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Secret-Whore

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Numb or repel clients from nipples
« on: 04 August 2015, 08:04:18 pm »
I enjoy having my nipples stimulated in my private life and they're sensitive-ish. I would rather not have any sexual reaction (however slight) with a client because it's revolting to me. What can I use to numb my nipples or get them not to touch them at all (I'm having trouble coming up with a reasonable excuse). Is it even okay to ask them to stay away from them totally?

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Re: Numb or repel clients from nipples
« Reply #1 on: 04 August 2015, 08:06:54 pm »
I hate my nipples stimulated just because it's highly annoying to me. I tell them that I like my breasts squeezed with a cupped hand and maybe my nipples licked. I just try to avoid my nipples fiddled with.

I think you may want to try a gel with lidocaine in it. Anbesol for example. It should numb them a bit.

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Re: Numb or repel clients from nipples
« Reply #2 on: 04 August 2015, 08:18:56 pm »
Good question!  I absolutely hate having my nipples touched at work and would welcome a numbing agent.  How easy is it to get hold of Lidocaine?

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Re: Numb or repel clients from nipples
« Reply #3 on: 04 August 2015, 08:44:23 pm »
I don't mind my nipples being played with gently, what I do hate is when they try and stretch them out or act like they're tuning a radio.

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Re: Numb or repel clients from nipples
« Reply #4 on: 04 August 2015, 08:58:20 pm »
Teething gel or powder numbs, or go to the chemist tell them you're having a tattoo and need some lidocaine cream to numb the pain x
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Re: Numb or repel clients from nipples
« Reply #5 on: 04 August 2015, 09:09:49 pm »
I don't mind my nipples being played with gently, what I do hate is when they try and stretch them out or act like they're tuning a radio.

Lol that's exactly what they do! I hate it too!

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Re: Numb or repel clients from nipples
« Reply #6 on: 04 August 2015, 09:25:27 pm »
God yeah, what do some of these guys think nipples are?? I had one pulling my nipple like he thought it would come off  ???
I just shouted OUCH!! and he stopped, with a rather confused look on his face..
Maybe he'd never been with a woman before, or only with one who liked to have her nipples pulled (off!)  ;D
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Re: Numb or repel clients from nipples
« Reply #7 on: 05 August 2015, 04:07:43 am »
Every time a clients moves his hand towards my nipples with pinched fingers, it's as if I am watching it in slow motion and want to just scream "NOOOOOOOOOOO", because I know what follows isn't going to be pleasant.

I used to endure it. Now I just tell them to stop or do it back to them so they see how it feels. I DON'T LIKE MY FUCKING NIPPLES BEING PINCHED, PULLED AND TWISTED. These babies are attached, and much more sensitive than guys' nipples!

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Re: Numb or repel clients from nipples
« Reply #8 on: 05 August 2015, 05:05:33 am »
Ametop, you can buy from the chemist.

In my previous life I worked in tattoo and piercing industry. You need to apply an hour and half prior, cover with cling film and tape down with micro pore. You may get redness where its applied though....... so your red boobs may in turn put them off lol!!


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Re: Numb or repel clients from nipples
« Reply #9 on: 05 August 2015, 07:23:18 am »
ive ended up telling clients before they put my breast in their mouths that my nipples are very sensitive and to be gentle, no squeezing or pulling  or sucking hard , some are respectful, sadly others suck for England, at this point ive pulled my breast away from them and told them again it hurts.

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Re: Numb or repel clients from nipples
« Reply #10 on: 05 August 2015, 09:03:46 am »
What the fuck does it even do for them to suck on nipples? No milk will come out. Presumably, they do it to make us feel good but if we tell them we don't like it then we're not being fun. We must always be fun. Fun girls like whatever clumsy thing they care to do to us.

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Re: Numb or repel clients from nipples
« Reply #11 on: 05 August 2015, 10:07:20 am »
I can't stand any, absolutely ANY activity near my nipples, it's disgusting and makes me cringe inside, even now when I'm thinking about it. And it's the gentle touching and gentle licking that disgusts me the most. I also used to endure this horrible procedure but now I tell them I don't like it and I prefer my breasts being squeezed hard than any, and I mean any activity that involves touching my nipples. They often think that when your nipples get hard it means that you get excited and wet and ready for sex, but it's totally untrue.

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Re: Numb or repel clients from nipples
« Reply #12 on: 05 August 2015, 11:19:22 am »
What the fuck does it even do for them to suck on nipples? No milk will come out. Presumably, they do it to make us feel good but if we tell them we don't like it then we're not being fun. We must always be fun. Fun girls like whatever clumsy thing they care to do to us.

Ugh I hate this. I can't imagine getting off on something the guy I'm with finds unpleasant and painful, never understand how they can. Ok there's the sadists, but it's even the average joes. How is that a nice experience for either party?!

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Re: Numb or repel clients from nipples
« Reply #13 on: 05 August 2015, 07:23:44 pm »
I would rather not have any sexual reaction (however slight) with a client because it's revolting to me.

One possibility is to keep a bra on (leather can be particularly useful for this - fetishy and thick..)

Everyone has their own way of working, but seeking to have no reaction to every client sounds like it's hard on the acting, if not other things.
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Re: Numb or repel clients from nipples
« Reply #14 on: 05 August 2015, 10:17:27 pm »
Good question!  I absolutely hate having my nipples touched at work and would welcome a numbing agent.  How easy is it to get hold of Lidocaine?

Vagisil also has  lidocaine in it. x