Thanks Mirror, Salty and Green, Many if the things you said about clients and the things they do I have had happen. And I have made a report on the client app to warn others. Also I will update my AW profile and make clear that no fingers are welcome, No fingering in my bum either. I've done CIM and owo and not had any infections up until this incident it's my first time having tested positive but a lesson and nudge to change a few things. I actually hate fingering and I've yet to meet a guy that can do it without it hurting and often riggle up the bed to get away.
With the ow is it best to change the condom before sex to make sure the condom does not split?
Thanks all for the advice and your own experiences, Never too old to learn about this stuff. Bit OMG I never want this in my bum hole again it's been very uncomfortable just glad I can get it sorted. Zero symptom anywhere else.