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Re: Agency only have one client am I with the wrong one?
« Reply #15 on: 13 October 2019, 09:59:50 am »
I don't know the set up so am guessing...

If it's a brothel apartment where the men choose from a group of girls in the flesh.... That can be a challenging, competitive environment, fashion models have lineups for modelling contracts and it's depressing for the ones who get rejected. Some SW are just more experienced in 'actressing' for lineups in brothels and maybe that's not the right set up for you.

If it's a phone up agency, it's possible you had other job requests but they're not telling you. 'Bad' agencies have their favourites and mates and may give their buds the pick of the jobs. Even if clients ask for you specifically the agency can do the jobs themselves and you'll never know. I tested an agency with a request from a male friend and they did this to me. They used my profile as bait. Maybe you can test them?

The negative body comments seems like bullying to keep you insecure and vulnerable. You employ them. They don't employ you. So don't choose to feel belittled or beholden.

You are their client and pay them commission to do their job efficiently. If you're not a happy client because they are misleading you or the work environment doesn't suit your personality then find another way.

All of this.

As for going indie, its not like real life. You have the ability to 'make yourself' anything you want your escort persona to be, to brand yourself to attract the kinds of clients you think you can get along with. Escorts often have more control over how they can interact with men than in 'real life', I think. And if you need help with your profiles or ideas about how to advertise effectively, that's what this forum is for  :D

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Re: Agency only have one client am I with the wrong one?
« Reply #16 on: 13 October 2019, 01:04:25 pm »
This is the bit you can work on and yes people do pick up on vibes, at the least some punters will detect this and either avoid you, take advantage or try to help.

Your posts so far have been very down on yourself, my OH explains to me punters who are attracted to you are attracted to you. End of - just learn to market your strengths rather than think you have to fit a particular mould.

Hello mirror thank you for your reply. Yes defiantly need to work on myself or I’m going to get people taking the piss. I do like the set up they have they expect girls to do minimum I suppose but look good. I just don’t get no clients lol maybe it’s because I’m only available a few hours a week. So that won’t help me be the top choice. So you don’t think getting false lashes tan ect will help ??


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Re: Agency only have one client am I with the wrong one?
« Reply #17 on: 13 October 2019, 02:21:27 pm »
This is the bit you can work on and yes people do pick up on vibes, at the least some punters will detect this and either avoid you, take advantage or try to help.

Your posts so far have been very down on yourself, my OH explains to me punters who are attracted to you are attracted to you. End of - just learn to market your strengths rather than think you have to fit a particular mould.

Hello mirror thank you for your reply. Yes defiantly need to work on myself or I’m going to get people taking the piss. I do like the set up they have they expect girls to do minimum I suppose but look good. I just don’t get no clients lol maybe it’s because I’m only available a few hours a week. So that won’t help me be the top choice. So you don’t think getting false lashes tan ect will help ??

I'm not a lashes - tan fan at all I don't think it will help unless a punter has a lashes and tan fetish, you can be well presented without being over the top. I receive compliments from women (and men) a lot yet I'm the exact opposite of HD, layers of make-up, I have a very basic hair cut (simple 15 minute trim every 6 weeks), keep it in good condition by not heating/styling/colouring, or chucking on gunk. You, your presence, your smile, your demeanour, your promotion will make the biggest difference. When you say 'few hours' what do you mean exactly please?


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Re: Agency only have one client am I with the wrong one?
« Reply #18 on: 13 October 2019, 03:50:43 pm »
I'm not a lashes - tan fan at all I don't think it will help unless a punter has a lashes and tan fetish, you can be well presented without being over the top. I receive compliments from women (and men) a lot yet I'm the exact opposite of HD, layers of make-up, I have a very basic hair cut (simple 15 minute trim every 6 weeks), keep it in good condition by not heating/styling/colouring, or chucking on gunk. You, your presence, your smile, your demeanor, your promotion will make the biggest difference. When you say 'few hours' what do you mean exactly please?

Mirror that’s good then. I mean I only have one day a week in school hours that I can work at the moment due to other commitments

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Re: Agency only have one client am I with the wrong one?
« Reply #19 on: 13 October 2019, 03:59:16 pm »
Mirror that’s good then. I mean I only have one day a week in school hours that I can work at the moment due to other commitments

My suggestion would be to try booking a day-use hotel room. Even if you keep your rates lowish, you'll keep 100% of whatever you make, bar the price of the hotel room.
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Re: Agency only have one client am I with the wrong one?
« Reply #20 on: 13 October 2019, 07:03:41 pm »
When I first started escorting around a year ago I started with an agency, I was too the biggest of the girls (size 14) each day was different but on quiet days I was left thinking was it my size. Then after speaking to the other girls I realised the whole agency had gone really quiet compared to what it use to be like and they just seemed busier as they had regulars who only booked them. After working 3 shifts 11am-11pm and not getting one client I left and went indie, I never question my size now, I have clients who see me once sometimes twice a week and will only see me. It’s really boosted my confidence which probably makes me “work” better. When I first set up my aw I really didn’t think I’d get many jobs with how many slimmer/gorgeous women there are on there but you will be surprised. I can only work 2 days myself and find I’m sometimes back to back as regulars and new clients want to book in with me having limited availability. What ever you do hope it works out and please don’t think your quiet because of your size or not being glam enough. I’m proof that plenty of men like a size 14 woman x x

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Re: Agency only have one client am I with the wrong one?
« Reply #21 on: 14 October 2019, 04:34:16 pm »
When I first started escorting around a year ago I started with an agency, I was too the biggest of the girls (size 14) each day was different but on quiet days I was left thinking was it my size. Then after speaking to the other girls I realised the whole agency had gone really quiet compared to what it use to be like and they just seemed busier as they had regulars who only booked them. After working 3 shifts 11am-11pm and not getting one client I left and went indie, I never question my size now, I have clients who see me once sometimes twice a week and will only see me. It’s really boosted my confidence which probably makes me “work” better. When I first set up my aw I really didn’t think I’d get many jobs with how many slimmer/gorgeous women there are on there but you will be surprised. I can only work 2 days myself and find I’m sometimes back to back as regulars and new clients want to book in with me having limited availability. What ever you do hope it works out and please don’t think your quiet because of your size or not being glam enough. I’m proof that plenty of men like a size 14 woman x x

Thank you Annabelle you have given me confidence.. now where to start on Indy xx

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Re: Agency only have one client am I with the wrong one?
« Reply #22 on: 14 October 2019, 08:59:40 pm »
I’m fairly new but happy the way things are going, so if you need any advice about starting off indie feel free to message me. I don’t know all the in’s and outs but if I can help in anyway I’d be happy too x x

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Re: Agency only have one client am I with the wrong one?
« Reply #23 on: 20 October 2019, 06:02:05 pm »
Hello all,

Just need some advice.. started with an agency who charge quite high for area say £50 more then usual agency rates. I’ve been there two days and only had one client. I’m the biggest on their books at a size 14 with a belly plus I’m more girl next door then glamours lol.

Do you think maybe I’m starting somewhere else with a lower rate? Just new to this don’t know what I’m doing wrong??

Kelly xx

It's much better to be independent IMHO  :)

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Re: Agency only have one client am I with the wrong one?
« Reply #24 on: 21 October 2019, 10:45:01 pm »
To be honest I’m not sure it’s for me.. had great 2nd client had a good time ect. But since that a few days ago I have been feeling guilty and worried if anyone found out. I do suffer with anxiety. But does escorting get better or do you think maybe I’m not suited for the job.

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Re: Agency only have one client am I with the wrong one?
« Reply #25 on: 22 October 2019, 07:59:43 am »
To be honest I’m not sure it’s for me.. had great 2nd client had a good time ect. But since that a few days ago I have been feeling guilty and worried if anyone found out. I do suffer with anxiety. But does escorting get better or do you think maybe I’m not suited for the job.

Sounds like you are thinking about this a lot, it can be easy to think everyone knows when in reality they are just getting on with their lives.

Would it be a problem if people knew, I don't mean that literally - just how would you feel?

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Re: Agency only have one client am I with the wrong one?
« Reply #26 on: 22 October 2019, 09:07:35 am »
Sounds like you are thinking about this a lot, it can be easy to think everyone knows when in reality they are just getting on with their lives.

Would it be a problem if people knew, I don't mean that literally - just how would you feel?

I do way overthink get told that all the time! Well my family wouldn’t understand and my children would disown me I think they are pre teenagers

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Re: Agency only have one client am I with the wrong one?
« Reply #27 on: 22 October 2019, 09:35:37 am »
I do way overthink get told that all the time! Well my family wouldn’t understand and my children would disown me I think they are pre teenagers

Those are their reactions ignoring that, how would you feel if others know.

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Re: Agency only have one client am I with the wrong one?
« Reply #28 on: 24 October 2019, 09:40:17 am »
Personally I can only talk about myself really, my family know what I do ( at least the important ones), my husband knows and it's never been a problem.

If you expect that you can hide this from them you are walking a dangerous path of deceit, isolation and despair.

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Re: Agency only have one client am I with the wrong one?
« Reply #29 on: 24 October 2019, 12:11:02 pm »
Personally I can only talk about myself really, my family know what I do ( at least the important ones), my husband knows and it's never been a problem.

If you expect that you can hide this from them you are walking a dangerous path of deceit, isolation and despair.

Yes I’ve noticed so night before I’m panicking what’s it going be like. Then next day I have appointment need cover story for my whereabouts. Only having seen one client on day enjoy myself. Then next day feel guilty. Then back to normal next few days. As I said only work one day and only seen one client at mo as with agency. It seems a lot of work and draining for one client. Having said that I am a naturally anxious person. My first time I thought yep I’m make for this job but perhaps that was because I finally done it and it was an adrenaline rush. Now I’m an anxious mess!