Hi, I'm not in your position (I don't have kids) but I don't see why you shouldn't book a babysitter to go on the occasional outcall! You're allowed to have a social life, and if that also provides you with the money to treat yourself once in a while then good for you.

Your children sound well loved and cared for, and you would be seeing clients well away from the home so there's zero risk to them. I definitely don't think you should feel guilty. (I know that's not the word you used but that's what I felt you were asking from your post) xx

MT, I don't think there is anything wrong with getting a babysitter and doing an outcall during the week when not working your other job..  Just be careful it is not a Timewaster and definitely going ahead.  Perhaps a deposit from client to cover costs of travel and babysitter just in case, of course you don't tell the client that.

Good luck.

Single mum with kids here and working as a temp  I do outcalls as well and cover my evening booking by saying I'm dating a guy lol. Which is actually true... I don't need a babysitter but if I had to, I would do it, definitely. Enjoy yourself !

Hi,
Single mother here too;) mine is 7 and when I Used to work full time ( in a "normal" job) he was going to breakfast and after school club Every day. I found it tiring for me ( the job was quite demanding and stressfull as hell) and for my little one. I worked full time since he was 6 months and I really had enough so I turned to this sector. I now only use childcare two days a week and other days I work till 2pm ( i have an incall place an hour aw at from where I live) I also work every second Saturday ( when I use babysitter,  friends or ex to carry for my child). There are quiet days but my salary is still on toge same level as the  salary for my previous 9hours a day job! So far been a year..I do envy the time that some girls have ( i still cant get over my debts:() but on the other hand having strict availability times helps me detach my life as me from the life of a prossy. 

Hi, yep, single mum here as well

I have a young daughter, so I understand that it's hard to work as well. I only take incalls whilst she is at nursery or at friends on play-dates, so basically that normally means nothing in the evening. If the guy wants an outcall in the evening then I get my mum to take her for a couple of hours and use the 'I need some me time' excuse to cover up what I am doing, but I don't get many outcall requests anyway so that doesn't come up as an issue very much

Without taking bookings I wouldn't have any income so can't stop, just have to try and make things work basically

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You deserve time out for yourself and your family will benefit in the long run. I'm sure, like me, it wasn't an easy decision to make but needs must if we want a quality of life and enjoy sex!

L x
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very well said. Think things will be easier when im not out in the sticks with no signal! Went to shops earlier and 20 messages came through at once so I know the business is there and im missing out. Roll on moving day lol, then I can at least get a sitter to watch the kids! Xx