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Soniaescort

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Another round 10 mins before the end of the time???
« on: 25 September 2014, 10:00:44 pm »
I had an hour booking today with a client. First time he finished very quickly but another time it was taken about 40 mins. Because his size was pretty big he made really tired. Anyway after all he asked me to start another round when he should start to dress up and live my place because was only 10 mins left! Then he said:" you are lier because you are like a food bar where you can eat as much as you want and then people says you eat too much". He really pissed me off because I don't like people who traid me like a piece of meat ??? When I said I am happy to make another round if he want to stay longer and pay more. He left anyway but very upset on me. I Don't know if I did right thing and I feel little bit strange right now so any advice from you girls will help me to sort it out for the future.

Nia Hope

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Re: Another round 10 mins before the end of the time???
« Reply #1 on: 25 September 2014, 10:06:52 pm »
I think on this situation just be as polite as possible so you don't risk the guy getting nasty, also explain this is your job and politely offering more time for more money is the right thing to do, you did nothing wrong in my opinion,

Remember you can't please everyone! You will always get clients that complain, as long as you know you have given the time paid for and given all the services agreed to your best then don't dwell on it x
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Kay

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Re: Another round 10 mins before the end of the time???
« Reply #2 on: 25 September 2014, 10:22:59 pm »
It's a tough one - partly comes down the principle of not being taken advantage of, and partly it depending on the situation at that very moment.

Personally, if I'd liked him and wasn't in any rush, I'd have done it. If I was less keen on him I'd have said he could have another 15-20m (i.e. run 5-10m over), but if he didn't come again within that time, tough.

Either way, I don't think you did anything wrong, not if he made no demonstration that he was willing to pay a little extra.
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luciefate

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Re: Another round 10 mins before the end of the time???
« Reply #3 on: 25 September 2014, 10:27:54 pm »
Difficult one. I always give clients the full time as that is what they have paid for.

I would have told him he could have the 10 mins but would have offered oral because he was big and it was beginning to hurt. Most guys don't want to hurt you and would understand.

I have stopped guys before after time was up, although I do give them a 5 min warning. Most extend but some try to get me to continue, which I won't do.

Also, I treat Incalls and Outcalls differently. I've never had a problem with Outcalls and guys will either finish or extend, although I always spend 5 mins before the clock starts to chat, especially with new clients. Incalls are more difficult to manage for me, especially with guys who have booked 30 mins as I find a lot of them don't cum in this time. That's not my problem! I tell them if I let clients go over their time then there would be a queue at the door!!

There's no right or wrong in my opinion. It sounds to me like he got his money's worth and at the end of the day it's your body and you were tired and uncomfortable.

I have so many clients who pay for the hour and are done in 15/20 mins and that's when I feel guilty. At least Dick Turpin had the decency to wear a mask!! ;D

Soniaescort

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Re: Another round 10 mins before the end of the time???
« Reply #4 on: 25 September 2014, 10:40:31 pm »
Yesterday I made guy come three times and I don't mind to be over the time 5-10 mins if we are in a middle of action but in this situation he was completely done! I don't think I could made him hard and come within 10mins and because he was really big I did not want to go for it. He had a sex over 45 mins and I think it's just because he paid he thought he can do whatever he wants. After when I politely said he can stay longer and pay more he started be very rude. Anyway I have saved his number and I do not want to see him again any more.

Rosa

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Re: Another round 10 mins before the end of the time???
« Reply #5 on: 25 September 2014, 10:42:08 pm »
If he could come again in those ten minutes then fine, many clients will enjoy a second round even if they don't climax, but if it starts getting over time and it's obvious nothing else is happening I find the client will often say "I don't think this is going anywhere"..............if he doesn't then I will and point out the time. I also make sure I don't get sore by not being afraid to use lube if necessary, and making sure clients use the pad and not the nail of their fingers, and not to press their chin into me when giving oral(even the slightest stubble can be like sandpaper in that area).The last ten minutes of a 1 hour appointment isn't much, and not at the sort of rates most Escorts usually charge.

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Re: Another round 10 mins before the end of the time???
« Reply #6 on: 25 September 2014, 11:12:59 pm »
It hid is a bit of a predicament. I can understand you were hurting from 45 minutes of intercourse. Maybe just offer oral and hj with the explanation as above most guys don't want you to be in pain! I always allow the full time or at least 5mins warning before ushering to get dressed etc or offering shower etc. 

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Re: Another round 10 mins before the end of the time???
« Reply #7 on: 26 September 2014, 10:47:00 am »
A sweet, batting eyelashes, "ooh, do we have time? *glances at clock* oh gosh, how time flies! We've only got 10 minutes left, I don't really think that's time for another round... Unless you want to book a little longer?"

Of course we tend to know how much time has gone. We have the internal body clock. However, we don't want to be so called "clock watchers". Rather than just being like "time's up, get out", play with it and you may either get more time or someone leaving happy thinking that a) you'd got carried away and hadn't noticed and b) you wanted him for longer.

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Re: Another round 10 mins before the end of the time???
« Reply #8 on: 26 September 2014, 02:31:09 pm »
I think though that if the guy took 40 minutes on his second go, a third round would have taken forever!

I would have pointed out that that time was running out, but I would still have played with him for the remaining ten, but been strict about finishing when the full hour was up. That was all he had paid for, and even just a 15 minute extension might have got him a third 'happy ending'. It wouldn't be free time though, I would have got him to pay for it. It seems like he was taking the mick and was really pushing his luck in this instance. Not many men can go three times within an hour.

If was sore from sex, it should have been acceptable for him to have this third happy ending through hand relief or oral. You didn't do anything wrong, I'd say he got his money's worth as he managed to pop his cork twice  :)

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Re: Another round 10 mins before the end of the time???
« Reply #9 on: 26 September 2014, 06:00:15 pm »
I would have happily played with him or sucked him but I would have also when there was 5 minutes left and no sign of anything happening said that I don't think it is going to happen in the time left but I will try with a smile on my face and when time came I would have said in a disappointed voice I didn't think it would happen that quick so would you like a shower before you leave?

That way he cannot complain that he was short changed of time as some do expect the full time they have paid for which is fair enough but if they act like they expect extra I wont give them any.  I don't mind running over by accident or because we are both having fun but I wont let anyone make me run over because they think they are entitled.  I will however give them the full time they pay for

although if he was large and had made me hurt it would have only been by hand or mouth.  saying that if he was that big and was making me hurt he wouldn't have been banging me for 40 minutes either as I would have stopped and told him that his size was hurting me so we have to try something else
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Re: Another round 10 mins before the end of the time???
« Reply #10 on: 26 September 2014, 08:13:28 pm »
I think it all depends. Usually I don't mind going a bit over time if they man is nice and I'm not in a rush, but if it was starting to hurt and he'd already taken ages I would politely say that we don't have enough time but he could have a nice massage or something? I think it all depends on the situation.
As others have said, if it hurts it's probably best to offer then a hand job or a blow job instead. Don't want to cause yourself any damage!