Do a search here for other people's experience, but..

.. the courts won't enforce sex-based contracts, so ignore anyone who suggests suing;

.. don't do anything that the police would interpret as blackmail;

.. he may have committed one of the fraud offences, but the police are unlikely to be interested unless you can find the others he's done this to.

How did they pay?

Why do you know so much about him, is he a regular?

Any chance he made a mistake and you could say to him.

It was an outcall and the OP has posted in Warnings about it, so she'll have sensibly done proper security checks before she went and got the information when she did . Less sensibly, she agreed to extend the booking without being paid upfront and as a result of that there's pretty much nothing anybody can do about it now, for the reasons Ian has posted already.

It's a valuable lesson that an awful lot of people learn (and I daresay our Warnings board would be a lot shorter if they didn't), but it's a mistake nobody makes twice. All anybody can do is be thankful they're safe and unharmed, and make sure it never happens again. And warn others, which at least might prevent it happening to somebody else .

This is why payment has to be upfront, or accept the loss if he doesn't pay up at the end.

The sex contract is unenforceable so no come back if someone doesn't cough up.

I had someone underpay recently, but I think it was an accident as he came back with it after I let him know.

Hi everyone, and thank you for the input. I guess I'll just have to take this as a lesson for the future. Have reported him everywhere so at least that's put my mind at ease a bit. x

You could tell him you have passed it on to security/ debt collectors and they will be paying him a visit to collect. It worked for a friend of mine with an arsehole and she got a male to contact him he ended up paying up. Might be worth a try.

Before going independent I worked in a brothel and gradually I noticed as time went on I became the only woman working there as he other girls all left!
The reason was because the madam was a pretty vile character who it soon became apparent was taking advantage of the ladies. She was very much into money and it wouldn’t be unusual to turn up to a shift to find her not there and no phones either ( she had a compulsive gambling habit and would be spending the money in the casino)

I was in a poor situation at the time as I hadn’t dreamed of going independent and was unsure where to find a new place to work. My previous place in Chelsea has closed so I was desperate to work.

Anyway this woman was also illegally in the country and had been an ex WG now madam. She was also heavily pregnant and used to service clients to fund her gambling addiction.
A few times she would not pay your cut of the money as she owed money to card boys etc.
Looking back I wonder why I put up with it.


Anyway one night she brought some guy back with here from the casino who was high on coke and she made it her priority to rinse him of every last penny he had.
At one point she even brought in a plate with white powder in it and took £60 from him but the powder was 100%!paracetamol but he was so messed up he barely noticed.

She refused as her duty as a madam to go to the cashpoint blaming the fact she was pregnant and tired and allowed me rather foolishly to work on trust that at the end of the session he would pay if I accompanied him.
He basically on going to the cash point tried to escape me on the Edgware Road and I literally had to drag him back to the flat to explain to her. He confessed he had no money left but would pay another time.
Bullshit.
My fault for being gullible and trusting and also that of the madam who had fleeced him in such a way that she was happy with the money she had already made from him.

I put it down to experience but would never ever trust a client again. No matter how regular they are or how long I’ve known them

A few months ago my friend had a regular extend the session and said he would bank transfer the cash after the meet.

Surprise surprise, he didn't, and was ignoring my friend's texts and not picking up her calls.

I phoned him on her behalf and just said "Hi, you saw my friend X yesterday and agreed to do a bank transfer immediately after the booking, which you haven't done. Why is that please?" He stuttered and then said "Oh I forgot." I said "Well let's do it now then shall we?" and made him stay on the line while he did it.

Total idiot, is now obviously blacklisted but has tried to book again on numerous occasions. Talk about shooting yourself in the foot, he knew how good the pussy was but for the sake of £80 he's now lost access to it forever.