Author Topic: Am I the only one ... (Read 3312 times)

improbablecats · « **on:** 28 May 2012, 08:07:53 pm »

to get really annoyed by questions like 'How many times can I come?' on the phone? I pretty much instantly decide not to see someone if they ask this. I feel like thirty seconds spent reading my profile or website should indicate that I'm not going to turf anyone out if they orgasm in the first five minutes.

I also get really irritated if they won't read my website and ask me questions already dealt with on there (I give one gentle reminder to go and read the website and then call again, after that I get fed up!).

I feel like I'm turning down a lot of bookings because these sorts rub me up the wrong way on the phone.

Emma_GFE · « **Reply #1 on:** 28 May 2012, 08:09:14 pm »

I hate it when they ask if you provide a certain service which you say no to, and they carry on asking and bringing it up and 'is there any way i can change your mind'

naughtyjas · « **Reply #2 on:** 28 May 2012, 08:30:30 pm »

To be fair the 'how many times can I cum' question is probably because some women do limit the number of times they can cum. So if they have had prior experience where they have been turfed out straight after they have cum they will want to double check that you won't do the same to them.

It's worse when they phone up book an appointment and then ask how much it is!

My most loathed question is "you're not a clock watcher are you?" I hate it, and it really gets my back up. If you want longer than pay for it you tightwad. If they do book I DO turn into the clock watcher and always make sure we don't go over by even a second. I mean what do they expect 4 hours for the price of 30 mins?

Lady_Lust_XXX · « **Reply #3 on:** 28 May 2012, 10:33:29 pm »

............. anyone who tries to push my boundaries will get a very bad response if in my company or if on the phone I will put it down immediately and not answer again unless I REALLY want to give them a piece of my mind (and god help them if i do answer the phone another time) for if they say 'oh we seem to get cut off there' to which I just answer, 'no i hung up' i will not tolerate boundary pushers.

Phoenix · « **Reply #4 on:** 29 May 2012, 07:14:19 am »

Oh, I so hate the 'are you a Clockwatcher' question!
It's the bloody height of rudeness. I mean, I am selling my time to you ( plus any services rendered within

), so if you book for 60 minutes that's what you are going to get Pal!
My time is hugely important, so I am not giving it away. I arrive promptly, don't take the piss during the session - not into watersports (-sorry, appalling joke!

) and darn well expect to leave within a reasonable finish time.

I usually tell them no, but I will get a security call at the end of the booking time. That shuts them up. They don't want 'Huggy Bear' turning up at their door!

curvygrace · « **Reply #5 on:** 01 June 2012, 09:02:34 pm »

i have little disclaimers on a/w profile and on my website with faq's and how i deal with punters if they rub me up the wrong way. seems to help.

for instance i have disclaimers saying ' i wont reply to 'txt spk' messages or if you ask a sfq (stupid f****cking question i'll ignore you, if you haggle me il instantly terminate contact, if you ask for extras which are not stated i'll ignore you etc etc.

it defo draws in the right crowd 90% of the time.

i know it sounds bad but im always put off by a foreign accent. im usually eating my words as they tend to be nice but i cant help it!

JulietteTV · « **Reply #6 on:** 01 June 2012, 10:48:35 pm »

Isn't so much the foreign accent but if communication is difficult with them, poor english, they don't seem able to understand what I'm saying to them then that tends to put me off.

BBW_Cora · « **Reply #7 on:** 02 June 2012, 01:32:01 am »

Yep the worst is deffinetely the clockwatching question, it immedietely puts me off them but I try to be polite and say 'I'm not going to be staring at the clock but if you're worried we might go overtime you can always book a longer session with me to be on the safe side'

I don't mind the 'how many times can I cum' question, I know of lots of men who have visited a girl, had her perform in a rushed way and turf them out as soon as they've cum. To this question I usually say 'You can cum as many times as you are able to in the time booked with me, but as a generally 1 per half hour tends to be norm for most men' If they want to cum twice this tells them I'm not going to extend time for their second and encourages them to book an hour..which gives us some cuddle/massage time inbetween.

ilovedots · « **Reply #8 on:** 02 June 2012, 10:57:32 am »

Quote from: BBW_Cora on 02 June 2012, 01:32:01 am

I don't mind the 'how many times can I cum' question, I know of lots of men who have visited a girl, had her perform in a rushed way and turf them out as soon as they've cum. To this question I usually say 'You can cum as many times as you are able to in the time booked with me, but as a generally 1 per half hour tends to be norm for most men' If they want to cum twice this tells them I'm not going to extend time for their second and encourages them to book an hour..which gives us some cuddle/massage time inbetween.

I do the same

Dani · « **Reply #9 on:** 02 June 2012, 08:21:29 pm »

This question does not bother me although I always answer with "Idont know, how many times can you cum" and a laugh.

I have found the guys that ask this have normally seen a girl who has thrown them out after they have cum 10 minutes into a half hour booking. Also a lot of guys do not believe what is written on our profiles until they have actually met us as again they have seen girls whos profiles are total rubbish and they have not done anything stated on it.

SOme are also quite new and do not know how it all works so ask in advance so there is no chance of any misunderstandings

Caitlyn · « **Reply #10 on:** 19 June 2012, 01:21:28 pm »

Quote from: curvygrace on 01 June 2012, 09:02:34 pm

i know it sounds bad but im always put off by a foreign accent. im usually eating my words as they tend to be nice but i cant help it!

i know exactly what you mean Grace. I have had a couple of foreigners who push the boundaries by claiming they "didn't understand" or turn up and say they didn't realise they had to pay etc x

Kimmy · « **Reply #11 on:** 20 June 2012, 01:57:39 am »

Quote from: naughtyjas on 28 May 2012, 08:30:30 pm

To be fair the 'how many times can I cum' question is probably because some women do limit the number of times they can cum. So if they have had prior experience where they have been turfed out straight after they have cum they will want to double check that you won't do the same to them.

It's worse when they phone up book an appointment and then ask how much it is!

My most loathed question is "you're not a clock watcher are you?" I hate it, and it really gets my back up. If you want longer than pay for it you tightwad. If they do book I DO turn into the clock watcher and always make sure we don't go over by even a second. I mean what do they expect 4 hours for the price of 30 mins?

I was actually reading a punter forum and the general consensus was that it is rude not to let the punter finish even if it goes over time, many punters complaining about not being able to finish but having to leave

Had a guy once who took ages to cum during a 1 hour booking, there was literally 10 mins left and he wanted to try again (had a massive cock, was young and bang bang bang- nightmare), I let him, he didnt want to extend the booking and apparently 'had always been allowed to cum twice' and he was literally banging away at me like a rag doll just blatantly trying to get his moneys worth for the final minutes- very sad, annoying and immediately went on my blacklist afterwards

i stopped him mid pound on the absoloute second- no extra non paid for time from me

i find it so annoying hearing punters complain, and if on occasion a girl had let them go over time they suddenly expect all girls to do this and write about girls that dont as if they are 'worse' escorts than girls that have

Mellow · « **Reply #12 on:** 20 June 2012, 07:57:21 am »

Well thats one reason I never go on Punter Forums. I did flirt with one or two of them very briefly but tbh with a few exceptions the type of punters that are attracted to these forums tend to be the more unpleasant, boundary pushing type of guys who take great pleasure in dissecting girls performances/looks to bits, whilst expecting the girls to go the extra mile for no extra payment.

So what I would say is that this is really not worth taking any notice of, especially since only an incredibly small percentage of punters actually have the time to go on Punter Forums on any kind of regular basis.

See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

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