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Kaci908

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Newbie needs advice
« on: 15 November 2018, 08:43:14 am »
Hi Ladies,

So I'm thinking of working as an escort.

My  situation is that I didn't go back to work after having my first child and so I want to go to college next year and retrain in something (not sure what)

Anyway I am looking at escorting, my only problem is I'd only be able to do it on a weekend and only be able to do out calls.

Do you get many bookings if your only offering outcalls? And is it better to go to hotels or people's homes?

Also what's it like being an escort? I've done phone chat an webcam which was OK bit never tried escorting, phone and webcam would be impossible with my little one around.

Any advice appreciated.

Gem :)

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Re: Newbie needs advice
« Reply #1 on: 15 November 2018, 04:31:36 pm »
IME outcalls only is about 10% of the business you'd get doing incalls. now if you're supplementing an existing income then that's perfectly okay but if you're trying to support yourself only through escorting then you're going to have issues making enough even if you stay available 24 hours from 8pm Friday to 8am Monday.

What I used to do is book a hotel Fri-Sat night (often the cheapest nights of the week and you can get great deals paying in advance), pay for late checkout on the Sunday and announce it as a tour. Make sure you set your profile to available for incalls and write "Hotel with [free/nearby] parking [2/5/10] mins from [J5/10/25 M1/M25/M6]". This weeds out all the guys who go "Oh nooo, a hotel? Ohhh I'm too scared!"

In terms of outcall security, I'd say hotels are better because they have CCTV, you can request that the client send you the booking confirmation by email (which will have his full name) and you can ring his room and/or the hotel reception to confirm that he's actually there. In a client's home, you don't know where the exits are, you don't know if the hygiene is up to scratch (I've seen some minging places when I did residential outcalls.) However if you screen carefully, you can minimise this.

If you're going to any outcall I would definitely say listen to your instincts and if anything makes you think "Hmmm, not sure about this" then just cancel or refuse the booking. It's not worth risking your safety. (Actually the same applies for incalls. If your gut says "nah" then heed it!)

Also have a read through the warnings on this forum because as a new escort you will most definitely be targeted by "Overnight scammer, rough and doesn't pay", "Mr Ward derbyshire overnight" and "Scented pillow man".

My best advice for seeing if you're suited to escorting is to get a burner sim and phone, put your profile up on AW, take the first booking where the guy sounds sensible (hint, anyone sending a text saying "workin?" or "postcode?" is not sensible) and see how you feel after. If you feel shit, then you never have to do this again and nobody has to know. If you feel "Yeah that was fine and I've come away with £120 for an hour's work!" then crack on!
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Kaci908

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Re: Newbie needs advice
« Reply #2 on: 17 November 2018, 11:26:37 am »
Thanks hun!

I'm nervous. I've done this before.

What was your first booking like?

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Re: Newbie needs advice
« Reply #3 on: 17 November 2018, 04:24:28 pm »
Hi, I am outcalls only. I do have a 'day job' which is part-time and just something to put on the CV. I'm also studying through the OU so any questions about the parttime work are solved lol.

I'm London based however so have access to a lot of clients. Realistically I don't need the part-time job, just as I said, CV stuff. I don't even do this daily. Nor do I see more than 2, maybe 3 clients a day by choice depending on what they want.

My weekend escort is now mainly my regulars and the occasional new person. New clients contact me more during the week - they have families, away for the weekend, in London on business etc. The regs know I don't mess about, and we arrive at the hotel at the same time. This is important for them as they have worked on their cover. Of course, not all clients are in relationships!!

 Hotels are fully payable by them, regardless of if they are someone new or a reg. Some new ones will try it on and try and haggle with you, I just tell them it's their choice to book me they could quite easily go and see someone offering incall within their price range. It varies if they proceed or go elsewhere.

For every 20 calls, I get one asking about Incalls. I even tried it booked hotels, and it made no difference to the number of guys I was seeing. Just adding to my overheads.

Go with your gut. Make sure you have your screening process bang on. Read the forum and the main site. Research the internet as much as you can. Let someone know where you are going and check in with them.

I go to homes and hotels and always go with my gut feeling whether it's someone new or a regular.

What's it like? I enjoy it. But I genuinely enjoy fucking. I was giving it away anyway, so once the money is taken care of at the beginning, it's no different. I don't let it stress me out. I carry on with my day, and just take my phone with me and either answer calls, or text them if I really cannot talk. If my phone rings, great. If not, well shit happens. I know what I need to make over the month and as long as I get there, that's all that counts. No two days are the same which is great for me. The guys that phone to waste time, I generally mess around with them and take the piss out of them. See how they like it!! Nothing is ever as it seems. Not all guys want to fuck, some just want some oral/hand relieve, others just want company. You need to be assertive and remember that yes they are paying for a service it doesn't mean they can treat you in certain ways, they wouldn't do it to other companies and you are no different. You need to be sure about your likes, don't just add stuff for the sake of adding it, as they do expect that if you have it listed you will do it.




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Re: Newbie needs advice
« Reply #4 on: 17 November 2018, 04:26:58 pm »
Oh and Cam/phone work. I do this when I can be bothered when the kids are sleeping. I will say I am available say for phone calls, and then take my phone and go and soak in the bath for a bit. I enjoy long soaks but get easily bored lol.