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Author Topic: Black American provider looking to tour The UK this coming August! I have ?s  (Read 1727 times)

CelesteManchester

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Lord, if I told y'all what info I have on my clients....smh. Maybe I'm a heavy screener🤷🏼‍♀️? I won't post anything of course.

I WILL say easily 50% of men I speak to either cannot or will not screen ~ & that's completely fine. I get that I'm asking some intrusive questions, I absolutely do. But there's a whoooooole website devoted to ME. I'm not letting you show up without knowing SOMETHING about you, especially if everything goes south. I tell them that (you know me😆) & when I get the "I need to be discreet" complaints,  I simply say that being discreet & being anonymous are 2 completely different things.

I CAN  be discreet with you, you CANNOT be anonymous with me. End of story.
An American on a British site, still learning the slang😉

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Sorry with my late response, I was away from my computer for a free days.

Thank yall so much with the thoughtful replies. I wasn't expecting to get that many!!!!!!!! I will definitely dm some of you personally, because I have more questions to ask and I appreciate this. Thank you so much!

Btw about AW, I know it is banned here in the US. I was thinking about signing up for it once I touch down in the UK, because I do see US girls who are UK based advertising their services on there. They still won't let me join even if I sign up while I'm in the UK?

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If you're looking to provide BDSM services then I'd recommend getting to know the local fetish community first.

How long are you planning on staying here? Will you be driving? I would really recomend visiting Aberdeen if you're in Scotland, it's beautiful architecture.

I will be staying for 30 days. I won't be driving.

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Btw about AW, I know it is banned here in the US. I was thinking about signing up for it once I touch down in the UK, because I do see US girls who are UK based advertising their services on there. They still won't let me join even if I sign up while I'm in the UK?
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yes, wait until you are here and make a profile, you won't have a problem as long as you are accessing from the UK and as long as they allow american nationality. You'll get more clients if you verify and verificiation process takes about 2 working days. No need to send anything to them, just take some photos as per their instructions, some with Id, some without id, and upload them on the site. As per advertising, i would stick to AW and Vivastreet only, those are the biggest. On VS the verification is pretty simpler than aw, its just for age verification. If i was you, as you only have a month, i would forget about agencies, parlours and dungeons and would just work independently from hotels. Since you still hv plenty of time, i would plan the whole trip in advance and book hotels now as you get better rates if booked in advance. We don't really do any screening here other than when goign to hotels we call their hotel rooms to make sure the client is there, other than that, it's by your own gut. And don't worry about heathrow, AW wont' pass your details to immigration. I once lost my AW profile bc i breached their rules (accessing from overseas when my profile is UK based), and i had to create a new profile from zero while being in South East Asia as a tourist, nobody knew and AW doesn't care if yuo have the legal right to work there or not, they just wanna prove you are +18 and you are the girl in the photos and you are phisically in the country your profile says you are.
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Btw about AW, I know it is banned here in the US. I was thinking about signing up for it once I touch down in the UK, because I do see US girls who are UK based advertising their services on there. They still won't let me join even if I sign up while I'm in the UK?


yes, wait until you are here and make a profile, you won't have a problem as long as you are accessing from the UK and as long as they allow american nationality. You'll get more clients if you verify and verificiation process takes about 2 working days. No need to send anything to them, just take some photos as per their instructions, some with Id, some without id, and upload them on the site. As per advertising, i would stick to AW and Vivastreet only, those are the biggest. On VS the verification is pretty simpler than aw, its just for age verification. If i was you, as you only have a month, i would forget about agencies, parlours and dungeons and would just work independently from hotels. Since you still hv plenty of time, i would plan the whole trip in advance and book hotels now as you get better rates if booked in advance. We don't really do any screening here other than when goign to hotels we call their hotel rooms to make sure the client is there, other than that, it's by your own gut. And don't worry about heathrow, AW wont' pass your details to immigration. I once lost my AW profile bc i breached their rules (accessing from overseas when my profile is UK based), and i had to create a new profile from zero while being in South East Asia as a tourist, nobody knew and AW doesn't care if yuo have the legal right to work there or not, they just wanna prove you are +18 and you are the girl in the photos and you are phisically in the country your profile says you are.


Thank you so much!!!! I was a bit anxious to sign up for AW because I thought they will be on that same bs like Eros here in the US (giving away copies of our IDs to the feds and shit. Thank god I have always been too poor to advertise on there lol)

Yeah, I’m pretty open minded on what I wanna do in The U.K., so that’s why I’ve mentioned agencies/parlors/dungeons. So I guess it would be better for me to work Indy, huh? I would still like to dance at least. It’s just finding a club who doesn’t ask for working papers and it seems like most clubs in London don’t really ask for that since it’s such an international city. I guess imma just have to suck it up and be based in London lol. Like no disrespect to London itself, I wanna visit it badly! It’s just the higher living costs and the amount girls that are there is intimidating af! But I was once based in NYC and their market is HIGHLY saturated with girls lmao and I’ve managed to make a little bit of money.

Are you based in London?

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Thank you so much!!!! I was a bit anxious to sign up for AW because I thought they will be on that same bs like Eros here in the US (giving away copies of our IDs to the feds and shit. Thank god I have always been too poor to advertise on there lol)

Yeah, I’m pretty open minded on what I wanna do in The U.K., so that’s why I’ve mentioned agencies/parlors/dungeons. So I guess it would be better for me to work Indy, huh? I would still like to dance at least. It’s just finding a club who doesn’t ask for working papers and it seems like most clubs in London don’t really ask for that since it’s such an international city. I guess imma just have to suck it up and be based in London lol. Like no disrespect to London itself, I wanna visit it badly! It’s just the higher living costs and the amount girls that are there is intimidating af! But I was once based in NYC and their market is HIGHLY saturated with girls lmao and I’ve managed to make a little bit of money.

Are you based in London?

At the moment I'm scotland based (up north) but I was based in london for 3 years as a student and tbh i made very good money. I worked from home in a small studio in zone 3, which isn't as expensive as zone 1. Personally, i don't think one makes more money for being based in zone 1, i would avoid it at all costs simply bc accommodation is more expensive there. But if we coming from outside of london we normally tour in hotels in zone 1, as i still tour london sometimes now so always stay in zone 1 hotels there's some budget ones but you can only get a reasonable price if booked in advance. I have no experience working for dungeons or dance clubs, you should reach out to them and tell them your plan they may offer accommodation but if they allow you to take clients there then surely they'll want a comission, or maybe you can do 2 weeks hotel and 2 weeks of club.
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