Hi ladies

I recieved a message from a client with 117 feedback.

This is the booking I turned down.

Hi ***** tomorrow lunchtime sounds possible x can I just check that you passionately deep French kiss please? This is absolutely essential XXX I will be clean shaven and nice minty fresh breathe XXX also as you can see from my adultwork feedback I have done a naughty scenario several times which is very sexy ... When I arrive outside your place you are totally naked with your fabulous body oiled from head to toe and pleasuring yourself on the bed when I enter your room I put payment immediately on the side then I get naked and totally oiled up then orally pleasure you then make passionate love to you can we do this *****? Hope so it's super sensual and erotic ;-) As you can see from my adultwork feedback all of the ladies I have done this with have thoroughly enjoyed themselves hehe xxx

I turned him down because:
1)I didnt want to leave the front door open for him, while waiting for him naked on bed. Leaving myself vulnerable.
2) wanted to take the money in my hands and hide it, before he see's any part of my body, let alone masturbating for him immediately. I dont like leaving money on the side, in the open. They can snatch it back and run.
3) never met him before, not a regular. I dont trust him coming on , without me meeting him at the front door.
4) I dont rely on feedback anymore, past experiences have showed me , that feedback can be deceiving.

Am I being too fussy and over cautious??  He sent me texts afterwards, saying other girls have no problems with it, so why am I being so difficult.  Would any other ladies do this booking??

Not at all, lots of alarm bells and even if he is harmless - you don't know that.

Ignore his feedback, that has nothing to do with anything. You don't like what he has proposed. This is more than enough for you to decline him without any further thought.

He sent me texts afterwards, saying other girls have no problems with it, so why am I being so difficult.  Would any other ladies do this booking??

If others don't have any problems with it, it would be a better use of his time contacting one of them. He's clearly trying to bully you into accepting the booking. This is not behaviour of a decent man.

Nothing is 'absolutely essential' and you have the absolute right to turn down any service at any time. That includes during the session. Decide what *you* are willing to do and don't feel bad about saying no.

Not in a million years would I do this.
Once  I had a regular client suggest very similar, that I could leave the door on the latch and be lying naked on the bed for him. He suggested this after we had met a few times and to give him credit, once I said no he never mentioned it again. I'm 99% sure he would have behaved as he was a lovely gent but still, if I lived to be a million, I would not do it.

I would say yes as long as he pays the full fee in advance via bank transfer.

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I had that same message some time ago and instantly blocked the guy, feedback doesn't mean much to me and also I am not into being told to smother myself in oil from head to toe I mean no but really how inconvenient.