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curvywench

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age screening of clients
« on: 24 March 2013, 05:01:43 pm »
Hi

Can I ask if you age screen your clients or do you feel once  they are paying age shouldnt matter. I had a walker last night, old man in his 70's rattling with fear when he got to my door, said he cudnt stay, but thank heavens cos I cudnt have had sex with him. He was repulsively ugly and well old

Now yes that makes me shallow and I apologise for being fussy, but no way in this world could I have gone thru with this booking.

So do u weed out clients by ages or does it bother you?

Thanks :)

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Dani

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Re: age screening of clients
« Reply #1 on: 24 March 2013, 05:12:24 pm »
if you feel that way about older guuys why not just clearly state a maximum age on your profile.  I am pretty sure then you would nto have to worry as these guys will know you dont want to see them and will go elsewhere

personally I dont care about age as long as are clean and respectful and adhere to my rules
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Re: age screening of clients
« Reply #2 on: 24 March 2013, 05:17:40 pm »
If I even suspect they are under 20 I tell them they need to bring photo id with them. They can hide their name and address if they want, I just need to see the picture and their D.O.B.

As long as they are over 18 though I don't have any age constraints. Clients are all subject to the same rules of respect, punctuality and cleanliness though.

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Re: age screening of clients
« Reply #3 on: 24 March 2013, 05:41:42 pm »
i don,t like to see younger men under 28 unless they are sensible and mature enough to make a simple booking. Can,t be bothered with their questions because they don,t read nothing, it states on my profile. Older men are ok but how old is old don,t think i could have seen him either as the way u describe him sounds not very nice. I saw a man once and he was so lovely but i don,t believe he was 60 ish more like a lot older and sort of smelt like mildew so when he asked to see me again i was busy. My choice as i really thought he would die of cardiac arrest.

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Re: age screening of clients
« Reply #4 on: 24 March 2013, 06:44:57 pm »
I clearly state on my profile that I only see men over 28 and under 60.

It's better to be upfront about these kinds of things because that way both my time and the clients time is not wasted. The upper age limit isn't such a big thing for me these days and I might take it off my profile completely but I'm keeping the lower age limit.
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Re: age screening of clients
« Reply #5 on: 24 March 2013, 07:07:29 pm »
I will ask to see ID if they look really young to prove they are over 18. Had someone once who later became a regular, I could have sworn he was about 15  :o so I asked to see his ID and he gave his drivers licence - he was 22! Was on tenterhooks the whole appointment thinking "what if it was his brother's ID?"  :-\ , but after the appointment I watched him drive off in his car.

Don't have an upper age limit. No-one repulses me except those with poor hygiene (can spread across all age groups IMO).

So I do see anyone 18 to 118 lol !

However I will say that I prefer those from about late 30s to late 50s. Below late 30s and they seem to have a higher risk of being one of those annoying ones who think it's a real date, or they think are some kind of stud lady magnet and I should be doing them for free! Not all but a higher percentage overall. Into the late 50s and 60s and beyond I do tend to get a higher percentage who have erection problems and cannot finish, therefore a risk they will go over time and I'll have to politely tell them times up and they leave "unsatisfied" and it's a bit awkward. So late 30s to late 50s is my preferred range, although I will see those outwith that age group no problem x 
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curvywench

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Re: age screening of clients
« Reply #6 on: 24 March 2013, 07:30:42 pm »
He was in his late 70's to early 80's I'd hazzard a guess, I know I shudnt have been freaked out, but I was, and also he was so frightened that I was scared he was gonna have a heart attack on me, can u imagine  :o

I think maybe an age limit wouldbe a great idea, I dont mind younger as long as they are legal, but for some reason much older clients just dont do it for me
« Last Edit: 24 March 2013, 07:42:05 pm by curvywench »
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Re: age screening of clients
« Reply #7 on: 24 March 2013, 07:36:30 pm »
i don,t like to see younger men under 28 unless they are sensible and mature enough to make a simple booking. Can,t be bothered with their questions because they don,t read nothing, it states on my profile. Older men are ok but how old is old don,t think i could have seen him either as the way u describe him sounds not very nice. I saw a man once and he was so lovely but i don,t believe he was 60 ish more like a lot older and sort of smelt like mildew so when he asked to see me again i was busy. My choice as i really thought he would die of cardiac arrest.

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Re: age screening of clients
« Reply #8 on: 24 March 2013, 08:57:11 pm »
I dont like bookings with older guys to be honest or overweight. I've been thinking about putting an age limit on my profile for a while now. i have no idea why but over %60 of my clients are under 30 anyway, and i get loads around the same age as me (i'm 23) but.... that could change overnight : / dont want to cut my nose off to spite my face.......

woofy86

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« Reply #9 on: 24 March 2013, 09:20:55 pm »
I do worry about  when someone is 60 + and has heart attack on you cause it feels so good :( What do you do in a situation like that!

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« Reply #10 on: 24 March 2013, 09:28:02 pm »
I do worry about  when someone is 60 + and has heart attack on you cause it feels so good :( What do you do in a situation like that!

People of all ages can have heart attacks. Many of my clients are over 60, and I've seen several guys in their 70s and 80s shock horror, and no-one, not yet has had any sort of heart attack, stroke or anything else (and I do see guys who have parkinsons, had a stroke, have had a heart attack already but nothing during a booking). For some reason a lot of folk think anyone over the age of 60 is a health liability, some are but some in their 30s, 40s and 50s can be in poor health too(old acquaintance of mine sadly dropped dead at the ripe old age of 41). :-\

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Re: age screening of clients
« Reply #11 on: 24 March 2013, 09:31:54 pm »
I do worry about  when someone is 60 + and has heart attack on you cause it feels so good :( What do you do in a situation like that!

probably the same as yo would when a 35 year old guy has a heart attack on you.  being older does not automatically mean ripe for a heart attack when infact a very large number of heart attacks are by men aged 35 - 50.  due to smoking, drinking and junk food heart attacks are starting to happen to younger and younger men whereas the older guys do tend to be more wary so do tend to look after their health
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Re: age screening of clients
« Reply #12 on: 24 March 2013, 09:52:13 pm »
Oldest guy I've seen was 82 ish, he had an angina attack and I thought it was a heart attack.  :o

We had a laugh about it afterwards.  ;D

Age is no issue for me. 18 - 80+ not fussed.

For me, the important things are cleanliness, respectfulness and discretion. It's a customer service job, and it's all about the person, making a personal connection, and providing a service to them.

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Re: age screening of clients
« Reply #13 on: 25 March 2013, 06:40:34 pm »
While I don't discriminate on age, I would definitely decline any man I found "repulsively ugly", whatever his age! There's no point going through a booking that would make me miserable, and my misery would probably make the client miserable as well.

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Re: age screening of clients
« Reply #14 on: 25 March 2013, 06:52:55 pm »
Age is no issue for me. 18 - 80+ not fussed.

For me, the important things are cleanliness, respectfulness and discretion. It's a customer service job, and it's all about the person, making a personal connection, and providing a service to them.

Natalie xXx

I totally agree with you,..... but size screening would be more of an issue with me, I do not like being with very overweight clients who sweat and puff and to be honest are not a joy to be with whatever their age :(

I have some very fit older regular clients who are a joy to be with however.
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