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justgee84

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Advice needed on "first time punting" client
« on: 11 July 2013, 07:32:19 pm »
Hello, need some advice on a client as it started off as a dead cert decent guy, but now I don't know...

This guy contacted me on AW earlier this week wanting a non-sex booking (his morals-not mine) and we have a booking for tomorrow morning. He then changed his mind citing a need for "sexual release" and "primal urges" (made me laugh!)

Then the email came yesterday:

"I've never cheated on my wife and not would I ever consider it... But I can't wait to see you. I'm just a little nervous"


I sent the usual "it's safer than a fling.... Animal instinct... Human basic needs.... 100% discretion" blah blah blah and he relied it helped an it wa left at that.


Then this morning he started again with the nerves/needing reassurance. Apparently due to AW issues he has trawled the Internet looking for my contact details (even though he has already emailed me??) and has found some info on some obscure 3rd party site who have all my details from when I started working last year. He was quoting some stuff off an old profile and mentioned I sounded "new" and what my security measures were? And now he's asking if he can turn up in disguise and use a withheld number?

I've explained he's going a bit ott and he's at risk of losing his booking, but now I'm thinking of just cancelling the lot and leaving well alone... I've had a few problems with clients turning up unannounced at inappropriate times and have had to up my security.

The thing is, I kinda want to believe its his first escort booking... But can't help thinking he's gunna be a no-show and a tw... I've had four "new" client this week, which is why I'd like to hold the booking open to give him a chance...

What do people think? I've tried resorting to my gut feeling (which usually works!!) but I'm thrown by this one!

JG x

ameliahoney

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Re: Advice needed on "first time punting" client
« Reply #1 on: 11 July 2013, 07:38:24 pm »
My gut instinct would be not to see him. Even if he IS genuine he sounds like a lot of hassle. Why does he want to know about your security measures? Alarm bells would be ringing for me...

justgee84

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Re: Advice needed on "first time punting" client
« Reply #2 on: 11 July 2013, 07:43:15 pm »
That's what I thought... But I mentioned in my blog that they "had to be improved" and he was asking how... I shot him down saying nothing visible or intrusive an he seemed ok, never mentioned it again.

strawberry

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Re: Advice needed on "first time punting" client
« Reply #3 on: 11 July 2013, 07:44:21 pm »
He's more trouble than he's worth. At the suggestion of withheld number and disguise I'd have definitely cancelled, if not before. Whilst some clients do need to check out a couple of things, genuine clients won't do any of this - nervous or not.

I gave up 'coaxing' nervous newbies years ago, all it does is sap your attention and energies which are better spent with guys who don't need to come creeping up to your door looking like they are some criminal. And that's if he's genuine. Guys that require this level of 'hand holding' are highly likely not to turn up, and if they do go through with it highly likely to be very difficult in the bedroom.

If it were me I'd have cancelled long ago.


justgee84

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Re: Advice needed on "first time punting" client
« Reply #4 on: 12 July 2013, 07:16:20 am »
Well, all went quiet last night so wrote him off altogether... Glad I did as I've woken up with a killer sore throat  :-[

I might still see if be calls to confirm, and then just tell him I have to cancel... Just to see if e does follow through... But that seems a little nasty. Best drop him a line...