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MissElvira

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Any else get paranoid with a look and walk client.
« on: 19 February 2025, 12:05:53 pm »
It's not often it happens but today I get a booking and the guy walks in and then tells me I'm not what he was expecting. Apparently he thought I'd be bigger and that I'm too thin and he is worried he'd break me.

I told him I'm not easy to break but fine. He wasn't rude but ffs I have all up to date pictures and state I'm a size 6.

So leaves me feeling a bit paranoid especially as I state my size and pics on AW only a few days old.

I can only think it was my face that put him off lol.
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Fifi

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Re: Any else get paranoid with a look and walk client.
« Reply #1 on: 19 February 2025, 01:06:11 pm »
I've had it a couple of times and I know  sometimes it's deliberate  because one guy that did it tried to call again six months later!

Sometimes I think maybe they lose their bottle or change their mind for whatever reason.

I guess you'll never really know what he was thinking but try not to let it get to you.

Give it a few days and you'll have forgotten about it. Try to remind yourself this is just a means to an end and thete are many more nice appreciative clients for every idiot that wastes your time.x
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MissElvira

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Re: Any else get paranoid with a look and walk client.
« Reply #2 on: 19 February 2025, 04:41:51 pm »
Quote from: Fifi on 19 February 2025, 01:06:11 pm
I've had it a couple of times and I know  sometimes it's deliberate  because one guy that did it tried to call again six months later!

Thanks Fifi, I've been a bit down over my weight and that walker really made me feel fed up afterwards. But had a new client today who was lovely and gave me plenty of compliments.

The look and go did seem a bit nervous, said he was down from Brighton.  There's no way he didn't know i had a slender frame, like I said it's only the third time in the 6 years I've been escorting.

Sometimes I think maybe they lose their bottle or change their mind for whatever reason.

I guess you'll never really know what he was thinking but try not to let it get to you.

Give it a few days and you'll have forgotten about it. Try to remind yourself this is just a means to an end and thete are many more nice appreciative clients for every idiot that wastes your time.x
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DarcyLady

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Re: Any else get paranoid with a look and walk client.
« Reply #3 on: 19 February 2025, 05:51:31 pm »
Most of them have just bottled it, in my opinion. It used to make me self-conscious. Now it just pisses me off  ;D
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OverTheHill

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Re: Any else get paranoid with a look and walk client.
« Reply #4 on: 19 February 2025, 05:52:49 pm »
They are just arseholes!

There’s nothing wrong with you.

Some men make a hobby out of this type of behaviour. Yes, it used to knock my confidence but if it happens now I just brush it off and am grateful I didn’t spend time with a wanker client.
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MissElvira

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Re: Any else get paranoid with a look and walk client.
« Reply #5 on: 19 February 2025, 06:39:50 pm »
Thanks Fifi and ladies, I've felt a bit down with my weight loss which I've had no control over and this look and go just made me feel a bit down pointing out my weight. He did seems a bit weird, kind of nervous energy and its annoying that he wasted my time.
It's only 3rd time in six years I've had a look and go, but I did have a lovely new client today that gave me compliments.
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lora

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Re: Any else get paranoid with a look and walk client.
« Reply #6 on: 20 February 2025, 10:59:11 am »
He is probably just a sad loser who does this for kicks.  He probably knows it will make you feel this way and that's why he does it. 
  Or he just wants to see a sexy women in her underwear and doesn't have any money or nerve to go through with the booking.
  Just forget about it. It happens to everyone at some point however beautiful they are
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Patricia

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Re: Any else get paranoid with a look and walk client.
« Reply #7 on: 20 February 2025, 11:06:42 am »
Quote from: lora on 20 February 2025, 10:59:11 am
He is probably just a sad loser who does this for kicks.  He probably knows it will make you feel this way and that's why he does it. 
  Or he just wants to see a sexy women in her underwear and doesn't have any money or nerve to go through with the booking.
  Just forget about it. It happens to everyone at some point however beautiful they are

I've only had one about 6 years ago. Your 2nd sentence rings true to me. I thought at the time he just wanted a quick look then buggered off back out the door.  Silly bloke never knew what he was missing 🤪
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MissWolf

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Re: Any else get paranoid with a look and walk client.
« Reply #8 on: 20 February 2025, 12:23:27 pm »
I've had the occasional one when touring, I had one youngish Irish guy who booked, arrived and walked saying I was nothing like my pictures all in under an hour lol,  I am exactly like my pics, the laugh was he messaged to book me the next time I was in the area till I politely reminded him he'd walked the first time.
I honestly think a lot of them don't actually know who they are going to, they look at so many profiles they get stuff mixed up sometimes and have one image in their heads which is the wrong one for who they are meeting.

I had a very rare L&G at home last weekend,  booked and arrived no issues,  in comms he'd said an hour but asked if there was an option to extend once there, I said no problem,  he came in gave me a hug and said OK great I am going to extend but I just need to go and get more cash out, where is the nearest cashpoint, I opened the door and directed him then went to change into my comfies as I new he wouldn't be back.
If he knew he may want to extend then he would have already had the extra with him, it was clearly his tactic to make himself seem genuine, I text him 15 mins later and told him to grow a pair and say he wasn't staying rather than lying and then gave him a nice detailed CE  ;D

Put it out of your mind it and he are not worth stressing over x
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Kombucha Queen

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Re: Any else get paranoid with a look and walk client.
« Reply #9 on: 20 February 2025, 02:11:59 pm »
I’ve been working since about 2017/2018 and never had a “look & go” before, then last week I had two within a few days! They both had a similar MO and asked exactly the same questions before making excuses to leave. The experiences were so similar that it did make me paranoid that they were in a group chat or forum somewhere discussing which girls to target. Most likely just a very unlucky coincidence!
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flowersandflorals

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Re: Any else get paranoid with a look and walk client.
« Reply #10 on: Today at 04:05:53 am »
Wasn’t going to answer the client but decided to and turned out to be a look and go. Definitely feels scary…
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