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Phoenix

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Answering The 'Do You Have A Driver' Question
« on: 24 July 2014, 04:26:46 pm »
I recently abandoned meeting plans with a caller when he insisted on knowing if I would be driving myself or not and wondered what other ladies answer to this question?
To be honest, after 5 years of being Outcall Only, there have been plenty of occasions when I have had no choice but to park on a client's property ( Think gated properties in narrow country lanes, miles away from anywhere. ). Ok, I did all my checks, took calculated risks as we all do and they are now long term clients  :)

But what do you answer when they insist on knowing if you will have a driver? I can understand the concern could be that they don't want some guy loitering outside the property for all the Neighbours to see, but I personally think It's nothing to do with them and they can be assured of the utmost discretion at all times - whether with Driver or alone. This is what I now say.

In the past, I have always assured them I drive myself so they "have no need to worry"  ::)
But what about me? Shouldn't I also fret that I might not be able to leave afterwards? I have never had a problem, but their lack of concern irritates me and I don't want to see them.

Nowadays, I am very discreet with all my bookings and park away from the Property if at all possible, so they never see my car.
Needless to say, I get complaints about this too and Clients have stopped calling me because I won't park on the drive ( Neighbours will wonder why if they watch me walking in etc, etc ) Seems I can't win.

Any thoughts ladies? XX

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Re: Answering The 'Do You Have A Driver' Question
« Reply #1 on: 24 July 2014, 04:39:05 pm »
Needless to say, I get complaints about this too and Clients have stopped calling me because I won't park on the drive ( Neighbours will wonder why if they watch me walking in etc, etc ) Seems I can't win.

I think their neighbours would be more likely to notice a strange car parked up for the length of the booking than you walking in and out.
« Last Edit: 24 July 2014, 05:18:13 pm by ChrissieDavaar »

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Re: Answering The 'Do You Have A Driver' Question
« Reply #2 on: 24 July 2014, 05:12:29 pm »
Some clients don't like the thought of a driver hanging about near their house, I get asked this question a lot. I get a taxi to their front door. Their neighbors they want to be discrete to. The thing is that clients are in the civy world so don't want too much strange happening. Well civy neighbors would might think a guy sat in a car for 1-2 hours engine off is strange. But not to escorts. I just reassure clients that use a normal taxi company giving the name if they ask, they drop off then book one when ready to go home. This reassures.
« Last Edit: 24 July 2014, 05:14:18 pm by meetingdiversity »

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Re: Answering The 'Do You Have A Driver' Question
« Reply #3 on: 24 July 2014, 05:40:13 pm »
I have attended a variety of properties, some in similar locations to the ones you describe both with a driver, and also driving myself.

When I use a driver they certainly do not sit outside the property, that would be indiscrete. Instead after dropping me off at a discrete and appropriate point(we suss that out when in the area) they retreat to a safe distance, then watch a DVD on a portable player, or read a book returning either when the time is up(and no door knocking), or when I summons them via my mobile phone.

If a prospective client asks me whether or not I have a driver, whether I do or not I always say the same thing "Whether I use a driver or drive myself will not affect your or our time together". If they aren't happy with that, then I decline the booking.

When using a driver I have noticed I arrive a lot less flustered, and feeling fresher, more relaxed and focused than when I drive myself and I may mention this to the client.


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Re: Answering The 'Do You Have A Driver' Question
« Reply #4 on: 24 July 2014, 05:42:17 pm »
O rarely do outcalls but when I do I always say I have a driver but he will be parked well away form the clients street so no one will see him hanging around ( I drive myself and park a fair way away).  If a client gets arsey over this then I say I cannot do the booking.  If he is insistent I don't have someone i.e my driver, to look after my safety even though none of his neighbours would see him as would park in another street then he obviously does not have good intentions and is not someone I would see
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Re: Answering The 'Do You Have A Driver' Question
« Reply #5 on: 25 July 2014, 10:14:22 am »
Some clients don't like the thought of a driver hanging about near their house, I get asked this question a lot. I get a taxi to their front door. Their neighbors they want to be discrete to. The thing is that clients are in the civy world so don't want too much strange happening. Well civy neighbors would might think a guy sat in a car for 1-2 hours engine off is strange. But not to escorts. I just reassure clients that use a normal taxi company giving the name if they ask, they drop off then book one when ready to go home. This reassures.

This was my point how do clients know escorts will be discreet with drivers parked away without telling them. They cannot read minds.  For all they do with no explanation they conclude themselves more time a wrong one. This is why I think it is best to reassure when needed to relax an uptight client.

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Re: Answering The 'Do You Have A Driver' Question
« Reply #6 on: 25 July 2014, 10:50:30 am »
Well, I have been saying, " Oh, you don't need to worry yourself about that. If I have a Driver or if I drive myself, you can be sure of the utmost discretion. My Driver or myself will park well away from your property".
 In my experience, this hasn't helped much and they won't book unless I admit I am alone. It leaves me to think they are either extra paranoid ( fair enough, so am I  :) )Or they want me to over-stay/take less money/be a general pest pest throughout my visit. All of these have happened in the past and Clients regularly tell me they hate it when a girl rushes off because her "Driver is waiting" so will only book Independents for say an hour and then usually extend to bottle of wine and an overnight stay for no extra ( or so they tell me  ::) )
Conversely, I don't have a problem telling a new client I am parked a couple of streets away - as long as they haven't made an issue of it in the first place. I appreciate their understanding of a girls' security procedures, if that makes sense  :)