse, red lipstick, hair in a pony tail, high heels with stockings and suspenders underneath skirt. I didn't even respond. For him to have such specifics down to the color  of the lipstick and hairstyle kinda turned me off. I have worn the whole office look before and i just look stupid. I'm not sure what the other reason is as to why i hate this. But sometimes there request kinda seems greedy/demanding? ??? ??? I don't know. Is it just me? :'( :-[

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Re: Anyone else hate outfit requests?
« Reply #1 on: 15 February 2016, 03:09:16 pm »
I can't be arsed with outfits full stop. I just can't be bothered. I prefer naturist and that's that. When outfits are asked for it just puts me off.
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Re: Anyone else hate outfit requests?
« Reply #2 on: 15 February 2016, 03:14:34 pm »
It doesn't bother me, if I have it I'll wear it. Tomorrow I've got a guy that wants shiny tights, heels and nothing else. I agree that if I think I'll look terrible in it I'll decline the request x
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Re: Anyone else hate outfit requests?
« Reply #3 on: 15 February 2016, 03:23:21 pm »
If it's something I have, I will wear it. I don't have clothes with me that I think look terrible, so that's that sorted.

But I do know the feeling when they're very specific about an outfit. It's like they have this image in their mind and I can only assume I will disappoint them.

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Re: Anyone else hate outfit requests?
« Reply #4 on: 15 February 2016, 03:49:35 pm »
Also a lot of men have no idea that some requests are awkward, I had someone ask me to wear my leather pencil skirt, stockings and suspenders and thigh high boots, I doubt I would have been able to walk in all that!
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Re: Anyone else hate outfit requests?
« Reply #5 on: 15 February 2016, 04:08:39 pm »
I will only do outfits if I get paid min 1 hour.

Bought a wide range, maid, nurse, school girl, police, the only request I ever got was for an army girl, that was at 9pm. Had to tell the guy I haven't got one. Bought one the following day along with a sailors texted the guy but k

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Re: Anyone else hate outfit requests?
« Reply #6 on: 15 February 2016, 04:32:13 pm »
I don't mind requests if it's something I have, but 'costumes' aren't really my thing. I've enjoyed them with boyfriends in the past but there's something nicer about that, it's a silly fun thing to do together, whereas it's not relaxed and funny like that with a client.  Most of them just ask for stockings etc or knee socks, and that's what I enjoy anyway. 

If they just wanted me to wear the outfit, no roleplay or anything, and I knew it was something I could rock then I'd be happy to do it.  But I have to admit if someone asked me to wear a tacky nurses outfit or something like that it would be *so* not up my street. I sometimes wonder whether guys only like this shit because society says that Men Like Naughty Nurses.

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Re: Anyone else hate outfit requests?
« Reply #7 on: 15 February 2016, 04:32:41 pm »
I advertise that I am not into uniforms and wear the sorts of things in my photos.I really am not into dressing requests and make that very clear on my profile.It just isn't for me and I wear what I feel good in.I'm not into suspender belts neither I wear holdups so if uniforms etc are deal breakers they can go to a lady who provides all that.I do wish they would read profiles properly.Everything is accurate and honest on my profile and is basically trying to tell them the sort of lady I am and what I am not so nobody is disappointed.

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Re: Anyone else hate outfit requests?
« Reply #8 on: 15 February 2016, 04:35:04 pm »
Like it puts me off seeing the guy if he requests a certain outfit. One of the reasons  is that I know when they request a particular outfit, they have already visualized what it would look like on me or already have an image in mind of what they would want it to look like and I know for sure it would not look like how they have visualized it. I much rather where something that I feel comfortable and sexy in. So I admit, I have turned down bookings if they have made an outfit request. Like requesting suspender belts and stockings is fine, because it's what I wear anyway but requesting latex cat suit and thigh high boots I would decline the booking  ??? I know I would not look sexy in that at all. Once I had a guy request bikini top and shorts as he said he went to Caribbean and saw the girls in it and liked it. I was just thinking, errmm, but my body is not like those girls you saw i'm sure. So i put on this bikini thing and I looked like a struggle child. As I have teenie tits nothing looks sexy on me really. I'm sure those other girls had a nice cleavage in there bikini bra :'( I just saw the disappointment in his face. I once had an outfit request for black pencil skirt, silky white blouse, red lipstick, hair in a pony tail, high heels with stockings and suspenders underneath skirt. I didn't even respond. For him to have such specifics down to the color  of the lipstick and hairstyle kinda turned me off. I have worn the whole office look before and i just look stupid. I'm not sure what the other reason is as to why i hate this. But sometimes there request kinda seems greedy/demanding? ??? ??? I don't know. Is it just me? :'( :-[

Yep i'm same i hate outfit requests, i decline a booking if they ask me to dress up in fancy dress etc, it's a control thing for them & i refuse to be under a punter's control. I've never let boyfriends dictate to me in my personal life & definitely don't allow punters to dictate to me xx

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Re: Anyone else hate outfit requests?
« Reply #9 on: 15 February 2016, 05:02:25 pm »
I won't wear costume type stuff as in schoolgirl or cheerleader! I do have a latex fetish nurse outfit I wear but takes ages to put on and most of my basques I need help getting into so if my boyfriends not about I can't wear them, I really don't mind if they ask for me naked with just heels either
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Re: Anyone else hate outfit requests?
« Reply #10 on: 15 February 2016, 06:01:04 pm »
I have a couple of outfits that are popular ones I get a bunch of schoolgirl requests. It doesn't bother me that much except with new people because I got messed around a lot with people requesting outfits and then cancelling or no showing also had a guy who changed his mind 10 minutes before he was due to arrive what outfit and fantasy he wanted. So my only rule is that they need to have booked me at least once before they can make an outfit request. I've had a bunch of requests for stuff I don't have I've just said if they pay for the outfit costs up front as a deposit plus 25% of my fee they can do it and they quickly run away. I doubt they were that serious in the first place anyway.

For stuff that isn't a costume I try to accommodate outfit requests but sometimes they ask for ridiculous fantasist  stuff that isn't practical like "I want you to come to my door in nothing but a coat and thigh high boots!".

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Re: Anyone else hate outfit requests?
« Reply #11 on: 15 February 2016, 06:13:28 pm »
I don't take clothing requests, I am happy to wear stockings and suspenders but I intentionally don't offer uniforms or do role play as I've found the two services go hand in hand and its not something I enjoy.
Clients can either accept it or pass me by.

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Re: Anyone else hate outfit requests?
« Reply #12 on: 15 February 2016, 06:52:17 pm »
If its indoors I really don't mind outfit requests, whether that's short skirt, low cut top, thigh boots or cheap and tacky 'uniforms' there's not much I haven't 'collected' in the way of clothing,  in fact I prefer them to give me an idea of what they would like me to wear...I've sometimes gone to the door in something like a black basque, stockings and heels and they've told me after several visits that they were too shy to say anything but they felt 'intimidated' by the lack of clothing and would I cover up a bit more next time  :o


For outcalls I wouldn't meet someone in a bar or restaurant dressed 'slutty or tarty', wearing a mini skirt  for example, it would just look silly at my age, although I have picked someone up (regular client) wearing just my coat, stockings and heels.


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Re: Anyone else hate outfit requests?
« Reply #13 on: 15 February 2016, 07:26:20 pm »
i like outfits!! its not that i dont want to be me, but i think its great fun to dress up and explore what others like and why! i can be a hastle but i get alot of booking for it, and include new outfits in the price :D x
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Re: Anyone else hate outfit requests?
« Reply #14 on: 15 February 2016, 08:57:51 pm »
I don't take outfit requests, period. And even specify that on my profile. Morever, the entirety of my wardrobe (both work and personal) is contained in a single, large woven basket, and I have no interest in buying more clothes just so they dust the shelves. So, no outfits for 'em.