Hi, I am outcalls only. I do have a 'day job' which is part-time and just something to put on the CV. I'm also studying through the OU so any questions about the parttime work are solved lol.
I'm London based however so have access to a lot of clients. Realistically I don't need the part-time job, just as I said, CV stuff. I don't even do this daily. Nor do I see more than 2, maybe 3 clients a day by choice depending on what they want.
My weekend escort is now mainly my regulars and the occasional new person. New clients contact me more during the week - they have families, away for the weekend, in London on business etc. The regs know I don't mess about, and we arrive at the hotel at the same time. This is important for them as they have worked on their cover. Of course, not all clients are in relationships!!
Hotels are fully payable by them, regardless of if they are someone new or a reg. Some new ones will try it on and try and haggle with you, I just tell them it's their choice to book me they could quite easily go and see someone offering incall within their price range. It varies if they proceed or go elsewhere.
For every 20 calls, I get one asking about Incalls. I even tried it booked hotels, and it made no difference to the number of guys I was seeing. Just adding to my overheads.
Go with your gut. Make sure you have your screening process bang on. Read the forum and the main site. Research the internet as much as you can. Let someone know where you are going and check in with them.
I go to homes and hotels and always go with my gut feeling whether it's someone new or a regular.
What's it like? I enjoy it. But I genuinely enjoy fucking. I was giving it away anyway, so once the money is taken care of at the beginning, it's no different. I don't let it stress me out. I carry on with my day, and just take my phone with me and either answer calls, or text them if I really cannot talk. If my phone rings, great. If not, well shit happens. I know what I need to make over the month and as long as I get there, that's all that counts. No two days are the same which is great for me. The guys that phone to waste time, I generally mess around with them and take the piss out of them. See how they like it!! Nothing is ever as it seems. Not all guys want to fuck, some just want some oral/hand relieve, others just want company. You need to be assertive and remember that yes they are paying for a service it doesn't mean they can treat you in certain ways, they wouldn't do it to other companies and you are no different. You need to be sure about your likes, don't just add stuff for the sake of adding it, as they do expect that if you have it listed you will do it.