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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Lalalondon on 26 July 2017, 09:55:08 am
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Hello everyone, so happy I found this site! Amazing tips from all of you.
So, starting this weekend, Friday till Sunday. So far no bookings but I haven't been able to answer my phone due to regular job so I'm really hoping that I get some on the day! The few times I've answered phone I've been so nervous!
There's just a few I'd like to ask about working in hotel and anal.. Some weekends I will stay all weekend, during the week I will book some day hotels.
1. If someone wants to order a drink or food from room service is it ok to pay cash at room door rather than it go on the bill? I've always just added to the room bill before so rather than chance it thought I'd check here. Silly thing to ask I know!
2. Best way to ask for extra towels? I'm going to bring one for myself anyway but might need more?
3. I'm struggling a bit on the phone and worry I'm not coming across warm enough! I'm going to just try to be myself throughout but I hate talking on the phone and it makes me so nervous! I know I'll get over it soon enough but any tips would be appreciated.
4. I've had a couple questions about rimming and anal play which is fine for me, but never before have I had to prepare, best way I can do this in a hotel?
I think I'm pretty organised, have a little suitcase full of stuff ready and waiting! I know I'll be absolutely bricking it, luckily I have a very understanding boyfriend who is my security buddy so that's covered too.
If anyone can recommend good hotels, day use or otherwise, in se/central London and Dartford/Maidstone/Tonbridge area I'd also appreciate a PM
Thanks
Lulu
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In regards to food and drink, unless its a longer booking (minimum 2hrs) and they have specifically asked for a dinner date, I wouldn't be calling room service for clients. You can get a pack of plastic tumblers and pick up a bottle of water and maybe some biscuits or other snacks if you want from the nearest shop.
In regards to towels, it would depend how many clients you were looking to see but you will need at least a few replacements. Most of us will take a couple with us, plus take from the trolleys (make sure the cleaners aren't watching). Some ladies even check to see if the cleaning cupboard is unlocked. If its a place with a gym/health club you could take a couple from there. If your only seeing 3-4 clients per day. You could even just use the two fresh towels in the morning/early afternoon and then just request 2 new towels for later on.
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Hi Lulu,
1) It does depend on the hotel, if there's a mini fridge just buy a few water bottles yourself and store them in there for clients. I wouldn't worry about feeding them, if they want to eat they can take you out, or wait until after their session.
2) ...I've really no idea how you can do this other than just asking and playing it straight. Claim a big spillage? Otherwise I'd be prepared to bring several from home.
3) Bounce up and down, jump about, move. Nervousness makes you restless, and this has the added benefit of making you sound breathless (hint of what could come?). Write yourself a little script, and read from it, write down their answers so you know what they want.
I started a long time ago doing phone sex, practice dropping your voice slightly, nerves can raise the pitch quite a bit. Create a persona, keep them talking about themselves and what they want, the less air you have to fill. But don't let them wander into a fantasy, keep them to the point.
4) If you haven't got one, get a douche, use it till you run clean. Just use the hotel bathroom before they arrive. Get yourself some good lube, I use YesButt, Silk is also good. Don't double dip, change condoms between holes. Don't eat anything spicy. Start with you on top, control the depth and pace for the initial penetration.
If it's too big, you can always say no. Play it off like a compliment. "Gosh, I just don't think I can take that, you're so big. Let's try some other things first."
If you're not used to doing anal, get some butt plugs and try wearing them for a little while, working your way up. Can also be quite a thrill for clients to discover you wearing one when they go for a grope.
Just breathe, have fun, and remember, don't push yourself to do something you're not comfortable with.
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Have you read the main site for general info? www.saafe.info
Those ladies already posting have been super helpful, but if you use the search button at the top of the page you can find I'm sure lots of threads about specific questions.
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In regards to food and drink, unless its a longer booking (minimum 2hrs) and they have specifically asked for a dinner date, I wouldn't be calling room service for clients. You can get a pack of plastic tumblers and pick up a bottle of water and maybe some biscuits or other snacks if you want from the nearest shop.
In regards to towels, it would depend how many clients you were looking to see but you will need at least a few replacements. Most of us will take a couple with us, plus take from the trolleys (make sure the cleaners aren't watching). Some ladies even check to see if the cleaning cupboard is unlocked. If its a place with a gym/health club you could take a couple from there. If your only seeing 3-4 clients per day. You could even just use the two fresh towels in the morning/early afternoon and then just request 2 new towels for later on.
Thanks for the advice! It didn't occur to me that room service should only be something for a long booking so I'm glad you said that, bringing water and cups is great advice thanks. I'll also invest in a few towels too.
Thank you!
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Hi Lulu,
1) It does depend on the hotel, if there's a mini fridge just buy a few water bottles yourself and store them in there for clients. I wouldn't worry about feeding them, if they want to eat they can take you out, or wait until after their session.
2) ...I've really no idea how you can do this other than just asking and playing it straight. Claim a big spillage? Otherwise I'd be prepared to bring several from home.
3) Bounce up and down, jump about, move. Nervousness makes you restless, and this has the added benefit of making you sound breathless (hint of what could come?). Write yourself a little script, and read from it, write down their answers so you know what they want.
I started a long time ago doing phone sex, practice dropping your voice slightly, nerves can raise the pitch quite a bit. Create a persona, keep them talking about themselves and what they want, the less air you have to fill. But don't let them wander into a fantasy, keep them to the point.
4) If you haven't got one, get a douche, use it till you run clean. Just use the hotel bathroom before they arrive. Get yourself some good lube, I use YesButt, Silk is also good. Don't double dip, change condoms between holes. Don't eat anything spicy. Start with you on top, control the depth and pace for the initial penetration.
If it's too big, you can always say no. Play it off like a compliment. "Gosh, I just don't think I can take that, you're so big. Let's try some other things first."
If you're not used to doing anal, get some butt plugs and try wearing them for a little while, working your way up. Can also be quite a thrill for clients to discover you wearing one when they go for a grope.
Just breathe, have fun, and remember, don't push yourself to do something you're not comfortable with.
More great advice, thanks so much! Will try the jumping up and down etc before answering the phone and see if that helps!
Also thanks for advice about douching. Another new experience haha!
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Have you read the main site for general info? www.saafe.info
Those ladies already posting have been super helpful, but if you use the search button at the top of the page you can find I'm sure lots of threads about specific questions.
Thanks SS I knew I meant to mention something.
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I've read this forum so many times it's unreal! Always good to be prepared, just wanted to try to get specific answers.
Thanks!
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If you haven't got one, get a douche, use it till you run clean. Just use the hotel bathroom before they arrive. Get yourself some good lube, I use YesButt, Silk is also good.
As someone like myself who doesn't self lubricate I'd strongly recommend YesYes (comes as a pack of 6), it's not a sexual quote lol. I've used Sylk before but switched because although it was very very good as a lube it tends to leave a nasty smell after using it for a while. I think it impregnates the skin, awful stuff. Failing that any water based lube but YesYes is claimed to keep you moist up to 3 days.
I also recommend a good douche if you feel you need to as well, good for flushing out etc. Be careful though as some have sharp edges, not very nice. Mine has a rubber hose type thing attached, very soft and smooth and won't cause you any mild abrasive cuts down there. Good luck xx
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Smile when you're talking on the phone it helps make you come across more friendly, write down a list of things you want to ask on the phone you'll soon be saying it all without even thinking same with small talk when they get there
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As someone like myself who doesn't self lubricate I'd strongly recommend YesYes (comes as a pack of 6), it's not a sexual quote lol. I've used Sylk before but switched because although it was very very good as a lube it tends to leave a nasty smell after using it for a while. I think it impregnates the skin, awful stuff. Failing that any water based lube but YesYes is claimed to keep you moist up to 3 days.
I also recommend a good douche if you feel you need to as well, good for flushing out etc. Be careful though as some have sharp edges, not very nice. Mine has a rubber hose type thing attached, very soft and smooth and won't cause you any mild abrasive cuts down there. Good luck xx
Some good tips here thank you! Currently online looking for douches and new lube now!
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Smile when you're talking on the phone it helps make you come across more friendly, write down a list of things you want to ask on the phone you'll soon be saying it all without even thinking same with small talk when they get there
Actually works thanks! Plus the lowering the tone to help my voice sound calmer. I've had my phone on a few hours and answered some calls and it's getting easier! I didn't realise that I'd get so many hang ups after saying I wasn't working today, at least say bye!
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Hiya, I've sent you a PM XX
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Actually works thanks! Plus the lowering the tone to help my voice sound calmer. I've had my phone on a few hours and answered some calls and it's getting easier! I didn't realise that I'd get so many hang ups after saying I wasn't working today, at least say bye!
Oh girl, don't even feel upset. Just remind yourself that guys who are so rude are not guys you want to see.
Re: refreshments for customers. If you want to provide this then just buy a 6 pack of still water. IME customers do not expect a drink unless you specifically offer this and state it on your adverts. If you get a dinner date booking then he will be paying and it will be at a restaurant. If you want to book room service for yourself then you can pay by cash or card, they won't care. But be aware of the tray charge!
Watch out for guys asking for bookings of 1hr plus. When you are new and have no feedback there is no good reason someone would want to risk 2hrs of fees or more on you.
Don't get into long text conversations with "potential" clients. If they text you, ask them to call to book. if they don't call then they never had any intention of booking.
Don't ever say you are "new" in your profile, you will attract the worst and most criminal element who think because you're new you will do anything they say.
Good luck!
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Thanks for the advice! It didn't occur to me that room service should only be something for a long booking so I'm glad you said that, bringing water and cups is great advice thanks. I'll also invest in a few towels too.
Thank you!
Yes with shorter bookings you really don't what to be messing about waiting on a bottle of water being bought up. Plus if your calling room service every hour then you will draw attention to yourself, which you obviously want to avoid.
Also don't buy both still and sparkling unless you like both and can have them if clients don't finish them. Or unless they are cheap and you don't mind if they go to waste
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Thanks to the last two comments, more good points I hadn't thought of! I suppose now it will be learn by experience! Feel so prepared already though, thanks girls
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Good luck, let us know how you get on.
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You could go down to the bar and buy a large bottle of still water and ask for an ice bucket and a couple of glasses x
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Hi, so I booked my hotel for fri and sat night, got there about 8 on Friday. Had my first client around 10.30 for half hour which was a little awkward which is understandable when I found out it was his first time booking someone! Went fine though! Then I had three hour bookings Saturday which went really well, all were easy to get on with and had experience, didn't take the mick with time or tried to pull any tricks I've read about on here. The sex was much easier than I thought it would be! I actually enjoyed the day and feel like I've found my calling haha. The very last client did leave a skid mark on the towel AFTER he had showered (we had already had sex) so that did turn my stomach a bit!! Decided to go home after that and not book any in Sunday morning.
I bought two extra towels with me and was lucky to be right across the towel cupboard. So could have snuck a couple if I wanted. Next time will take 4 towels just in case, and get a large sheet for the bed too, I really didn't want to sleep on it!! Also I'll remember to take an extra mug or two.
All in all a good first experience, which could only have happened from being so prepared from reading this forum and all the advice, so thanks very much! Xx
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Well done, glad it all went okay for you!
Regarding the sheet, I recommend getting a patterned cotton throw or superking duvet cover, much better at not showing stray pubes, lube/cum stains, etc. Then just take it off the bed at night.
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Thanks, will keep that in mind!
One other thing I thought I should take was some all purpose bathroom cleaner, I prefer baths to showers but didn't feel like it was clean enough for me after the clients had taken their showers.
Can't wait for September when I can really start to get into a routine and hopefully get some nice regulars. Hoping to be able to find a room to rent which would be nice!
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Thanks, will keep that in mind!
One other thing I thought I should take was some all purpose bathroom cleaner, I prefer baths to showers but didn't feel like it was clean enough for me after the clients had taken their showers.
Can't wait for September when I can really start to get into a routine and hopefully get some nice regulars. Hoping to be able to find a room to rent which would be nice!
I take those disinfectant wipes with me for that purpose and just in case for the toilet ;D